My Personal Journey Toward Creating a Hotwife

I posted some permisteral info on another thread. iwmwtcm then convinced me to start my own thread. Here is what I posted that prompted the request for a new thread:

About two years ago, I got really takes and told my then girlfriend all of my fantasies in great detail all at once. Needless to say she was completely overwhelmed.

Since then, I have made teeny-tiny hints and suggestions, but have overall backed off completely. I'm just now starting to see signs of progress. It helped that she's decided to work as a consultant for a well-known sex toy distributor. Anyway, here are some signs of progress:

-She recently tried a dildo a bit bigger than me and she liked it (it's probably no Jeff Stryker, though).

-She told me the other day that she had a "touch of Jungle Fever," although I had never mentioned any IR fantasies to her before.

-After telling me about the "Jungle Fever" she suggested naming her dildo after an African-American NFL player who has a show on the Travel Channel.

-Recently we did a role play where we had a pretend male "watcher." When I put her dildo in her pussy, she looked me in the eye and said "can that be 'the watcher.'"

-She just bought a new girth-enhancing sleeve that is going to make me bigger around than her dildo. We have yet to use it though.

Future plans:

-We haven't incorporated any "Jungle Fever" stuff into our bedroom play yet, but we will.

-I fully intend to eventually put the girth-enhancing sleeve on her dildo and use it on her while she is blind-folded. I know that sounds strange, but she goes crazy when she's got more than she realized inside of her (ie - "Do you KNOW how many fingers are in there?").

BTW, in the last post I called her my "then girlfriend" because she is now my wife.

I decided to add more and start the thread because a lot has happened recently.

I recorded something on the CurrentTV channel called "Sexiest Stories." My wife decided to watch it while I made dinner a little over a week ago. She doesn't watch porn, but from time-to-time will watch some erotica to get us in the mood.

"Sexiest Stories" had a segment on a 30-day challenge. The challenge was to have sex every day for 30 days. I'm not really sure what they said about it (like I said, I was cooking dinner), but whatever it was got her interested. She made the comment "if we had sex every day for 30 days, I could get you to do whatever I want." I didn't argue.

While we both realize that every day for 30 days is not realistic with our current schedules, we've been doing it at least every other day for the past week or so. I'm loving it because being a "g-spot" girl and not really a clitoral girl, the more sex she has, the more she wants it.

My plan is to give you some highlights of the last week or so, and then try to give a best recollection of Sunday. I realize that the weeks bullet points may not be the hottest thing to read, but Sunday was some FUCKING INTENSE experience/progress for a wannabe. I just hope that by the time I get a chance to write Sunday's story, I can still remember all the details.

I'll do my best to update soon!

Love it! Cant wait to hear more!

I've been reading your journal. I love it, but I'm only half way through. I'm a very slow reader.

Great start Ted! Glad you have started your own thread. I look forward to reading your updates.

Hi Ted, do carry on. You already know that me and mrs two are a bit further on but I have to tell you we are now doing stuff willingly - on both parts that when we first discussed seemed like just fantasy...

good luck!

the twos...

So after spending a good bit of time on picking a title for this thread, I now wish I could change it. I wish I could have written "...Toward Enabling a Hotwife." Creating sounds like I'm manipulating or powering her to do something. That's not what I want at all. In fact, I think that most of us agree that the only thing hotter than having your wife go along with a kinky suggestion, is when she suggests something really dirty herself!

Anyway, I'll continue trying to bring you up to speed:

Saturday April 3rd I was using The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! on her in the living room. We were interrupted by a knock at the door, and never got back to business.

Side note: through a great deal of trial and error we discovered that my wife's tight little pussy does like a good deal of girth, but she needs tapered toys to ease her into it. Her dildo is listed as 7.5"x5.5", but it's quite tapered. Hence the name, Mr. Slim.

That Monday (April 5) she learned about the challenge. She grabbed her dildo and said "we need to start where we left off." I, of course, was not going to deny her of this and we went straight to work. "Do you like how this big cock stretches out your pussy?" I asked. "It's not stretching it enough," was her response. I slid our new The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! (also tapered, you'll notice) over her dildo, loaded the bullet in and slid it right in. This was such a turn on because this was definitely the most girth I'd ever seen her take to that point. Also, she is not normally a very clitoral girl, but she was loving the bullet on her clit that day!

After a bit of working the dildo with the sleeve and bullet, she came HARD! She sometimes cries a little after a huge orgasm. This day she cried the most I have seen by a lot! The extra girth really pulled something out of her that day.

Thanks for all the comments folks. Please keep them coming. If you have any questions, please ask.

I'll add more to this later.

For the record, I'm not trying to sell any sex toys. In order for my wife to get sales credits, one would have to know her name. That's obviously not going to happen. I just thought it might be hotter if you saw exactly what we were using.

We had sex several more times throughout the week, and she was much dirtier and open-minded than usual. Here are some highlights:

- During one session I asked if she wanted to use a toy. She hastily decided that she wanted to use the dildo with the sleeve. This was crazy because she ordinarily takes a LOT of warm-up to accept a lot of girth. She really is turning into a slut for size.

- At one point while using the dildo with the sleeve, I said "Do you like that big black cock?" She replied "Yes." That was the first time race has entered our bedroom. Her reaction was as if she wasn't turned off, but wasn't really turned on. I think she finds some black guys attractive, but doesn't get off on interracial scenarios just because they are interracial. This is fine with me because I've never been a fan of interracial over anything else. But if she was into it, I would be too.

- She's not at all a clitoral girl. But since the challenge she has enjoyed varying degrees of stimulation on her clit. That's different because often she doesn't like any stimulation there at all. She still hasn't had a clitoral orgasm.

***** - Five Star Thread Ted!

Sunday 4/11

We went to bed upset with each other on Saturday night. Sunday morning we had to meet some friends for breakfast so we were powerd to act cordial. After breakfast, we talked a little and things were a bit better. Then I had to leave to go to a ballgame and I knew she had a meeting that afternoon. As she was getting ready for her meeting, she was sending me texts about how I needed to be home when she got there because she wasn't wearing any panties all day and she would be wearing a skirt.

Shortly thereafter she surprised me by sending a text picture of herself naked. I was at the ballgame trying to cover my erection. Part of me was hoping that no one else saw the pic. Part of me was hoping that everyone saw the pic. I texted back and told her that The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! was jealous that he hasn't had a chance to try the new sleeve. She said we would take care of that.

I went straight home after the game, and started touching myself while looking at the naked pic. I knew I could cum more than once without a problem, but I wanted to save it all for my wife. I got in the shower. Shortly after I got out of the shower my wife arrived home. I checked for underwear immediately. She kept up her end of the bargain.

I started to gently caress and kiss her. She said, "Let's get started, I've been thinking about this ALL DAY!" I said, "GOOD! Me too."

I told her what I had been up to before she got home. She really likes it when I masturbate and she is the object of my desire. I said, "so can I go first and cum all over your toy for lube?" We've done that before and she likes cum. So I build up and pull myself out right before orgasm to do some "edging." I felt a small orgasm, but no cum appeared at all.

Now it was her turn. I already had the sleeve on her vibrator, so I just slid it in. I assumed since the vibrator is such a strong stimulator of the g-spot, that she wouldn't want the bullet on her clit. I was wrong. In fact she worked her clit with the bullet until I worked the vibrator and sleeve deep enough that the bullet holder on the sleeve was touching her clit. Then I inserted the bullet into the sleeve.

"You wanna see my pussy get fucked by a huge cock, don't you?" said the wife. "Yes," I responded, rather shocked. She really gets off when I talk that dirty to her, but she rarely gets that explicit herself. "Is that the pizza boy fucking me?" she asked, referring to some dirty talk a few days earlier where a random pizza deliverer masturbated while watching us fuck. "Yes." Again, this was a pretty big deal, as this was only the second time that dirty talk had reached the point of her fucking someone else in my presence.

"You have to direct. You know, tell me and the pizza boy what to do," said the wife. I said "Ride that big fucking pizza boy cock!" I maneuvered to one side of her. I kept working the vibrator. I reached across her body, grabbed her breast and said "The pizza boy is gonna' play with your right tit while he's fucking you." I started working her other breast with my other hand and cock and said "I'm gonna' fuck your left titty!" She came hard.

I pulled the sleeve covered vibrator out and videoed her gaping pussy with my phone. I then videoed the sleeve covered vibrator next to my cock, sliding in and out of her pussy.

Now it was my turn again....

Sorry guys this is turning out to be longer than I thought. I will finish later.

Damn Ted! Youre making great progress! Cant wait to hear what happened next!

Down boy...down. Sorry I got a little excited. You and your wife are doing great. Its awesome that she likes the roleplay. Keep it up. Can't wait to read more of your progress.

Now it was my turn again. I had no problem sliding in right after she'd been working her vibrator with the sleeve. I told her how much I loved the feel of her pussy after a good stretching. I had her suck on the vibrator that had just been inside her, while I slid in and out of her freshly stretched vag.

Then I put the vibrator between her tits while I fucked her. "Do you like having your titties fucked while I'm fucking you?" I asked. "Yes," she moaned.

She started doing some dirty talk. I'd love to tell you what she said, but honestly, I "blacked out" from excitement. Next thing I know, I'm having the biggest and hardest orgasm of my life! I'm pounding my wife so hard on the floor, that it occurs to me I may be damaging her tailbone. She has only told me that she could feel the cum shooting out of my cock one other time. This time she said she could feel the cum AND she knew that it was a lot! Her pussy was a sloppy mess!

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iwmwtcm
Allen

Thanks for the encouragement guys! Like I said, if you have any questions, throw them out there.

Tuesday was pretty hot, but I don't think it will be as long as Sunday. Last night was interesting. I'll get those posted soon!

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No, she's not Asian. She's a blue-eyed, busty bubbly blond and she's way outta' my league.

I suppose I can tell you that it's Dhani Jones. His show Dhani Tackles the Globe starts seamister two on the Travel Channel Monday at 11est. If you want your lady to crush on a black guy, have her watch his show with you. I'm serious. Every woman who's seen the show has a thing for him.

I think everything you wrote is hot as fuck except I'm not big on the pregnancy part. But hey, to each his own.

I tried justifying putting pics and vids on here so long as they didn't have her face, but I can't do that without her permission. Maybe someday. Thanks for reading!

Cant wait to hear more! So now that you have her loving the big dildo and talking about the pizza boy fucking her, whats next? Threesome movies? Please Fuck my Wife movies? Interracial movies? Or maybe having some discussions about you fantasies again. Maybe tell her how it makes you when she talks dirty and pretends someone else is fucking her. Reassure her that you love her and it makes you feel close to her when she fantasizes like this with you. Encourage her to tell you any fantasies that she may have that might be along the same lines as yours. Who knows, maybe she will surprise you!

By the way, I love how you wont post pics or video of her without her agreeing first. I rspect that.

iwmwtcm

We tried the porn thing. She was a good sport. We went to the Hustler store downtown. The employee helped us pick out a more "female friendly" XXX flick. It was "Provacateur." She watched some of it, and just let me know that porn is not her thing. I've learned not to push it. I have another trick up my sleeve that will pop up here soon.

I think at this point, she's well aware of how turned on I get at the thought of her fucking someone else in front of me. She even knows that the thought of that permister having a huge cock turns me on even more. Right now, I think it's best if I just let things simmer until I feel more confident that this is our fantasy and not just her going along with my fantasy.

As far as transitioning things into a "real world" scenario, I did have one idea. Our relationship started out as a long-distance relationship. We used to really enjoy phone sex, and now that has become a thing of the past. I was thinking that maybe sometime in the future I could convince her to do some kind of threesome phone sex with another guy on speaker phone. I figured I would use Allen's tried and true "I had a dream" trick to bring it up. However, I really don't know exactly how that would work. Where would we find a guy? How would it work? Part of the problem is that, at least at first, we wouldn't want the guy to be the dominant permister in the role play. I would love to hear some suggestions on this!

Speaking of video, on Sunday 4/11, I forgot to add that after she came I made some video on my phone of the gape that the vibrator with the sleeve was creating as I slid it in and out of her pussy. I also did a little comparimister of my cock to the toy on video after I pulled the toy out and showed the gape. I LOVE MY WIFE!

Check out the permisterals adds on Craigslist. They have different sections for couples looking for couples, couples looking for a man, couples looking for a woman, etc.

Im sure you can find a permister willing to do a phone sex 3-way sort of thing. I bet you can find a LOT of them. Especially if you hint that it could go further in the future.

Tuesday 4/13

After a week of some seriously dirty talk and fantasies, I wanted to remind my wife that we could still make love and that I didn't need toys and role play to enjoy sex with her.

While I made dinner, I had burned our The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!. After dinner I used a The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! with the oil to massage her back and legs and ass. I was doing "sweet talk" as opposed to dirty talk. Telling her how much I loved her body and her smile, permisterality, etc.

She turned onto her back. I thought she would want me to massage her on the front side, but she said she wanted something in her. I put one finger in and continued with the sweet talk.

"How many fingers do you have in me?" she asked. "One," I replied. "I need another one," she said. I slid a second finger in and let the sweet talk get a little more dirty. I began telling her how much I love her pussy and how it's the only one I ever want.

After a few minutes of this, she demanded "I need another finger." I slid in a third finger. My wife then rolled onto her side with her legs closed as she often does when she's ready to orgasm. "Tell me a story," she ordered.

I began telling her a story about her getting picked up by a random guy and a dance club. I'm still trying to keep it as clean as possible.

Shortly after my story gets to the part where she is fooling around with him at his place, she asks "do you have a friend you call?" "I have a roommate," I cleverly responded. "Does he have a big one?" she asked. "Yes," I replied. "Good," she said "because I need a cock in my ass!" She grabbed my cock and started rubbing it around her back door.

At this point she was really going and I knew an orgasm was coming soon. She asked "is there anyone else you can call?" "Yes," I said. "Good because I need someone to play with my tits!" So I started kneading her breast with my other hand and she came almost instantly. It was amazing!

Careful Ted...you might unleash an natural here. She is getting hotter and hotter into this roleplay...she might actually want to go through with it??? Then what?

This is great for you two. I like it...I like it a lot!

Craigslist, of course, but my wife has a general attitude toward Craigslist that will make that a very tough sell. Also, in the event that we do find a phone sex partner, I'm trying to figure out what that would sound like and how it would work. I suppose those are things that I have plenty of time to figure out.




I think it's a pretty big leap from fantasy to reality for women. If we do anything with real people anytime soon, it will be because she suggested it. I'm still trying to figure out if it's her fantasy too, or if she's just enjoying going along with my fantasy.

I really do appreciate your input and encouragement, Allen. If Erika has any insight or suggestions for me, I'd love to hear it. It's always nice to get a woman's perspective.

Friday April 16

After I made dinner, we quickly got down to business. She told me that she wanted to use her dildo with the sleeve. Didn't even need to use the dildo without the sleeve to warm her up. It makes me wonder if I even do anything for her anymore, but I'm afraid to ask.

I was still in "sweet talk" mode, and was being gentle with her dildo. She was having trouble getting to orgasm. She asked me to tell her a dirty story. She knew that I liked reading erotica online, but was generally scared to show her what I liked. Today, I could tell she was aroused enough to get into a story that I liked.

In anticipation of this day, a couple of weeks ago, I had saved The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! into a Word document and changed all of the "c-words" into "pussy". So I grabbed my laptop (we were out of black ink). I began to read the story.

I think it was a combination of being close to an orgasm already and having too much caffeine that day, but she kept yelling at me "Hurry up! Get to the good parts!" (I thought women generally liked the build up, but what do I know.) I was skipping paragraphs, but still trying to "set the scene" so she wouldn't get too freaked out. She just kept yelling at me.

Eventually I got to the point where all the guys started rubbing her boobs and she came right away. She has sensitive breasts and loves getting attention from multiple stimulators, so I can't say that I'm surprised.

Now it was my turn and I had her finish reading the story to me until I came. I was just happy that the story didn't freak her out.

Afterward we discussed what she liked and didn't like about the story. She liked all the guys' hands on her boobs, of course. She said she liked that the husband took her pants off for her. (I get a lot of mixed signals. Just the other day she had said she liked it when I was sweet and she set the tone for dirtiness.) She said she liked that one guy had his cock in her mouth, while the other was servicing her pussy. She did say that 11 inches was kinda' ridiculous. I suppose when you're still getting comfortable with accommodating 7.5" that's a legitimate thing to say.

Side Note 1: I was reading back through some of the old posts and I have a correction. On Tuesday 4/11, I quoted my wife as saying she needed one "in my ass." That is obviously a misquote on my part. "backdoor" is the only word she is comfortable with using to describe anal play.

Side Note 2: We watched this week's episode of Dhani Tackles the Globe and a few minutes into it she said "how can anyone not want to fuck him?"

Females: hard wired at birth to be HOT!

I think I might have to find that show and watch it with my wife. Hope to hear of anything you two might be doing this weekend.

Update:

After her period, she had a health issue that kept us from sex for two weeks! We broke the streak last night, but it was nothing crazy.

However, the IR thing came up twice last week:

1. Our cable box has been screwing up lately. On Tuesday she realized that Dhani Tackles the globe was not recorded Monday night. She kept going on and on about how upset she was because Dhani was supposed to be wearing a loincloth in that episode.

2. Thursday morning we had an appointment scheduled for the cable guy. My wife was going to go to work, and I was going to go in a little late. While I was in the

Sorry!

While I was in the shower, I asked my wife to answer the phone in case the cable guy called. Sure enough, he called while I was in the shower. My wife got off of the phone and said "he sounded black, maybe I should stick around."

Hey Ted,

How did the cable appointment go? Did your wife stay home for the appointment? How hot would that be if she did stay around and he was black...oh and he fucked her. The last part being the most important.

No, she didn't. Yes, that would've been super hot! And he was black.