Quoting: bpop
I think you might also benefit from making sure you do a *LOT* of housework right now. To show her how much you appreciate her. And you can say that to her too, if you want, that you're doing it for that reamister. (Not "appreciate what you did", rather "because you appreciate her.")
Quoting: bpop
If she has a tendency to not be direct about what she wants, you have a great opportunity right now (based on what has happened) to tell her that you'd really like her to say explicitly what she wants, that you would really like that, and that you'll do your best to make it happen.
Funny you should say these two things, because that's kind of how it played out last night.
She's slowly getting more demanding with the housework, and I've been thanking her for it. We were both a little takes last night and she confessed that she liked where this was going, but didn't get how I could be happy. My takes brain thought "well, now or never" and I laid it all out to her like this:
"We've had periods in our relationship where I was the dominant one - which have never turned out well I might add - but the truth is, I am and have always been submissive. I like the fact that I'm doing all the housework while you relax. I like the fact that you haven't let me cum in days. I like it when you smack me on the ass, and I liked it when you smacked me in the face for yelling at you (Argument we had months ago.. hearing this made her burst out laughing). I'd even like it if you were meaner. Basically, I do like this and am very happy."
She asked me a few questions, then smiled and said "well, we can definitely make this work!" before spending the next 30 minutes or so sitting on my face while she watched a movie. Today she's been doing less asking me to do chores and more telling, with the occasional "NOW!" if I don't move fast enough. She occasionally stops me, pushes me to my knees, and rubs my face in her crotch/ass before telling me to get back to work. I'm in heaven, and the house is becoming spotless.
I haven't mentioned cuckolding yet because she's definitely going to have to be SLOWLY warmed up to that idea, but this is progressing faster than I thought it would! She's very slowly starting to open up about her fantasies and ideas, I think hearing how embarrassing mine were made her a little bolder.
My story isn't nearly as exciting as most of the ones here but I will keep you updated!