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Hello to everyone,
I've been a visitor to this site for a long time, but I finally got around to creating my own account. So here's a brief account of my experiences.
I've been together with my wife for 3 years now. We met at my university where she was an exchange student. She was free with her partners, and I had a lot of experiences from online casual sex sites. Suffice to say, we weren't exactly new on the scene of casual encounters.
After her arrival, she quickly went through about 4 guys, and then we met. Shortly after, we became involved. We both understood the nature of our drives, and said that if a party somewhere one of us found a moment of passion with someone, then it would be a shame to let it pass. Who wants to let go of a good one night stand, right?
It turned out we were both content in each other, and we satisfied all our needs within the couple. Despite a few opportunities, neither of us did anything 'extracurricular,' as we call it. That was the norm.
I decided to move back with her to her country, but there was going to be a three month seperation period for me to work and get some money together. During this three month seperation period, she had a couple of small adventures.
She was interested in relaxing with this guy before she came to my university, and when she got back home, he asked her out for a take. At this point it had already been a month that we were apart, so while she was there she let him know that my existence did not preclude possible sex. This led to her going back to his place, and you all know what follows from there.
The other encounter she had was while on vacation at the beach, and she ran into one of her old partners. The last time she had sex with this guy, he had a girlfriend. This time, she was the one involved, and he wasn't, so she felt like returning the favor. After a few takes, they retreated to a small corner of the beach and spent a few hours licking and sucking each other.
Fast forward to my arrival in her country. She told me about her encounters, and that was fair enough because I had given her permission. We both understand needs when the other isn't there. Even though now, two years later, we both have permission to do as we please, neither of us do. We fantasize about it, but neither of us has ever had encounters with strangers while we are around each other.
So here's the question: Is this really cuckolding? Is it enough to make you a true cuckold if someone else just satisfies her needs while you are seperated by oceans, and only then? I'd like your opinions. Neither of us are into offense, or femdom, or a fixation on BBCs. We just like sex, preferably fun, and with whoever sparks our interest. I love the idea of her relaxing with other guys, and regularly masturbate to the thought. The stories she told me of her two encounters are still some of my favorite material, even though they happened years ago. So does it really count if we only do these things in the absence of the other?
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 Great story pal ! THE SLUTS, HOOKERS, WHORES, TEENS, HOUSEWIVES, HOT MUMS !
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All true = )
Here's a link to thread I made to post all of the photos...
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See, we have an arrangement. We're both free to have lovers, but it's strictly on the side. We don't do threesomes, or take pictures with our lovers to show the other. Our extramarital flings have nothing to do with the marital sexual life. We don't do chastity, or offense, deny the other sex, or even really long term lovers. We tell each other if it happens, and maybe one or two small details, but no huge stories.
We're both interested in taking lovers from time to time, the problem is that at base we are a bit lazy. When we're both there, then we just please each other in the most basic sense. We don't really go out looking. I've posted a few things online looking around, but a guy on his own gets next to no replies. She doesn't like online meets, because she prefers sex to be natural and spontaneous. Any thoughts on how things could progress? I would like to start doing things myself, because she's vey competitive and told me she'd actually try to beat me as a matter of pride, 2 guys to 1 girl, if I started. Any advice from bulls/cucks out there?
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an empahatic no in the strict sense of the phenomenon
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oceancruiser
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Quoting: ProfessorB See, we have an arrangement. We're both free to have lovers, but it's strictly on the side. We don't do threesomes, or take pictures with our lovers to show the other. Our extramarital flings have nothing to do with the marital sexual life. We don't do chastity, or offense, deny the other sex, or even really long term lovers. We tell each other if it happens, and maybe one or two small details, but no huge stories. We're both interested in taking lovers from time to time, the problem is that at base we are a bit lazy. When we're both there, then we just please each other in the most basic sense. We don't really go out looking. I've posted a few things online looking around, but a guy on his own gets next to no replies. She doesn't like online meets, because she prefers sex to be natural and spontaneous. Any thoughts on how things could progress? I would like to start doing things myself, because she's vey competitive and told me she'd actually try to beat me as a matter of pride, 2 guys to 1 girl, if I started. Any advice from bulls/cucks out there? Go for it ! But watch out, it's risky business ! Doing things together isn't always that simple. If she goes on her own etc., you never know what can happen. Your kind of Lady is the one that could fall in love someday with a lover and that would not be what you're looking for. You should try lifestyle together first I think. THE SLUTS, HOOKERS, WHORES, TEENS, HOUSEWIVES, HOT MUMS !
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She's objectionable to the idea of doing it together. The reamister is that I'm the love half of the equation. We "make love," as much as I hate the clichéd meaning of that term. With strangers, it's fucking. The only two times she's done anything with anyone, she thanked them and immediately walked out the door. She's not really the fall in love easily type. It took quite a long time to develop a bond, and we're not looking for any regular lovers. It's pretty much one night stands all around.
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Thug, I agree in the strictest sense, it isn't. Thankfully, I have little to no interest in having it occur in the strict sense!
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I don't think this is cuckolding unless you get a charge out of the offense aspect of her going with other guys somehow. It just sounds like an open marriage to me.
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It all depends on your definition of cuckolding. There seems to be many different definitions on this website.
If she had sex with another man, then Yes, you are a cuckold.
However, in terms of the cuckold fetish, most people on this website consider cuckolding to include the husband being faithful to the wife, some type of offense (mild or wild), and some type of denial for the husband (whether on purpose or not).
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ProfessorB
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I DO get a thrill out of her being with other guys, but we don't really humiliate or deny. I came because I get an extra thrill out of what she does. An open marriage to me is just an everyone does what they want sort of affair, whereas I get more thrill out of what she does than what I do. I enjoy candaulism, and thinking about her with other guys. I just don't want her to humiliate me, because, well, there's not really anything to humiliate about. I've never failed to please and my penis is normal sized. I don't really get off on it anyways...
I just haven't seen many people that enjoy the sharing without the offense, and was wondering if anyone else was similiar...
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She seems to be happy for the moment...she occasionally has the desire to find someone new, though she generally prefers to stay in, so it doesn't happen often...
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She's expressed some interest in a former coworker of hers, but he's only in town a few times a year...He's coming back in about a month, though...
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Quoting: ProfessorB I love the idea of her relaxing with other guys, and regularly masturbate to the thought. The stories she told me of her two encounters are still some of my favorite material, even though they happened years ago. So does it really count if we only do these things in the absence of the other? Basicall, and per definition, you are a cuckold. For me, you are cuckold on a higher level since you enjoy it all. Me too have this increadible turn on thinking about my gf and other men You are a cuckold A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women |
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Quoting: ProfessorB I just don't want her to humiliate me, because, well, there's not really anything to humiliate about. Just a comment... there are so many extreme people here on this site ... and if all this extremes are turn ons for them ... then ok ....BUT .... some of us are much more moderate There is a term called 'Cucky Angst' which is all about the stomack pain, butterflies, worrying, not beng able to think about anything else while she is at it, and all other 'angst related' feelings involved. One of them is maybe also the offense of her just there and then choose another to have sex with... So offense in this respect do not necessarely mean that a cuckold has to eat cum, or get fucked up his ass, or lick the pussy of his lady in law...  There is a aspect of social offense in cuckolding. Some basic we have from younghood saying that a woman should stay only with her man, and that something else is not aceptable. Futher, that the man in a relationship like that is a poor man pityfull man - humiliated man Just some cmmments: But maybe from such aspects you are humiliated (at least you feel this, and its a part of your cucky angst)?? A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women |
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Quoting: norwegian There is a term called 'Cucky Angst' which is all about the stomack pain, butterflies, worrying, not beng able to think about anything else while she is at it, and all other 'angst related' feelings involved. One of them is maybe also the offense of her just there and then choose another to have sex with... I suppose offense is a slight part of the overall background noise. I felt more of the jealousy and the desire to reclaim what's 'mine'. Quoting: norwegian or lick the pussy of his lady in law... Never heard that one before. That actually happen to anyone? :P Feel free to contact by e-mail or MSN/Se sentir libre de me contacter par mail ou MSN |
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You know Professor, there are a lot of extreme fantazies on this sire. There is one string https://www.cuckoldplace.com/2_66096_0.html here on site where a woman is telling a story about how her lady some how gets involved...and of course, one of the extreme guys tell his story about this A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women |
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Quoting: norwegian You know Professor, there are a lot of extreme fantazies on this sire I've run across quite a few. I'm more than happy to live and let live as long as they do the same =) Feel free to contact by e-mail or MSN/Se sentir libre de me contacter par mail ou MSN |
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By the way professor....your wife is beautiful....your a lucky guy....especially since she fucks others....working on getting mine to do the same....very erousing fantasy....and soon to be reality Like her hat...if you through in a cigar too, it would be even more sexy (if possible ) My gf do not smoke, only sometimes when we take....or when she is stressed....would love to see her like in this picture....a little nervous trying to tell me that she finally fucked someone... A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women |
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Quoting: norwegian By the way professor....your wife is beautiful....your a lucky guy....especially since she fucks others....working on getting mine to do the same....very erousing fantasy....and soon to be reality Thanks! It has been a long time since she has been with someone else, and it's only been when I'm away for a while. She HAS expressed open interest in someone lately, but he's not around frequently... Quoting: norwegian Like her hat...if you through in a cigar too, it would be even more sexy (if possible ) She gave me that hat for our first Christmas together. It was the only thing we that could hide her eyes! Feel free to contact by e-mail or MSN/Se sentir libre de me contacter par mail ou MSN |
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Nice hat Just wanted to post you this one...when there is some tension, she smokes some times Mine is soon there....now its all about teasing.... i checked out your pictures on the other string...very sexy girl A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women |
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Quoting: norwegian Nice hat Just wanted to post you this one...when there is some tension, she smokes some times Mine is soon there....now its all about teasing.... i checked out your pictures on the other string...very sexy girl Mine is recovering her drive...soon she may seriously consider it. Glad you liked her photos =) Feel free to contact by e-mail or MSN/Se sentir libre de me contacter par mail ou MSN |
reno_03us
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she is really hot .....has she had bbc?
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ProfessorB
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No she hasn't...she's interested, because she's never been with a black man, but at the same time she is far from obsessed with it.
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reno_03us
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u need to get her to try it she is to hot not to have it
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tinycock
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Great story! And your wife looks fantastic!
I guess technically speaking, you are both swingers, if you also have outside sex. Certainly she is a "hotwife" in that she is free to seek fun outside the marriage.
You don't have to get off on femdom or humliation to be in such a relationship (but it helps!). In my view, if she had sex without you while you were together (albeit in sparate places), then she has technically cuckolded you.
IF she ever does really do it with another man again, then it only seals the deal. If she doesn't, well, you seem ot have fun using it as fantasy fuel, so why not???
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ProfessorB
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Quoting: reno_03us u need to get her to try it she is to hot not to have it She's interested, though not to the point of actively seeking it. Quoting: tinycock I guess technically speaking, you are both swingers, if you also have outside sex. Certainly she is a "hotwife" in that she is free to seek fun outside the marriage. Well, I don't have much extramarital sex, but it isn't from lack of trying. What we do is legalized cheating in a way. Discrete and seperate adventures on the side. Feel free to contact by e-mail or MSN/Se sentir libre de me contacter par mail ou MSN |
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Update: The wife was being a bit dodgy about going out tonight with some "people." Turns out the guy she used to work with she has a thing for is going to be there. Here's to seeing how it turns out...
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Sounds to me like what you have is something you enjoy.
Who gives a cuckolds brownie what it's called.
Don't try to label it and hold yourself to the constraints of what you think that means.
Enjoy life and that' beautiful woman. Fuck the rest.
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Quoting: ProfessorB Turns out the guy she used to work with she has a thing for is going to be there Professor....keep us updated A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women |
