What to do.

After a long time my wife opened up to the idea of being fucked by others. She had a few guys but recently she told me if I wanted to go through with it she would leave me. She now even becomes angry that I ever talked her about it. I know she still likes wel endowed guys cause she tells me from time to time that she loves big cocks but it made me al confused about how she reacts lately.
Any ideas to get her back into the game.

You could be coming on too strong. I suggest backing off and going with HER flow, if she ever wants to do it she will let YOU know, not the other way around.

Remember, some just are NOT into it no matter what you do or say, if you can even come to as far as you have you should try and find satisfaction in that. Otherwise give her time.

As Changer says, you are most likely coming on too strong about this. My wife also use to get really upset about me bringing it up to often. I backed way off for some time. Still bringing it up from time to time.

Then one day...she is fucking my best friend/neighbor. She went from "I will never do it..." to doing just that. Just have a sit down with your wife, tell her that you lover her no matter what, and that you in no way want anyone else, just that you want her to be happy, and sexually satisfied. Make sure that she also understands that you in no way want anyone else. She may be thinking that if I have sex with someone else, he is going to want to do the same thing.

What ever ends up happening, good luck and make sure she is number one at all times. She may come around.

Go along with it for now...that is back off, but keep the lines of communication open...make sure that she is WELL aware of your desires and tell her she has literally a blank check signed by you when it comes to her having sex with another guy!!...make sure she knows that you would be DELIGHTED if she were to do it, but that you love her enough to not bring it up if she does not want you to.

Then try to make tempting situations for her. For example if you just happen to leave her alone for a few moments with a male friend who you think might turn her on, etc. I once used the excuse of running out of cigarrettes and having to run to the store. I purposely left her with this guy I thought she would like, and took my sweet time coming back. I wanted to get her mind working! It's stuff like that which lets her think how easy it would be for her to get laid by some strange cock anytime she wants to, and she would be pleasing you at the same time...and who knows? One day when she's horny enough and if she's had enough to take you may return and find a nice surprise as the two of them are getting it on!

After some dry spells mine finally went back to wanting sex with other men! Patience pays off!!