Legitimate question from a young couple

Thanks so much, everything is going really well actually.

Sorry I haven't been updating much at all - things are just busy with work, school, and our life. It's great to even have a good job in this economic environment, so I'm working hard to do well at it. I usually log in to check if there are any new posts, but it's usually either a choice of sitting on here or going to hang out with Ang or Ang and Joe. Definitely going to pick that over sitting on here. Sorry guys! lol.

I'll have to update a bit more soon though.

-John
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Hey again everyone!

Of course it is a busy time of the year right now, so I haven't been up to all that much. I've only been home for 8 or 9 hours a day, and that doesn't leave much time to hang out when eating and relaxing are thrown in there. Joe and Ang have been spending a ton of time together though, especially since I'm not home a whole lot. They are getting along great, and they have been fucking like rabbits lately! Partially because of being busy, and partially because of the agreement Joe and I made, I haven't had sex with Ang in a while now - but she did give me an amazing blowjob the other night. Afterward Joe said that that was just fine, but made it abundantly clear that she is his girlfriend and that he was very happy that we didn't have sex.


One big thing that may be happening soon - Joe is probably going to have the opportunity to give up his apartment mid-lease. There are several people looking at the apartments, and he's sure that he could give his up if he wanted to. If he does, he will move in with us, as we originally intended. There was a lot of advice against it before because it was so early in our relationship. It's been about 8 months or so now, and it really seems like it would work well for us though. If it does happen it should be really interesting for us all.
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Given what I know about women and the importance of the emotional bond they get from sex, I would say you are being very reckless with your relationship. You may think everything is OK and your girlfriend may think so too. But every relationship has its ups and downs. I have a feeling that one day soon, during a "down" time your girlfriend is going to wake up and realize that she has fallen out of love with you and totally in love with your friend. It will probably be a very emotional period with lots of tears from both of you when she tells you that she wants to move on in life without you.

Please take my advice. You are young and dont have the experience to know whats going on. Please take some to reevaluate what you are doing and back off a few notches. You must maintain a sexual relationship with her if you want to keep the bond you have. Im sure there is a way to continue having fun with the cuckold lifestyle while maintaining and enhancing the love and respect between you and your girlfriend.

thanks for sharing johhny , my girlfriend and i love to read your account and have great sex afterwards here in france looking forward to reading more and yes we would love to see a picture of anyone of the three of you : good luck and have a happy christmas

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I definitely understand your point and concern. I guess that our view on it though is that it's slightly different because we do know that this is a form of 'play' for us. We know that this isn't going to continue on forever (Joe is going to be moving out of the area once he finishes school), and for right now it's very exciting. We are actually going to be getting engaged very soon (can't say exactly when because she reads this sometimes) and are planning our lives together.

Although I don't talk about it too much here (mostly because it's a lot more boring than the other stuff) our emotional bond is stronger than ever, and the sexual tension between us has never been higher. We can't ever keep our hands off of each other, and are always fooling around in some way. This isn't like in marriages where people stop having sex, talking about sex, being sexually connected, etc. It's quite the opposite actually - it's more like the beginning of a relationship before you have sex, where the tension is incredibly high, but you just haven't made it to the bedroom yet.
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jonathan123

Thanks so much! I'll have to think about that again, maybe we can take some over the holidays and blur the faces or something. I know everyone would appreciate it.
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Yes, I realize that we dont get the whole picture just by reading your posts. Just be aware that women experience love and sex different than men do and keep the communication up between the two of you. It made my worry when you said you werent spending much time at home while they were spending a lot of time together fucking like rabbits.

I do enjoy reading your posts although it is probably more intense than what I would want to do in my own life.

My hope for you is that you do end up getting married and that this chapter in your life is remembered fondly throughout your life.

Yes, I definitely will do that. That not being home was only for a short period of time, and is over now - just a busy time of the year. Joe is going to be away for a while over Christmas, so it will be a good time for Ang and I to catch up.

Thanks so much for the help and advice though, it's all appreciated and I know that you have our well being in mind.
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Terrific posts Johnny, really enjoy them!

My own preference is softer play.
Hotwifing with a cuck tease.

However, that being said. For some bizarre reamister, I also enjoy this twist:
I've fantasized about my woman, my wife getting pregnant from another lover. I imagine him as a stud she really digs and has hot sex wife. We happily raise the young and live happily ever after.

Why this turns me on (and other men) I do not know.
Perhaps in an alternate universe.

I know in a previous post you mentioned this as well.
Could you elaborate?
Bet Joe would make an excellent donor!
Does Ang expressed any musing about this?

Thanks, keep up the posts!

LesM

Hm, that is a very interesting thought.

Let me just preface this by saying that it will be a while until we consider having youngren, and when we do, the what is best for our youngren will be our primary thought, not what we would like to do.

With that being said though, I have thought about it as I also think it is very hot in fantasy. I definitely think it has the potential to cause serious problems in practice, but in theory it is very hot.

Angela really likes youngren and we are planning on having many - about 5 or 6. She has said that if she still has a loving relationship with Joe when we are having youngren, she would consider it, but it all depends on that relationship.



There is something else that happened that I have told several members about in private, but not on here because of what happened. Quite a while ago now we had Joe over and were takeing and partying a lot. By the end of the night we were all really takes, and I ****** soon after we started messing around. I guess that everyone forgot that we had to use condoms, as Joe fucked her and came in her twice that night. We were very worried afterwards, and weren't sure what to do. Eventually we found out that she was pregnant, and it was a very tough time. We decided that the only option was to keep it tough. A few weeks later, however, she ended up miscarrying, and the decision was made for us.

So: would we do it on purpose? Maybe. Would we keep a young if it happened by accident? Yes. But are we making sure to always use birth control for now? Yes.
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Johnnyangplay Thanks for the reply.

Sorry about the trying time you two went through.
You are not alone. I've some lousy experiences in the distant past.
Ones I just as soon forget - or try too.

Despite all that, I suppose the mystery continues.
Not always, but at times I have fantasized about my wife getting in the "family way" by her lover, and it really turns me on.

By the time we shared for real, our marriage was nearly 20 years along. We were secure, mature (older anyhow) and better prepared to handle an accidental situation. I think we could have made it work out fine.

So now, it is only a what if.
A wanking fantasy for me.

When the time is right and you are ready, you should both fuck her and cum in her and let nature take its course. If you want to be kinky, let him fuck first so his sperm gets the first shot. Either way, if she ends up pregnant it could possibly be yours and possibly be his and you don't have to ever know for sure unless you really want to. As long as you are loving parents, it wouldn't really matter who the man is.

LesM
Thank you very much for the kind and hopeful words. I think it might be best to keep that in the wanking fantasy realm. I guess we shall see someday.
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Mikey71
If we are all still together at that point and decide to do it, I think that that is how we would. If she is still dating him, I really doubt that she would stop having sex with him while we are trying to get pregnant. In that case, both of us would be equally able to get her pregnant, just depending on when we have sex with her.

We shall see of course, as it is several years off.
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So how are things going. Did you and Angela get some time to reconnect while Joe was away? Did you discuss the future of the relationship?

Also, I think you said Angela nd Joe were going on a trip together without you. Is that still on? Any details on what they might do on the trip?

iwmwtcm

Hey, Christmas was great for us - and we got to spend a lot of time together and with each others families. The families don't know about our situation, so of course Joe wasn't around for that. For several days before the holiday Ang and I were just able to hang out & relax together, so it was nice.

We did talk about the relationship a lot, and it was really good to redefine our own relationship a bit. She's as happy with me as ever, and we talked a lot about our own plans for where we're going to live, when we're going to get married etc. Ha, I'm sure you guys don't care too much about that - but when it comes to Joe, she has every intention of staying with him as well, both as a girlfriend and a submissive.

He is going to be moving in with us, but it's probably not going to be until next semester when we can get someone to take on his lease. We decided though that their relationship isn't going to be as closed as we were discussing before though - both he and she can have sex outside of their relationship too. I think that this is probably the best way to keep it light and fun - which it is now. Ha, everything seems much more intense and serious when I talk about it here, but it isn't really. Joe still of course has final say over Ang's partners, but she's thinking about at least exploring her sexual options.



The trip is of course still on as well - they will be leaving on Jan. 21st, and are going down to Mexico for a few days. I'm not so sure why, but I'm pretty nervous and anxious about them going. They aren't going to be doing much - just relaxing. We've been to the resort before, and know a couple of secluded beaches in the area, so it should be a nice time for them. Idk, any advice or suggestions on how the trip should go?
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Johnny,
So how are you feeling now that the trip to Mexico is almost here? Are you having second thoughts that Ang and Joe will soon be leaving together to go on a romantic vacation while you stay home? Are you arroused or scared that they will be holding hands and giving each other kisses while in public? Everyone who sees them together will automatically assume that they are lovers and will never even know that you exist. They will notice them smiling together and laughing together and thoroughly enjoying each others company. And in their room they will be fucking like rabbits the entire time!

Johnny,
Did your girlfriend and her boyfriend leave yesterday for their trip? I would be really interested in knowing about how the two or three hours before they left went. How did it feel, knowing she was leaving you to go to Mexico with him? Was it strange? How did she feel? Is this another turning point in your relationship?

Has she called you yet to check in? What do you think they are doing right now?

This is an AWESOME thread! Way to go Johnny!

Where'd you go Johnny? I noticed you took down your blogs too .

Your situation was always the most intense for me, for some reamister.. I guess because it seemed the most real and I could identify with it in some regards.

yeah I noticed the blogs were gone too

Hey everyone! I'm sort of back, but there's just not enough time in the day to work, go to school, have a relationship, blog, and come on here.

Got rid of the blogs because it was just too much time to keep them updated regularly. It was fun for a few, but it's much better now.

The relationships still going great - but we decided to back of just a bit and not get so serious with Joe. Ang is now dating/relaxing around a bit, but we hope to get more into it once the weather is nicer.

I'll try to give a good update, but they always take so long to write! Ha, I'll see what I can do though!
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Great news, good to hear things are still going well.

A must on the updates please!

I wish people who post sincerely here insist (as some kind of dogma or committment to their partner) that they know what their gf is thinking. You don't!

Just a proof. Maybe update soon?
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I spent some time over the last couple of days re-reading this thread (it was always one of my favorites) and I would love an update!

Hi Johnny,

any chance of the update?

Just finished reading your thread. Great stuff. My Mistress is starting to get a little serious with her new lover. We probably won't have much sex while they are together. Maybe none. Nice to read another real cuck experience.

aww comon why tease us?