A good marital arrangement

My wife Karen and I have established a very satisfactory situation. She is a very pretty woman, and around 10 years younger than me. After exploring the swinging scene a bit (NOT very much fun), we agreed that it would be more fun for both of us if she took a lover - she understood the pleasure I gained from imagining her with other men. Eventually she found a very attractive guy, Keith, through her work contacts, and they have been an "item" for several months now.

Keith is a powerful male, very sexual. Karen freely admits that he does it for her in a way that has never happened before. A guy's penis has always been very important to her in successfully relating in bed. She needs it to be special to really get off on a guy. My penis is ok, but unfortunately nothing special by any stretch of the imagination. Keith is not huge, either, but he is extremely thick and solid, with a very big head. Karen simply worships it.

Karen is very strongly emotionally involved with Keith. She can't really have a satisfying sexual relationship without that emotional involvement. I understand and appreciate this. She is not a slut - she never liked swinging. It is very important to her that the guy mean something to her.

She doesn't want to leave me - we have a good, stable, marriage - but she would like to be more formally "owned" by Keith. I guess she would really like to have him as a second husband, if that were possible. Keith has given her a lovely little ring that we have agreed she can wear in place of her wedding ring for the duration of her affair with Keith. This small symbolic act makes her feel much better about her steamy sex sessions with him. She is an unashamedly feminine woman: she needs to be taken and possessed by her man. She likes to go to Keith's house in the evening and stay to be used by him all night, and then come home to me in the morning. I love to see after those nights, tired, sore, but very happy and completely sexually satisfied.

What better way for her to be owned by Keith than by breeding with him and having his young. Imagine her waddling home pregnant in the morning with his baby seed leaking out of her mommy hole.

I think having his young might be too much by far!

It could be a problem in the future, though. The three of us have recognised and accepted the fact that Keith is Karen's man in every sexual sense. She longs for his thick cock inside her and orgasms with an intensity she claims never to have experienced before. On those occasions when I have been able to contrive to watch or listen to them, I have been blown away by the intensity of their lovemaking. Keith seems to have a knack for driving Karen to the brink of ecstasy and holding her there with controlled thrusts of his pelvis. I wish I could control a woman like that.

Anyway, when we decide to have a young, I guess it is going to be something of a problem.

Believe me Thommister, it won't be a problem, it will be an erotic gift from his loins. Yur wife will want and need his seed in order to enjoy the full gift of pregnancy. Believe me, when u see his thick swollen cock rubbing against her bloated turmmy where his young is growing, it will cause u to have a very intense and strong errection. Yur little penis will twitch even more if u watch yur wife rubbing his cock against her growing belly as she tells u how happy she is to have the real mans baby in her tummy. By the way what size is yur little penis.

My penis is about 5 and a half incarbonsmudges in length, and of average thickness. I guess Keith would measure around 7 and a half, from what I have been able to see - he is unusually thick, though, especially around the knob. That's what Karen loves. She says she can really feel him pressing against her, and then sliding up into her body.

Karen claims to be madly in love with Keith. However, I would say it was more like madly in lust, than love.

thompmister: Have you considered that she may eventually leave you for Keith? Her "In-Lust" may eventually turn into "In-Love" and if that happens, where will that leave you? Maybe you should have stuck to letting her swing with different males, that way she would not get so emotionally attacarbonsmudged to just one, and it would be more of a purely sexual thing for both of you. I believe from what you say that your marriage may be at risk now.

Thommister, you can play whatever you want but you know you need to be prepared to give it all up, both you and Karen - that's the principle -
Easier acknowledged than done.

thompmister: Have you considered that she may eventually leave you for Keith? Her "In-Lust" may eventually turn into "In-Love" and if that happens, where will that leave you? Maybe you should have stuck to letting her swing with different males, that way she would not get so emotionally attacarbonsmudged to just one, and it would be more of a purely sexual thing for both of you. I believe from what you say that your marriage may be at risk now.


Sorry Thompmister but Juanito is right, you should not have pandered to her whim for a lover instead of mere sexual games. Taking on one man as her lover this way has endangered your marriage, he should have been taken on as a cuckolding bull for fun only. As Juanito says, better to swing with a number of blokes than risk losing her to one, better still in your case would have been not to start it in the first place if your lady isn't a slut, you've pushed her into an arrangement you might never be able to get her out of. And believe me friend, she will have his youngren if she truly falls in love with him.

Best advice I can give you is back track now if you can before she's too far gone, tell her enough you've changed your mind, chances are she won't take any notice and give you the option 'accept her love affair, or lose her and she'll do it without you'.

Let this be a warning to all who think being a cuck hubby is milk and honey 100% it's not always the case. I know I've ruined several marriages in my bulling years, not by making a lover of the wife, but showing her there's something else out there.

are you proud of ruining several marriages, mikemann?

are you proud of ruining several marriages, mikemann?


Not a bit of it mate, but cuckolds brownie happens, and I didn't power anything on anyone. They were all doomed before I got there, that's the danger of this game mate, it doesn't always work the way the cuck wants it to. Be warned woukld-be cuck's you might create a slut wife that wants out. And for all the guys who think the little lady is so very faithful while you play all sorts of silly games elsewhere, don't bank on it.

What I'd like to know is, what is Keith's arrangement when he isn't spurting up Karen. Is he servicing anybody else's wife for instance? Is hein love with her? Judging from what you've discribed he's probably in demand and therefore sees Karen as a part time thing.

When Karen finally wants to have a baby, let me ask you: who's young would she rather carry in her womb? Seems obvious to me. Are you still aloud to have sex with her, and if so, are you aloud to go bare back? I can't imagine Karen asking the man that she loves to wear a johnny. And since she loves him, she may well want his young inside her any day now; not only as a token of her love, but also in the hope that it will help her to hang on to him.

Sounds as if you've gotten yourself into a right mess, and if you want to hang on to Karen, then perhaps you could ask your boss if you can work some more hours, as the upkeep of a young can be pretty expensive. I don't think Keith will be around to do it, he'll be too busy knocking up other women. Raising another man's young can be pretty humiliating, but loosing your wife completely will be a lot worse.

Your wife is "AROUND" 10 Years younger than you? Are you not sure how old your own wife is?
Sorry, but I think I smell a little Bullcuckolds brownie around here Sunshine

Some very sound advice here. Whilst the jealousy and anxiety of another man fucking your wife is an immense turn-on to all of us here, I think you have let things go too far and given Keith and your wife too much control.

Has their affair improved your sex-life? If not, Keith may get her to stop having sex with you all together. I think he is her number 1 man now.

When my wife was screwing a young lad she'd met through work, we'd agreed it was just sex. There was no way she'd have left me for him - she just wanted a different cock for a while and I loved the idea. But you must have pre-set ground rules I think.
Peter C

why you dont stop fucking her as a present for him?