Journal - from traditional sex life to ???

Last Saturdays plans changed again, but not for the worse. We actually went to a comedy show in SF's Northbeach neighborhood, near Columbus and Broadway. If you know the area you will know that it is an area with lots of sex shops, strip clubs, and the like. We had some time to ******* so we went walking around and visited a sex toy store. My wife enjoyed brousing all of the sex toys. We didnt buy anything but we did spend some time looking at the different strap ons that she could use on me. We also looked at the dildos (holy crap they have some big ones out there)! I wanted to get her one of the 7 or 8 inch ones but she thinks they are way too big. They look to me to be about 50% thicker than I am so I understand her concern She also doesnt want to give me any reamister for me to think I am too small for her. What a great wife. Im going to get her one soon anyway!

Oh hell, just heard about this on the radio today. I went to the web site and ordered some new toys. Does your wife have an Ipod, an MP3 Player, or it even hooks up to the home stereo. The other toy goes to just ambient noise in the room.

I bought the G-spot one...and the one that goes to the ambient noise...I hope they work well....

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Very interesting, Allen. I'll have t)o check that out when I get more time.

Its been about a week and a half since me and my wife had sex. Too many projects and some illness around my house lately. She has been telling me the last few days that we will have time in the evening but it hasnt worked out. When I got home from work yesterday she was telling a story about how her batteries died in her new favorite vibrator (thanks again for the suggestion Allen) right before she got off! She had to start all over with a different vibrator. I told her I was glad she was able to get off and she smiled and hugged me saying that we would get to bed early. She told me that she needed the "real" stuff. But then my mister needed help with homework and by the time we were finished my wife was arelax on the couch.

I have to leave early for work (by 6:15) and she gets relaxy early in the evening, leaving very little time for sex. I wish she had a boyfriend that could pay her a visit (or vice versa) during the day so she could get her "real" stuff when she is awake and has energy.

An update:
Yesterday me and my wife finally managed to go to the Adult Superstore in the town next to us. It looked shady from the outside but inside it was well lit with lots of different toys on display. There were quite a few people inside. Anyway, we browsed the entire store finally ending at the strapons. We didnt buy anything, deciding instead to do a little more research online. But she is definitely intersted in using one on me! I think we may have found a beginers harness with a small dildo that we can upgrade to larger toys later. I think we may go back and get it.

The other thing we have been talking about is chastity. I havent been able to get her to lock me up since that first time at Christmas. Last week I asked her about it and she said that she would have to look at a calendar to see when a good time would be. But nothing happened so I asked her again yesterday on the way home from the adult superstore. She said that she wanted to have sex a couple more times and then lock me up until Valentines day! I smiled and she laughed. This morning we talked about it again, pointing out that I had a sporting activity on Saturday that I didnt want to be locked up for. She said that she forgot about that. Then she said that she wanted to have sex one more time and then she would lock me up for the rest of the week. Im serious when I tell you that my cock started to grow! I told her that the thought totally turned me on. She laughed and said "I cant believe you get turned on about being locked up!"

So it looks like Im going to be locked up again this next week! I cant wait!

This morning my wife walked me to the door as I got ready to leave for work. She hugged me and gave me a big kiss. Then she looked up at me and told me that I was going to get a hummer tonight after I got home! If you have been following this thread you would know that blow jobs are a rare treat for me. I said "Really"? She said "Yes, really! I want you to get off again before I lock you up!" Oooooooo!

I made sure I got an excited look on my face and told her that I was getting sooooo aroused! She seemed pleased with herself but I know she still doesnt understand why it arouses me.

Anyway, my thoughts at this time are to be very vocal with her about how much I enjoy being locked up and tat she is in control. I want to emphasize that SHE is making me extremely happy that she is doing this. I want her to get used to it and enjoy her power over me. At some point I will bring up my fantasy of seeing her with another man. I want her to be somewhat used to responding to my fantasies and know that she can do and say things to turn me on (things that she normally wouldnt even think of doing or saying).

Would love to hear comments, suggestions, and encouragement. Im especially interested in hearing any advice or stories from guys who have experience in slowly convincing their once sexually reserved wives to cuckold them.

Other recent events:

On our way back from the adult superstore, I noticed my wifes earings and I said "Wouldnt it be hot if you wore the keys to my chastity device on your ears"? She looked at me and smiled saying "Why? To remind you of whos in control"? I told her it was arousing to think about.

The other night she was taking a bath and I was sitting there talking to her. I dont remember how it came up but we got on the subject of her past boyfriends. One of them used to work out of the same building as the two of us (thats how we met) and I remember that they were cool toward each other. I knew that that they used to see each other and I remember he was a nice guy. I asked her if it was awkward that he was there. She said "No, he was a nice guy, but is was a friendly breakup". We talked some more about past boyfriends and I commented that it was funny that we had never really talked about her past boyfriends very much. She agreed. Then I told her that I dont ever remember being jealous about her past boyfriends or concerned that she would like them better than me. I told her that always had complete trust in her. I wanted to make it clear that I am not a jealous permister even when it came to someone who I know had a sexual relationship with her.

Damn you are getting close. I wish I could get my wife into using the strapon on me. We have all the stuff, but she just is not into it.

Your conversations seem to be leading in the right direction. Does she have any contact with her ex? The progression of your story is awesome. I can say without a doubt you have done everything right so far. Your last couple posts have me on edge...waiting to hear what happens next. Thank you for sharing.

Allen,
Thanks for commenting. I always find your comments encouraging.
I dont know how "close" I am. Cuckolding has NOT come up and she always reacts negatively whenever the topic of a third permister has come up.
Right now I feel that the only way this has any chance at of happening is if we first do some fantasizing and roleplaying first. It seems my plans change all the time. I get a plan of what I am going to do to get her there, and then something happens and my plans change. I guess thats the nature of a plan.

Heres my current plan:

(1) Get her used to talking about fantasies. I have been revealing some very deeply permisteral and somewhat embarassing fantasies to her (like chastity and anal). So far she has revealed that she would like to try the strapon on me and has been generally accepting of my "embarassing" fantasies.

(2) Get her used to having sex in which I give her an orgasm orally but I dont because Im in chastity. This is something I need to focus on when we play "lockup".

(3) Get her used to a large dildo. I still need to purchase this but I have been afraid that she will be freaked out if its too big. We looked at some this past weekend and she didnt seem too freaked out with the more reamisterable ones. Im thinking about one of the realistic ones that look EXACTLY like a real cock but is a good 7.5 inches long and nice and fat. Anything bigger than that would be too big for her (at least to start with).

(4) Use the dildo on her while giving her oral while I am in chastity. I want to give the dildo a generic name like "Big Mike" to associate another males name to our sex. Again, the plan is to use it on her while I am in chastity. Id like to call her or text her from work asking her if she'd like an orgasm tonight. When she responds "Sure!" I can respond with "OK, why dont you call Big Mike and see if he can come over tonight (joking around of course). Lots of possibilities for variations here.

(4) Eventually reveal to her that I sometimes fantasize that Big Mike is real. This one might be tricky for me. I will have to stress that it isnt a fantasy that I want to have happen in real life, just something that I sometimes fantasize about. She might be willing to play around with the fantasy but I have to admit I am unsure about this one. It might take awhile to get her on board with that one.

(5) Get her used to me eating my own creampie. This is difficult because I tend to lose my desire to do it after I come and shes a little uncomfortable when I do it. She seems to enjoy it after a minute or two though. I have revealed the fantasy where she sits on my face after I come in her but she has yet to act on it. I have to work on this one.

(6) Get her to fuck me with the strapon. This one will happen soon as we have talked a lot about it. She likes the control part of it. Id like to reinpower that fantasy within her and encourage it. I think the control aspects could overlap into the other steps like powering me to eat my own creampie.

If I work those 6 steps into our sexlife fairly regularly, I think we might be able to at least talk about the possibility of letting Big Mike be a real permister. I actually have an idea of who that permister might be (a friend of ours). I'll talk about him in my next post. Right now I have to get some work done.

OK, as promised I will talk about who I fantasize my wife cuckolding me with.

But first let me answer Allens question about my wifes ex boyfriend. We do see him around town once in a while but I really dont think there are any feelings left. Were talking about a high school boyfriend here, and that was about 30 years ago. I do know him cordially and he is a nice guy. He is married, with kids, and I dont think he is the type that would get involved in this kind of lifestyle. She has other ex's as well but she does not have kind things to say about them.

Anyway, back to my fantasy. We moved into our current home about 6 years ago. We had a neighbor from our previous place that we got fairly close with. He's a great guy although he has some responsibility issues. Ironically he had a girlfriend who cheated on him several times until he threw her ass out.
Anyway, we still keep in touch as his mister is the same age as one of mine and we invite them over for dinner once in a while. Me and him get along really well but I can tell he REALLY likes my wife. I dont think he's the type that would try anything behind my back, but if it was offered to him I wonder...
I dont have his cell phone number but my wife does. So whenever he wants to get in touch he always calls my wife. That, in itself, makes me hot but I dont say anything. Once in awhile my wife will call him and invite him and his mister over for dinner. When he greets us he always shakes my hand and gives my wife a hug and short kiss on the lips. She doesnt do this with anyone else so I love watching that! One time, we invited him over during the week and when I got home from work he was already there! I went in and he was sitting at the kitchen bar talking to my wife as she prepared dinner. Hes a funny guy and always has her laughing.
As I said, I sometimes fantasize that she cuckolds me with him. A new development is that he is moving to Arizona soon (he lost his house). But he has family in our area so he will come to visit. I have a fantasy where they start a relationship now and then they fuck each other whenever he comes to visit.
One of my strongest fantasies is that he calls a week before he travels to our area and arranges a date with my wife. She gets more and more excited as the day nears, locking me in chastity and teasing me about their date. Finally the day arrives and I help her get ready by helping to bathe her, shave her pussy bald, sliding her stockings up her legs and attaching the garter straps, and sliding her sexy dress over her head and down her body. We go downstairs and talk about what they might do on their date and about how she loves that I let her do this. Then, as he rings the doorbell, she gives my chastity cage a tug and kisses me goodbye.

Can you tell that Ive thought about that one a time or two?

Update: We have both been really busy every evening this week and now I have a dentists appt on Friday afternoon. I dont think I want to lay in the dentists chair and risk someone noticing my chastity device. So, it looks like I wont get locked up this week after all as by the time we get some time to put it on, it will be about time to take it off. No fun in that!
This morning, over coffee, my wife mentioned that she bought me some blue socks yesterday. I said "Good, I need some to match my blue balls!" She initially thought I meant that she was holding out on me and "Oh, dont give me that. You dont have blue balls". Then I explained that the blue balls will come after she locks me up and teases me. Thats when she said she was sorry that time has gotten away from us this week and that maybe next week would be better. Then she had a GREAT idea. She said "How about if I lock you up on Valentines Day? We'll bang one out and then lock you up!" Of course I responded enthusiastically! "That will be my Valentines gift to you!" she said! Yeah!

I love the plan. I think it has a pretty good probability of success. Although as with life...nothing is a for sure. I certainly hope that your wife will cuckold you...sooner than later.

Reading your fantasy...well, its close to home for me and I love the idea. If you can make something like that happen...well who knows the possibilities. Do you think your wife would be attracted to him?

What is great about your situation is that she has a great start on things with the chastity, and the high prospect of a strapon. Even with her accepting you and her using a dildo on her while you orally pleasure her. Careful...she may want you to suck "Big Mikes" cock

I am very much excited for you and your wife. I guess knowing from experience that my wife cuckolding me has brought her/I to a new high in our Marriage. We are happier now than we have ever been and I hope that someday your wife cuckolds you...and takes your Marriage to that new high as well. Good luck and keep doing exactly what you are doing.

Im now in chastity again! Didnt happen on Valentines day like we wanted because it got too late watching the Olympics.
Last night (Tuesday night) I was locked up. Spent a restless night and now its off to work. Hopefully tonight will be better (these things are hard to relax in). My wife said it will stay on all week until Friday or Saturday. Thats 72-96 hours! Yikes!

Oh yeah, we made plans to get back to the porn store to buy the strapon in the next couple of weeks.

have you thought of you, the wife and neighbor going out takeing and try to work the three sum angle. when shes takes or at least giddy an loose its easier to get her to lift her shirt for a feel(you come up behind her lift shirt he feels or vice versa) might be easier to get the ball rolling with you in the mix for comfort and than you ease into the cuckold left at home.

She doesnt take enough to get takes. Plus, thats not the way I want it to happen. I would rather she was on board and agreeable before she did anything. Not to say that a glass of wine or two wouldnt hurt when the time came to actually go through with it.

I dont even know if the ex-neighbor would be the right permister. I know he's attracted to her but he would probably freak out if we approached him with the offer.

Thanks for the comment. I dont get too many comments (probably because I am going slow and there arent any pictures - must be boring for most) so any I get are very encouraging.

Do you think your wife is attracted to him? I was thinking somewhere along the lines of him coming over to your house for dinner. Serving takes around, for some reamister you have to leave, but will be back later. Leaving him and your wife at the house alone. You come back a little later, finish up the evening, and when you go to bed with your wife, make some comments about...."so I hope you weren't to naughty with (friend), while I was gone"...something like that.

The first time my wife messed with the neighbor, it was when I left the two of them alone on his front porch...it was raining, and he had some liquid encouragement.

Just an idea for you. By the way...I can't tell you enough how much I love reading your story and how things are progressing. You are doing a great job, and if it does happen for you...it will be a loving, cuckolding relationship.

I'll comment then - I love reading about how this is going. You're making progress, there is no doubt about it.

I'm rootin for ya.

Thanks guys. I appreciate your encouragement. I really dont mind that I dont many comments. It is a slow process and I can see how it could be boring to some. There was a time that I only came to this site to look at caps!

By the way, I have been locked up for a total of 57 hours. Last night was really hard. I wanted it off soooo bad! I must be a little big for this cage because my skin extrudes out of the vent holes the entire time. When I try to get hard, my cock fills the tube and the end tries to push out the pee hole on the end. Oh my God, that is really painful! But the pain isnt enough to stop the erection. I have to try and think of something else to get it to go down. "Baseball, baseball, baseball."

Hopefully tonight my wife will take it off. We'll see...

Last Friday, after 60 hours, my wife gave me the key and I was able to take off my CB-6000. Now its 4 days later and we havent had sex yet.

I had an issue this time that I was wondering if anyone else has had. After I took it off I noticed that there was a lot of dried skin. Over the next several days, the skin has peeled off like a bad sunburn. Im sure it has something to with moisture but I dont know how to stop it. I am completely filled (overfilled actually) and there is no way to dry completely. Does anyone else have this problem?

I just found your thread- very interesting! I am also kept in chastity, sometimes for a month or more. It's locked on as soon as my wife thinks she's going to get together with one of her boyfriends- could be a week or two before! I love the build up, not being able to come, then she leaves me locked up for a week or two after; this keeps me in my place, so to speak.

One of my chastity devices is a CB6K also, and I (unfortunately) don't have the problem with girth that you do, but we do need to lubricate to get my penis into the tube. We've found that the basic sterile surgical lube available at most have stores works the best, and doesn't irritate even when I'm locked up for a month. I also get the 'cock's comb' through the end of the device, to the point that a couple times I wondered if I would survive, but so far, so good...

We've been out of the lifestyle for a few weeks, and my wife has recently been commenting on how nice it would be to have a regular bf around again. Maybe things are looking up again?...

You never had this issue? Hmmmmm. I also need some lube to get in but I used a little bit of soap, thinking it would be the easiest to rinse out. I was advised not to use a lube because of odor issues. Ill have to try that.

On another note, thanks for reading my thread. I dont know if my wife will ever relax with another man, but I think it would be an exciting lifestyle and I love the thought of her being sexually satisfied by another while limiting my access to her.

So how did you convince your wife? How did you bring it up? How do you maintain the intimacy in your marriage while being in chastity for up to a month at a time (I cant imagine).

We started with some of the usual bedroom games (bondage/spanking), and she was not comfortable with causing me physical pain. She got the idea to go to a BDSM class at a local adult store, and she took an interest in D&s, and started asking questions about tease & denial. I planted the prospect of me doing all her chores around the house while she had me locked up, and she took a real interest. In time, she found that I was much more attentive (I admit I reinpowerd this a bit, too) if I hadn't been able to cum in a while, and she got to the point that she really liked me horny. After several weeks (months), she got a bit frustrated; it was supposed to be me that was denied... She tired very quickly of the 'cold hard' dildoes, and she said she wanted the real thing (I think she actually meant me); I offered to help her find a lover, and she agreed.
It's been heaven ever since...

It is a challenge to maintain the intimacy, with her getting herself completely sexually satisfied by her boyfriends, but she has me go down on her regularly, and we do cuddle a lot. We are also very much in love and are best friends to boot. I couldn't ask for more; even when she is too exhausted from her sexual escapades to walk, she makes sure I still participate by cleaning her up.

Herz4Fun,
It sounds like you and your wife have a great relationship. I would love to have some similar experiences with my wife, although I think Id like to fuck her too once in a while.

An update:
My wife and I made love on Saturday. I gave her oral for at least 20 minutes but she wasnt able to have an orgasm. She just switched to a new hormone replacement medicine (early menopaus) and her hormones are still messed up. But I was able to fuck her twice, thank you very much. She took a bath afterwards and used her vibrator to get her off. She complained that it wasnt a very good one. Heres the kicker - she said that she needs a new visual to help her get to her orgasm quicker. In other words, she wants to buy a porno that has lots of guys giving women oral sex (that is her favorite thing of all)! This is significant because she has NEVER asked for porn. For most of our marriage she has refused to let that enter our sex life and its only been the last 6 months or so that she has agreed to watch it with me. This allows me the chance to introduce some new ideas into the bedroom! Please give me some suggestions (not internet porn - it has to be able to be bought in an adult video store). I wish I could find a video that shows a loving cuckolding scene (not extreme or humiliating).

The other significant thing that happened was when we were talking about her upcoming gyno appointment. She has battled a low libido problem for several years and her doctor has agreed to prescribe a testosterone cream for her to try. We had problems filling the prescrip (not covered by insurance) and so we didnt do it. This time she wants to try it so she is going to ask for another prescription. Her low libido is one of the obstacles to introducing her to cuckolding so Im hoping this will help her. Permisterally, I think that if she ever did get into cuckolding, the thrill and adventure would kick her libido into high gear.

Last thing - Ive been making some caps lately and some of them are pretty erotic. I will try to post them sometime this week. Most of them are series pics. I think it allows more room to develop a storyline. I try to make them as realistic as possible, very loving and only mildly humiliating. Watch for them.

iwmwtcm,

Just came across your thread and thought I would share with you some of the success and experiences I have had on the subject.

Being relatively inexperienced with women in the past, I used to be quite jealous of the girlfriend's (now wife's) past which meant she was reluctant in sharing the details. The one time she did, it caused me to cheat on her and unleash some pretty bad times for us which almost broke us up.

Therefore, you are quite right in setting her mind at ease on this particular issue as some women think the idea of the husband wanting to introduce a man to her is because he has an alternative agenda himself.

Thankfully, I have long since moved on from my jealous days and am now older, wiser, more experienced and relaxed. We have a wonderful sex life and have reached the stage where nothing is taboo in the bedroom.

First, a little background.

Believe it or not, my wife was also relatively inexperienced when we met and although she briefly had a black boyfriend (for a week) they never slept together. In fact she had never slept with anyone but me before we met at age 17 (her) and 19 (me).

Despite this, she had "messed around" a little, - a few blowjobs and making out with guys when she was younger. This happened off and on from 14 until 16 when she had a very religious boyfriend where even kissing was taboo! But while this was not at all slutty and was just normal sexual curiosity it was enough to arouse the jealousy in me due to my relative inexperience at the time (I was ill a lot as a young and growing up).

Ten years into our relationship, I can say that the key to getting my wife interested in cucking me or at least getting hot and bothered by the idea of it, was simple psychology. Once I had convinced her that I was no longer jealous of her past, but turned on by it, it was simple...

She, like your wife by the sounds of it, loves oral and when I went down on her, I would whisper naughty things to her now and again, such as... "I bet you wish your ex black boyfriend and his tongue was doing this to you right now" (she had said that he was a great kisser)...or " imagine I'm licking his cum from your pussy". (he had wanted sex but she had declined)

Ordinarily, she would have been weirded out by such talk, but because she was enjoying my tongue, over time the "good feelings" I was giving her began to become associated with "sexy feelings" for what I said.

Within a few years, she was contacting (at my request) the black ex boyfriend again and sending sexy pics which for my relatively inexperienced wife was a HUGE STEP!

BEFORE all this happens though (with the sexy talk while using oral), I paved the way (It might be a bit of a shock, too, for your wife hearing this stuff for the first time). I found it best to make light of the issue by asking "cheeky" questions at random times, such as "which one of her boyfriends that she went down on had the biggest cock?"... or "what was her favourite sexual experience before we met?" Leave with an offhand remark that you find it sexy thinking of her sexual pleasure before you both met as anything which turns her on turns you on too...

Whatever you do, do not show ANY embarrassment or shame at how your wife reacts as she will feed off it. Act relaxed, casual, and open as if these questions are the most normal in the world and in time, she will bounce this attitude back to you.

If things go to plan, over time, she will also think more and more about her past adventures and then the idea of a "third" in the bedroom may not be so daunting as her imagination gets fired up.

I cannot emphasise enough the idea of "planting a seed" inside if her. A little idea which if watered and properly nourished, will grow and grow. As stated, ideally this needs to be linked with oral sex and pleasurable feelings to combine the two in her head.

Needless to say, I regularly get hand jobs where the wife is telling me of all the things she did with her black boyfriend (Kissing, touching), how she was tempted to go further one night on the couch and talking of meeting up again and finishing what she started...

I have even got her to shout his name out during sex and when she is cumming, which really cemented it in her head!

A word of caution though - although she likes the fantasy a lot when she is "feeling very dirty" you must be wary of not over doing it. Sometimes, I feel she gets the idea that I am thinking of it all the time (I'm not, although it is a sexy thought) instead of making love to her normally as man and wife.

I enjoy both immensely. A good balance is essential though, as that way, she will still find sex with you satisfying and also feel free to let her mind wander at other times.

Communication is key.

Let me know if I can help further.
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fuzzyman,
Wow! What great suggestions. Thank you! My wife does have a past which we havent really talked in detail that much. She was sexual with several guys and I DO get highly arroused thinking about her with them. I will think about how I might be able to talk to her about it.

Excellent, glad I could be of service.

Yes, ALL women have a past, it just varies by degree how much of a past and how much they want to tell you of course.

And don't forget, as much as she may dismiss the topic and say that sex is better with you or that she can "barely remember" how this and that was with an ex - believe me, she remembers!!!

Women aren't that much different to men and most enjoy sex very much and have very pleasant and horny memories of past encounters.

Good luck with your pursuit do not worry about being slow in your updates here - if done right, it is a slow but worthwhile process!

So many men on here seem to push/bully their wives towards it which is a pretty empty victory and sad at the end of the day. You need to coax it out of her and then savour the result like a fine wine...

I believe that this is journey a couple needs to take together if a marriage is to remain healthy...

Cheers,

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The wife and I dropped by the porn store last night (we were in the neighborhood) and looked at strapons again. We have definitely decided to buy one but they were so expensive. I told her that I would just order one from Adamandeve.com because I had a code for 50% off. She said OK and we spent a few minutes wandering the store. we looked at the silicone realistic cocks and I mentioned that I wanted to get her one. She didnt say anything, just kept looking at them and feeling the different textures. We were in a hurry because we had to pick up my mister. On our way out I told her that we need to find her a new movie with lots of oral sex in it. She agreed but said we didnt have time to peruse the movie section (she kinda avoids that part of the store anyway). We left at that point. On the way home I told her thanks for going there again with me and she smiled. We held hands during the 30 minute drive back to my town.

This morning I placed an order for the "Bendover Beginer Strapon" at Adamandeve.com.

And so the pieces of the puzzle are coming together

I can't wait to read some day..."I am officially a cuckold". It may take a while...but it would definately be worth the wait...trust me. My wife and I love it...but miss it also.

Keep doing it as you are...

Strap-on is still in the mail, so nothing new to report there.

My wife is still having trouble reaching orgasms and is getting very frustrated. Normally, she comes very hard when I give her oral. She gets very close but after 1/2 hour of licking, my neck was hurting too much to continue and she had given up. After I came, she took a bath with her vibrator and finished herself off. She complained about how long it took and how the orgasm wasnt nearly as good as the ones I give her. Then she commented that she guesses she needs to find a porn movie that can use to help get her mind in the right place. This is significant. I think I have posted this before but she now gone from never wanting to watch porn, to agreeing to watch it with me because I wanted to, to actually enjoying it herself, to now asking to find a movie just for her. It may seem minor to some people but this is a big change for her. I still need more movie suggestions. The ones I recieved have been good, but I want to get more so that I can research them and pick the one that I think will be best for her.

I will post my request in a seperate post in order to get the maximum number of reads.

Boring update:
Not much to report. We havent had sex for 9 days. Saturday she went overnight to a cabin with her mom and some cousins. The next day I took the kids skiing. Now Ive caught a cold. Starting next Friday we'll have a foriegn exchange student staying with us so we'll be extremely busy. I am guessing we wont have sex until April 3rd (21 days). It fucking sucks. She knows Im not happy about it. Perhaps I'll ask her to lock me in chastity. Might as well have some erotic fun, right?

Oh yeah, the strapon arrived and my wife and I have been teasing each other. She went to give me a kiss this morning and I turned my head so she could kiss my cheek (I dont want her to catch my cold). She mentioned something about giving her my cheek and I said "isnt that what you want?" (referring to my butt cheeks). She smiled and said "Yes I do!"