preparing for the "talk"

Hi,
I posted previously asking for advice on mainstream movies that had some cuckold themes that would sort of provide a kick-off for talking about this with my wife. I got quite a few good responses, but I have decided to go a different route to start.
A couple of months ago I got my wife to watch some porn (1st time in 18 years of marriage). A couple of the scenes had two guys doing a girl and she got very excited watching those. We also bought a book about sexual fantasies that I read. I marked the areas that I liked and asked her to read it also. She says she will but so far hasnt had time. One of the sectioned I marked was on threesomes. When she reads this she will definitely be surprised. I dont know if she be hurt or angry or amused, but she will ask me about it. I plan on telling her that I just want her to be the focus of attention and see her satisfied by two of us. My plan is that if I can get her to do a few threesomes, then it will be much easier to talk her into taking the next step into cuckoldry.
My question to this group is how do I respond to her after she reads the section on threesomes in a way that reinpowers my devotion to her and also makes her interested in the adventure of a threeway?

Sounds like you have a great plan in action. Just be honest. It sounds like you have already set the ground work. After she reads it all you need to do is point out that you noticed she got turned on watching the 3somes and were wondering if the two of you could look into turning your fantasies into reality.

Keep focusing on her NOT you and you have it.

I still recomend watching the orriginal Animal Instinct with her, like several people recomended on your first post. It is an excellent ice breaker. You can get it on Ebay, I just did. That movie opened up my wife to the idea.

Good luck

For my wife...after several years of dating/being married...it came down to a trust issue. After many times of making her mad because I asked to much...and times of gently asking...it came down to a best friend of mine/hers...and the fact he is our neighbor (convenience)....she began to fuck him.

If you wife is like mine (mostly conservative)...it will most likely come down to can she (and you) trust who she is to cuckold you with? Like (mred4862) mentioned...do everything you can to make it all about her. I have mentioned almost daily that this is about "you" to my wife...even the neighbor/best friend has said many times..."this is about you". She has never felt better about herself!!!!! Good luck.

In my opinion the biggest hurdle to overcome is the fact that many women (wives in this case) have the initial tendency to think you want to get them into a MFM 3-some because you are trying to pave the way into full swinging where you can fuck other women. You must do a good job of convincing her that it is NOT the case. That you will never want to fuck another woman, but that you will love her all the more if she just lets herself go and starts to enjoy being fucked by other men.

You must also emphasize to her that jealousy will NEVER be an issue with you and that she could never loose you as a result of the cuckold lifestyle.

Once you get those two items to set well in her head she will be much more willing to 'go for it'. I think that (although many will not admit it) just about all women love to be the center of attention with more than one male. They want to feel desired by men, and what better way than to have more than one male wanting to make love to them? Wives also want the security of their marriage, so what better way for them to get the best of both worlds than to have an indulging cuck husband who welcomes her extra marital sex with other men, and still love her and considers her to be his queen when she does just that? When being a 'Bad Girl" is considered as GOOD by her husband, a woman can hope for no better arrangement in her marriage!

Thanks everyone. Your advice is encouraging. As for convincing her that it is about her, that will come very easy to me because it really is about her. I make it very clear to her that I get more out of pleasing her than I get from being pleased. I will give her oral sex until she has an orgasm (sometimes it takes more than 1/2 hour) and not ask for oral from her. She rarely gives me oral. Maybe once every 6 to 8 times we have sex while I give it to her every time. Not that shes trying to be mean or deny me. She just thinks its more of a special gift when she doesnt do it every time. One time after I gave her an orgasm with my tongue, I didnt fuck her. I just held her and snuggled as she came down. Finally she gave me the go ahead to slip in and I told her I didnt want to. She was surprised but I explained to her that "what better way to convince her that her pleasure was more important than my own". She said OK but I dont think was too happy because she likes to fuck when shes turned on.

Sorry to ramble on. Thanks again for the advice.

Did you find any good mainstream movies with the theme you were looking for?

Animal Instincts is the only one suggested. I will have to work it into our Netflicks que.