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start with playing around with orgasm denial (of you)..let her feel sexy and in control ..it helps get them there.. in the cuck mindset later

You are out of luck for now. My advice is, drop it for at least a year or two. You are correct that the fantasy won't go away. But, that isn't the end of the world: lots of people have fantasies they don't/can't/don't-want-to realize. And, who knows what she will feel like in a year? People change. And recently maried women change A LOT as they get older.
darslangly

Definately back off of it for now. My wife use to get angry at me for bringing it up. I got way to pushy. At first she was kind of turned on by it, but said she would never do it. I kept bothering her about it...eventually she was very turned off by it and then she began to resent it.

It took me a couple years to eventually realize this fantasy. Although it was not in the way I originally wanted, she did cuckold me. Your wife knows your fantasy, and I am sure she will not forget it. Give her your constant love, reassurance, and attention. She needs to feel that you love her and only her. Use this site like I did...as a supliment for your fantasy. Maybe...just maybe after some time...she might do it. But don't bet on it.

Back off dude...My wife really resisted, thought I just wasn't that into her or was pushing away, then went out and cheated behind my back...It was a vulgar experience for both of us and we are working very hard to put things back on track...Women are VERY different from men, and don't always understand our fantasies...Not saying all women, but a lot of women. I heard the same from my wife about "wishing she was enough to satisfy me." Truth is she was and always has been, but I like to take things to the extreme.

<< I haven't mentioned it in at least 6 months, and am wondering if anyone knows how I can bring it up again to test the waters but saying it so that she doesn't get angry, a vague way I can get her to at least think about it if not talk about it. I have looked at this site at least a few times a week for the past 2 years and I KNOW this fantasy isn't going away anytime soon....

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!! >>

Question for you... Would you be okay with it if she fooled around behind your back and didn't tell you for quite a while? The reamister I'm asking is, if it would be okay (and there's a risk in it, obviously) you might try something like this:

Try being really sweet. Almost to the point of being overly sweet. It's a fine line, of course. You can submissive, sort of along the lines of "whatever you want, dear." Etc.

Some women will be turned off by that enough to want an "alpha" guy after it goes on for a while.

Just a thought.

Put your relationship first. I'm assuming there's a reamister you married her-- you love her. If anyone gives you advice on here otherwise, don't listen to them...they're putting their orgasm first.

And for that matter, I wouldn't change who you are either. You don't have to stop being an alpha male or be submissive outside of bed (and even then, only because you like it).

As much as cuckolding is "cheating", that part of it is usually just a fantasy, and it really needs to be an agreement between you and your wife. If you're anything like me, it'll only work if she's enjoying it every bit as much as you are. This might not be possible ever, or it might not be possible now. My advice would be to make sure she realizes that she's more than enough for you and makes you really happy. Over time, ask her what she fantasizes about. As discussions come up, mention that you fantasize about her being with someone else. And that it's just that-- a fantasy. And if it never happens, fine. But if she feels comfortable with the idea someday, it's an open door.

Thanks for all of your help guys! It's definitely what I needed to hear, even if it wasn't what I wanted to hear...

Doe anyone have any good success stories on how they're wives were COMPLETELY against it and then they gave up for a few years and then it happened??? Love to hear about this.

I have been lucky enough to have my wife cuckold me after she told me it would never happen. It only lasted about a year, but it was definately worth it. A lot of details go into it...if you are interested in reading...

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/36_60320_0.html

I have a hot tub. I brought over a bull friend who knew the plan. Get a few takes in her, I started fooling around with her. The bull started out slowly touching her leg in the water. Soon she was stroking his big bull cock . Next she sat on his lap . The rest was history!! He frequently comes over and I get to watch!!!

In my case, what worked was the constant drip...drip...drip talking about it with her. I didn't push or get worked up or anxious...there were a few times when she was upset with me for constantly bringing up other men when we were in bed together, but over time, my wife has accepted that I really do like being cuckolded, that it doesn't mean we love each other less, and that it's ok for her to do

The prerequisite though I think, is that you need to start with a woman who enjoys male company, likes flirting, likes being the centre of attention

Guapokld:
Not knowing very much about your private social life it is hard to give you pointers, but I would suggest that you must make it tempting and easy for her to cuck you. You must try to create situations where she would be tempted to maybe give it a try, particularly knowing that you are in total agreement with it. I have on occasion done many things to tempt my wife, such as leaving her on a blanket on the beach while I went to get cigarrettes (and taking my sweet time about it), and had it pre-arranged that a very handsome young guy would start coming on to her while I was away. At a party leaving her long enough for a wolf or two to start hitting on her...at a bar/lounge long enough for some horny guys to start asking her to dance...of course I acted very innocently about any of the situations, but little by little she began to ease up and she became braver and braver. Eventually it happened (she cucked me) , and oh what a happy day it was!!!!!
If you want it to happen you must load yourself up with a lot of patience and be conning enough to present her with very tempting situations in which she can have some sexy fun knowing that you would love her all the more for it. When she feels confident enough that she is pleasing you and bettering your relationship, she may open up to the idea. After all, it is a win-win situation for all involved. You get to enjoy your new HOTT wife, she gets to enjoy the extra attention and extra sex provided by a strange cock, and her bull gets to enjoy drilling his cock into your wife's pussy with your full blessings and total approval.

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