I think it is going to happen!!

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good luck. Let us know how it turns out.

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jjack69,
0ow is the time to shower her with love. Assure her that nothing she does with him will harm your relationship. Convince her that your love for her will only increase. Send her flowers during the week. And when she does finally do it, make sure you hold her and love her until she realizes how happy she is making you.

You better be careful dude. She is obviously doing this because you want her to, and she is enjoying only the sexual aspect of it. It is possible that she will lose all respect for you once she actually has sex with someone else. There is nevervousness and excitement built in here, and it could boil over either way towards resentment, or if youre lucky a respect for you as a cuckold.

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Sounds like you are taking the right steps. For me it was a very slow process, and at time my wife would get mad at me for bringing it up. I backed off many times, and it got heavy at times as well. I think for my wife she just came into her sexuality. She became curiouse what it would like to be with another guy, since she had only me for that last 10+ years. Bring in our neighbor/best friend...someone we could both trust...and the next thing you know, they are fucking.

Anyway, good luck with your adventures. Hope to hear any updates as they come along.

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Hi jjack69,
Thanks for updating us this far. I'm a bit like Allen above. For me too, it was a very long process - probably a couple of years. In fact, it really only became a serious reality for us when I joined this site and we made contact with a guy whom my wife has now met up twice with. At first for us, my wife couldn't understand why I would want her to relax with other men and for a long time it was just a fantasy we indulged in during sex. Eventually I got my wife to look at this website with me (I think it was about the time Allen started posting, because I was following his thread closely), and she realised that there were plenty of men out there like me. I told her "don't analyse it because we'll go crazy, let's just do it". Since then, as I mentioned, she has met with a guy twice and is planning on having a "very naughty" weekend with him at the end of this month. One thing she has been particular about is that he lives in another town - she hasn't as yet wanted to meet up with anyone in the same city as us. That might change, but for now, she is very happy with the arrangement she has.
Without going into details about feelings and emotions on the occasions she has been with him, I can firmly say, that she is enjoying herself immensely and is keen to make up for lost time. Her self-confidence is huge and there is no way she will stop what we have started. We liken our situation to her being on a lead, which means she is free to roam and do whatever she wants, but always with me at the other end of the lead for her to come back to. I would also say, and I see it repeated in this forum a lot, that communication is so important - don't stop talking to your wife about it, but give her the time she needs to get used to the idea. Good luck.

jjack69,
Dont' worry about things going slowly. Its probably the best way for things to go. But watch out when things start going...you might not be able to keep up. I can understand the small town thing...and it is prob. best to find someone from outside of town...as they say "don't cuckolds brownie where you eat"

For us, my best friend/neighbor was our best choice, but we have to be careful because we have a lot of mutual friends and our families all know each other.

Anyway, keep things going for you two, and I am sure that the slow process with eventually lead to a "well worth the wait" time for you two. Hope to hear of more to "cum".

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Your ongoing saga's got me being nostalgic about the first time my wife was out with her new boyfriend and I was fully expecting to be a cuckold that night. I was so dam horny until she got home! I cannot remember how many times I had to jack off thinking about her and the guy together! Wow, what a night....when she finally got home I wanted to just eat her alive! Dude, these are times you will alway remember in such an erotic way! Good luck and enjoy the ride...I certainly have!

I can relate to so many of the things you have said in your posts jjack69. I am another man who took a good couple of years encouraging and persuading his wife that I'd like to make the cuckold fantasy come true. My wife's exploits have been well documented on this website, so I won't go back over them now, suffice to say that the "cuckold angst" you described got the better of me after Debbie's first extra-marital fuck.

My wife dated a much younger guy, a customer from the shop she worked in at the time. She was 35, he was 23. I under-estimated this young guy's stamina and was a bit shocked to discover that in the short time between them leaving a bar and her coming home, he had fucked her 3 times. I enjoyed hearing about Debbie's evening in bed that night and I fucked my newly "unfaithful" wife eagerly. We discussed future liamisters and I agreed that Debbie should carrying seeing this lad as her toy-boy lover, her "bit on the side", once or twice a week as and when her shifts permitted and even stay at his, perhaps once a month or so.

Gradually though, in the cold light of day, that angst you mention took over. I loved the anxious feelings in my stomach, knowing my wife was out being fucked by another man and yes, it was a bizarre mix of arousal and jealousy, but after a day or two, I was overwhelmed by insecurity. I worried that this young guy had fucked Debbie so well, she wouldn't want me anymore. I was fearful of all sorts of stupid things : he must have had a better body than me (I'm tall and underweight) - what if he had a bigger cock than me? What if Debbie fell in love with him and left me for him? What if he wanted her to leave me? He was apparently a stocky, cocky guy, not afraid to use his fists and I'd have been no match in a fight. I explained my fears to Debbie and although she said all the right things, I begged her not to see him again. She readily agreed, as we'd already said that if either of us were unhappy with the situation it stopped, but it did cause us to have a few sombre days. Debbie felt dirty and used, especially as this guy had not rushed to call her after their night out. She vowed never to do it again.

Hindsight is a wonderful thing, and in retrospect I should have weathered the storm and let things take their course. I wished later that they had carried on seeing one another for awhile, that my wife had had her young bit on the side fuck her on a regular basis for a few weeks or months. I thought I'd blown it, but I did occasionally introduce the possibility of her doing it again to our love-making in later years. She said initially that she wouldn't "go down that road again", but I'm pleased to say that, 9 years later, my wife has been with two other men so far this year, with a third one likely in the not too distant future. I am 51 now, my wife's 44 and I think we've matured and see our marriage as unshakeable. Yes, I still feel that jealousy and anxiety when I know Debbie has just been fucked elsewhere, but there's no insecurity now. I have even let my wife break our two original ground rules. We agreed way back at the beginning that she shouldn't relax with men I know and that she would always use condoms. In May, a former work-mate of mine, who had been chatting to Debbie online, pumped his load deep into my wife's pussy at his flat whilst his wife was out and I later had my first cream-pie and "sloppy seconds".

We are both older and wiser now and I can't see me having a problem now with Debbie fucking other men. I guess it won't stop until she's too old for other men to fancy.
Peter C

bumping this thread up to the top!
Peter C

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Damnit...you won. If I knew we were racing???...haha.
Congrats on becoming a cuckold...I hope to maybe later this week. Tomorrow the wife goes in for her check-up to see if her procedure took. If all goes well, she will be available two days after...they recomend two days after the check-up..(they have to put a dye in her, and the check-up can be a little invasive)...before she has sex.

jjack69...great to hear things went somewhat the way you and the wife wanted...can't wait to hear the next chapter!!! Thanks for sharing.

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Hey jjack69, Great to hear it's all on again. My wife has bought lingerie to wear for her nights out without me. I have told her that there is no budget for that sort of thing - she can buy all the lingerie she wants and I'll gladly go without some of my treats

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amazing... so you're in, man! Enjoy the ride and remember "slippery when wet" ;)
Panos

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jjack, I can tell that you're working hard to deal with the jealousy emotion. Try to keep making her feel encouraged. You can share the emotion with her, but try to keep it on the level that you're dealing with it, rather than feeling overwhelmed by it and want her to stop.

And relax and enjoy the ride! Don't get too worried about her getting so much sex, and denying you. Why? Well... weren't you saying earlier that you wanted her to put you into chastity? And to dominate you, and call you a cuckold?

So relax, it's okay. If she turns you into a confidante, you'll get to enjoy the view, to see how a woman really thinks and how she approaches sex. That's incredibly powerful knowledge, you know.

And when she's frustrated, she turns to you to get laid. Sounds pretty good to me!

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jjack, I'm sitting here listening to my wife and her boyfriend in our bedroom for the second time tonight. He just brought her to her second orgasm of this round. I am soooo good with this. I am in chastity, so sloppy seconds are only a fantasy, but I got a sweet creampie after their first round, so all is good. They just kissed good night, so I won't get to taste her until the morning. What a night! I hope you get to experience this- we've been married for 32 years and have complete trust in each other (well I guess I have trust in her- she has me in chastity <LOL>). I'm cooking breakfast for her and her lover in the morning, and they will be seeing each other again next weekend, so I won't be allowed to cum for at least a couple weeks. It's worth it. Hang in there, and keep talking with your lovely wife. This can and does work. Let us know how you two work this out.

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