What is this considered?

I am in my mid twenties and am friends with a girl in her early twenties. We dated briefly but she ended the relationship before anything physical happened. We are still friends and hang out. Almost every time we are out she dresses really provocative and hits on guys right in front of me and ven gives them her phone number. One time a guy asked her if I was her boyfriend and she quickly responded "him? oh aboslutely not we are just friends" Now I know this is not cuckolding in its strictest form but do you think she obviously sees me as a less than superior man?

well, i guess I do enjoy it a little. she has even done shots with other guys at bars right in front of me and didnt ask me to join them either. we were supposed to be hanging out and spending time as frieds but hits on other guys while we are out. I dont know if its intentional offense but it is either way.

You should tell her that you enjoy it when she hits on other guys in front of you and ask her if she would consider restarting your relationship agreeing that she could date others at the same time. If she thinks youre crazy then refer her to this website and give her some time for the idea to get established in her mind.

I was thinking of doing that. I always end up paying the bill when we are out too...

has anyone or does anyone have female friends that do this? we ar eplanning on hanging out in a few days and im sure she will do more of the same.

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Yup, she is fucking with you mentally, but will not physically. Tell her about your fantasies, hell, she already knows, but tell her...see what happens.

I really would not know how to tell her about it or that I like what she does. Any advice?

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i dont think there is a chance of having sex with her at all...

Right at the bar you should pull your cock out and fwap her across the face with it in front of everyone. Then you should piss in her take.

-jk, but it'd be amusing to watch from a distance.

>I was thinking of doing that. I always end up paying the bill when we are out too...

Unfortunately that is probably why she lets you hang around. It sounds like she is fine with you being around, but she may never fall in love with you so, you will probably end up getting just what you have now.

I have a wife like that. Damn, I love that lil tramp.

we are due to go out again very soon so I will probably be experiencing more of her usual hitting on guys and stuff like that. She even asks my opinion about some of the guys too. its as if she doesnt even see me as a man at all.

my advice? start lightly, like telling her which guys are checking her out, which one are hot and so on.
tell her you like when she dresses sexy and she draws the attention of other guys. Give her lots of compliments but do't make a move on her.
you can even jokingly encourage her to flirt and kiss some guys in the club or bar and then ask her how it was, did he fondle you, did you like it?
slowly she will start seeing you as someone she can tell her sexual encounters and even fantasies.
meanwhile, keep doing what she asks, e.g. paying for takes, drive her home, pick her up. She will soon see your submissive attitude and status. if she start sharing fantasies with you, you can tell her some of yours and then develop a more complex relationship with her.
tell us how it goes...

thats good advice. slow is best probably. She basically expects me to pay. I even paid for shots she did with other guys before including the cost of the other guys shots.

here is an update..

we went out last night to a bar near her house. Again, she was flirting and hitting on all the guys and some guys were buying her shots. Again as if I wasnt even there. The question is always asked if I am her boyfriend and she rolls her eyes and says no. I asked her during a quiet time why she feels comfortable flirting with other guys while we are out and she says that she doesnt think of me as a guy but as someone who is like a "girl friend" who she can ask an opinion from about other guys and stuff. I guess this just reassured her opinion of me being less than a real man. She gave her number to a couple guys as well.

Man, she's only making you look bad to make herself look good.

Ditch the Bitch! even as a friend...Your GF/ or wife may do that, but friends don't.
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I cant ditch her. She has been there for me through some tough times. I have a connection to her and she with me. I guess I can live with her seeing me as more of a "girl friend" than boyfriend material. She is a bit of a size queen as well. She tells me she likes well endowed guys and she has asked me how big I am, to which I always change the subject so she probably knows I am not too happy with the size of my dick. She smirks when I dont answer which basically means she knows. So all in all I can say our friendship is a complicated one. To answer someone elses post I usually always pick her up, drop her off and pay so that is very submissive. I one time waited in the car for her while she gave a guy her phone number. She tod me to go wait in the car.

Bring up cuckolding with her and tell her you wish you could find a woman to be in a cuckold relationship with. I'll bet she may just be interested in the subject.

i knw, i just am nervous bringing up the subject with her. I am already submissive to her so thats a start so I guess i can bring it up very carefully.

I'm following this with great interest. Now this is entertainment!

Sounds harsh, but you will never have a normal one-to-one sexual relationship with this girl. If this were a normal dating forum, I'd tell you to go check out some PickUp Artist's material, like Mystery or David DeAngelo, and you'd find out where you're going wrong.

But seeing as you've found this place, and are posting your questions here, it seems like you're more into the idea of being cuckolded than in having a regular gf/bf relationship. In that case, I agree with the posters above: take it nice and slow, get her into a position where she can freely discuss her sexual fantasies with you. You're halfway there already: she already sees you as "girl friend". Once you're swapping fantasies, you can tell her that you long to serve a hot wife/gf who cucks you, and lets you masturbate for her. Hopefully, she will, like many women, see the benefits of having the best of both worlds: a faithful and devoted husband/bf to take care of her and come back to, and the freedom to continue having sex with whoever she wants. Just be aware it'll never be you.

He may not have a shot with this girl, but I wouldn't say never. Even if he doesn't get this girl it's clear that he would like to be in a cuckolding relationship. Maybe she knows another girl who might be interested...

don't bring up the cckolding thing with her, if she knows that's what you want, it's the last thing you'll get!

I say ditch her, and get a gal who understand the rules and not fuck with your head. It's gals like that, that puts .45 into guys heads cos they feel rejected. You think the broad is worth that? Ditch her, she's acid. Poimister, and goes against everything that you want in life. Let her sucker-punch someone else.
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I talked about some things with her last night. I asked her why we never worked out as a couple. She said that she cares about me vut isn't sexually attracted to me. I asked

I asked her to explain and she said I wasn't her type of guy and that she sees me as an emotional friend. Her type is the typical jock type which I am not. I said so you think of me as an emotional boyfriend. She thought about it and said yes she does. She then proceeded to talk about some guy she is seeing and how hot he is. She said she wants me to meet him and get to know him

well last night she called me up and asked if I could drive her to this guys house. He couldnt get her and she doesnt have a car so I picked her up and took her to the guys house. She didnt even thank me and aked that I come get her later on. I did. She has a hold over me, what can I say. She told me all about how great he was in bed and said she may ask me to drive her to his place again tomorrow night.

I am due to pick her up soon to take her to his place again... I know it is so they can have sex. I am a pushover and say yes to everything and she knows it.

well, its official I got her to say I am a cuckold. I told her about the lifestyle but she semed to already know a little about it. I am her emotional boyfriend and the other guy is her "lover". I asked her if she would ever relax with me she said no but would give me a handjob every now and then if I needed a release. She asked to see my dick the other night. She hadnt up until now and when she saw it she said it was "cute" but definitely very small. I am so excited and ok with this situation. Any advice from people for how to proceed?