Is wife's dream a step forward?

Yesterday morning my wife Linda said she wanted to have sex with me. This was very unusual for her to be so blunt, so I asked her why she was so horny.

Linda said: "Last night I dreamed I had a romantic encounter with Jack Nicholmister."
Me: "Did you have sex with him?"
Linda: "Yes."
Me: "What position?"
Linda: "He was on top"
Me: "Did you suck his cock?"
Linda: "Maybe, I can't remember"
Me: "With all the handsome guys you could have fucked in your dream, why some older man like him?"
Linda:"I don't know. I don't even find him attractive".
Me: "This dream shows that subconsiously you want to have sex with other men."
Linda: "I don't know. Maybe it does"
Me: "I love hearing about these dreams of you having sex with other men."

Later that day when we were watching a movie starring Matt Damon, Linda said,"I hope I dream I'm doing it with Matt Damon tonite. He's handsome."

In the past, my wife has always said she has no interest in having sex with other men, so for her to actually admit to having dreams of sex with other men is kind of exciting for me. Hopefully it is a sign she is opening up to new possibilities.

Has anyone else has any similar experience with their wives?

Actually yes. Thats how it got going with my wife and our best friend/neighbor. I have been asking her for years to relax with another guy...always a no answer or she would sometimes get upset if I bugged her to much.

I have had dreams about her with black guys and white guys. One night I had a dream about her with our best friend/neighbor...I told her about it...she just laughed it off, then she had a dream about him as well. Other details are in the middle...but that led to her fucking him numerous times. You can get most of the details in my post...Neighbors Hot tub...under the outdoors part of the forum.

Good luck!!!!

Allen, Thanks for the reply. I hope my wife's dream ends with her fucking other men like your wife's did. My wife also gets upset if I bug her too much about it, so I need to take it slow also. I read your posts in the other forum. If it happens for my wife, I am going to insist I get to watch her in action.

Does you wife know that you go to this site? Also, do you have any male friends that she would find attractive and someone you could trust to help?

Allen, No she doesn't know about this site. I don't think having her see this site would be helpful at this point. Does your wife know of it?
She doesn't admit to being attractive to any of my friends, but we both agree that if she has sex with another guy, it should not be a friend, but instead someone she would not ever need to see again. She says maybe she will do it when we're away on vacation.

My wife knows that I have been going to this site for some time now. I can't say exactly how long. She has enjoyed some of the caps, stories,pics, and some videos. She really loved one of the Holly (from wifebreeders). If you haven't seen it...its by far one of my favorite ones.

I think for us...my wife fucking our friend/neighbor has been easier for her because they have always had a close trust. I would be more than happy to have my wife do someone else. I can definately see the appeal to not have to see that permister again...or on a as needed wanted basis.

I certainly hope that she comes around sooner than later for you...I mean for her.

Allen, If you remember which one your wife liked best, please let me know.

SalP: I agree that you guys should avoid friends. We try to even avoid becomeing friends with the guys my wife relaxs with although that is hard. Mixing friends and your sex life can be difficult, unless your fine with everyone knowing about all of your life.

Also avoiding becoming friends will keep your wife thinking it is all sexual instead of starting to feel like she is in a relationship, like many girls feel they need to have sex with someone.

You have been here awhile SalP so I'm sure you have heard this before, but women like to make sure we are serious about all of this and that we don't have alterior motives before they will truely admit they are interested. It really sounds like your wife is close. ....