HELP! Have until Sunday to Decide...!

So I have been talking with my girlfriend about having her fuck a black guy for a long time. I am a 25 year old male, and she is 22 y/o white female. She begs me to let her fuck a big black cock when I am inside her. Basically, I have turned this into one of her own go-to fantasies.

It came up naturally, as black men seem to hit on her almost infinitely more than white men. I know this is often the case for more shapely white women, but my girl is quite thin. While she used to brush them off, she finally decided to give one guy her number. He never called.

A few weeks after that, another black man started hitting on her as she walked home from school. He said he was out of state, and did not know anyone in the area, and would love to take her out. This time they swapped numbers (so if he didn't call she could text or something). Well, about 2 weeks went by with no call, until yesterday. He said he could call her Sunday and they could go out and do something.

My girl has told me she will go for the date, cancel the date, or do whatever I feel comfortable with. I wonder if I should have her be up front with this guy about me. Should I tell him that its only a deal if I can watch? Should I let her go out and do it without me around, while I wait at home? Should I try to join in and have a threesome?

I have until Sunday to decide. What do you guys think?

i say let her go out with him alone and see what happens.why put the added presure on the date. but have her text you updates

i definitly agree with dirtyD : you BOTH know YET what you wan, at least, not him. let the things go their own way, but be clear with her to give him the good "informations", or signs, at the right moments if you want your fantasy becoming true.
and tell us !!!!!

Definately let her go out without you...at least for now. If she is upfront with him right away...it might scare him away. She should however plan on telling him shortly after. Again he might freak out if she waits to long...he might feel like she led him on...and not trust her.

Agreed with dirty...she should text you what is going on. Have her plan on a second date where she might take things further. At that point she should mention she is seeing someone, but that its under the "open relationship" type. Good luck and can't wait to read your updates.

Might I suggest taking your GF out shopping for a sexy outfit and shoes. I think it really helps set the mood and gives her the comfort that you are defintely okay with her dating.

If you ask people on this site if you should let you gf fuck another man, the response will undoubtably be "hell yeah!"

But seriously, if you love this girl and intend on staying with her, then the two of you should have a serious talk about you both are wanting from the experience. Make sure you both want the same thing, negotiate if necessary to find a middle ground, and then go for it!

If its just a one-time thing, then I would just let her go out by herself for some fun. She will probably feel less pressured that way and more likely to enjoy herself. She could mention you and your open relationship if it comes up.

If this is going to be more than a one-time thing then I would let her focus on getting to know the guy before relaxing with him. Maybe wait until the 2nd or 3rd date before letting him go all the way. She should definitely mention your open relationship at some point before she relaxs with him. I wouldnt mention you watching them until she has fucked him several times. He might freak out if she mentions it too soon.

Above all, be safe! Dont let him bareback her until he has been tested and she is sure he isnt relaxing with other girls.

Have fun and let us know how things progress. Im very jealous! Her pics are gorgeous! Im sure her soon-to-be black boyfriend is going to love that body bouncing up and down on his fat cock!

I wouldn't want anything to happen without me watching if I were you. Sure the guy might freak out and change his mind, but guys who wanna fuck are a dime a dozen. If that guy doesn't want you in the room, find one who's ok with it.

The black guys just wnat to fuck her -will she be putting out? I suggest that you stay out of the way and let them get friendly.

Keep us updated

Go for it. Guys are incredibly simple. Have her wearing something showing off that sexy body. Let them go out for takes to get the juices flowing. She should tell him to be honest, that you never know what a girl is really after. Have her ask him, when he saw her walking down the street, what was his first thought. She looks like a "nice" girl, or goddamn i want to tap that. Have her establish through teasing that she wants him to hit it pronto. Spontaneous sex is mind blowing. Most guys will follow through, don't complicate things. Have her bring him home. Tell him your her roommate. Have some night caps, access his shyness. Bait him in the "black guys are bigger rumor" see if he will whip it out. Have her end the argument by taking him in the other room, or bed room. Search him out, let him hit it regardless. Leave the door open, so that you can hear. Mid fucking have her tell him she so horny, and wants to get real naughty. That shes seen you getting out of the shower, and your tiny. She should nibble on his ear and beg him to show up the tiny white boy and hit it if front of you. She should tell him its OK, your down with it. aligning mirrors in the house, to see to inside the room, isn't a bad idea either. Just make sure your vantage point is not obvious or get caught rubbing one out.
ps dont be afraid to post more pic, your chick is smoking

I think you are a lucky mo fo.

I also liek the "roommate" idea of the prior poster, but it is a b.s. story that could pretty easily unravel if he later saw the two of you together. Too many complications.

One thing my girlfriend (now wife) used to do was go on dates with guys and tell them that she just caught her boyfriend cheating - and do the broken hearted damsel or the pissed off vixen routine. That way she always had the "I'm getting back with my boyfriend" thing to fall back on. I learned of this years later, of course.

Finally, let her go it alone, but have a safety call thing set up.

Enjoy - the anticipation is great, no?

If you both want this to be just about sex, be upfront with the guy about it and see what he says. It will save time and effort on your part. Plus for your relationship it would be better that it just be about sex and nothing else.

If the guy is all good with helping you play out your fantasy, go for it!

well its Sunday. What did you decide? I for one would want to be there for everything. At least until you guys have been at it for awhile. As someone already said, finding guys that want to have sex with her is easy. We never find it difficult to find someone for my wife, But the real question is what the two of you want and that takes communication.

Please let us know how things are going.

Any updates?