Legitimate question from a young couple

Reading through this site, I feel as if I'm a bit too normal to be posting here. Thank you to the people who are real, don't exaggerate their stories (much anyway), pretend to be women, just post fantasies, etc. etc. If you guys could help me out a bit, that would be great!

Our relationship is solid, and because of that we have felt that it's okay to try some things with other people. It's understood that it will be a one way type of thing, and that I will not be playing with other women, but she may with other men. She has really only been comfortable with it in the context of a MMF threesome, but we are exploring now, and want to expand that a bit.

Over the past year we have played with only one other permister, my best friend, who we have had many threesomes with. Originally, it was a regular threesome where all of the partners are involved equally, but has since evolved into me mostly watching the two of them (my choice) and occasionally joining in. He is very dominant over her (she is naturally submissive) so the coupling works great. During these times together, I have been dominant too during sex and submissive only in the fact that I enjoy watching (which could also be viewed as dominant if in the context of me sharing her). Naturally though, I am also submissive, but have yet to express this much.

Our usual ménage à trois happen over the course of a weekend once or twice a month, with increasing frequency lately. He usually stays the entire weekend and has sex with her multiple times - we are pretty much naked and doing something sexual the whole time. As we have all known each other for years, after this new contact he and my girlfriend are building a really great relationship. Although they were friends before, it is definitely becoming more now - what I would probably classify as a very large mutual crush. I wouldn't use the term 'boyfriend' yet, but once we are engaged, we may. Again though, our relationship is very solid, and we both trust my friend very much. There is no way that they are going to start a relationship outside of this, and it has actually made my girlfriend and I even closer than before.

My girlfriend knows of my desire for the sexual part of the relationship to focus mainly on them, and that I enjoy watching more. She too enjoys it, as she can have me whenever she wants, but only has him for a short period. Since she was so accepting of this, we started to talk about incorporating more elements of cuckolding into our relationship and she was very receptive. She often jokes about my cock size, etc. but when it comes to the relationship between the three of us we are unsure where to start. It seems that most of what is on here is blatant fantasy - or people just have much more extreme relationships than we are looking for at this time. Not saying it couldn't evolve there, but for those of us who don't start off by jumping in head first, what are some elements of cuckolding that we could incorporate into our relationship?

Also, he is going to be relocating to our town this coming year, and we are seriously thinking of asking him to move into our place. What are your opinions of this? What additional cuckold elements would you recommend in this situation?

Thanks so much! Let me know if you need any more info or want to know about specifics - I didn't want to make this too ridiculously long!
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Oh well, guess you need to see who you're talking about. More to come with responses!
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My wife has been cuckolding me for awhile now, and all I can say is keep the lines of communication open between the two of you. Discuss were you want this to go at length, it will make it easier on you in the long run.

My wife and I also have an agreement that either of us can call of anything at any time.

Good luck and your fiancee is hot!
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Same thoughts, communicate with her.

Wow, she looks great. Sounds like you are heading in the right direction...nice and slow. My wife is fucking our neighbor/my best friend, and it has been a great experience for her and I. Our communication has never been better...she and I talk a lot more now than we ever did.

The only thing I would caution about, is having him move in with you guys. While he may be a good friend...even best friends have moments of friction. If something would ever happen between you and your friend, you might want some space to allow for things to cool down. Or worse, you and he have a fight about something...then you have to kick him out???

I'm not so sure about him moving in...as Allen mentions above. You might consider giving her full control of your cock and orgasms, makes sense with you becoming her cuckold. By the way, she is gorgeous! Would love to see her in action.

As has been said keep talking honestly and openly and I too would hold off the moving in. To me that is more extreme than my wife fucking somebody different everyday. Try and let her know how much you enjoy the little offense that she does subject you to and she will do it more often.

BTW your GF is very hot and I can see why you enjoy watching her.

Very beautiful lady. I agree with the others that the friend should not become a member of your household. Your girl and you should have that space for yourselves, and only invite him over when you both agree to it.
It seems like the potential for issues increases greatly if he is living there.

Continue to talk to her about what she wants from both of you guys, but also she may want to test out a new cock occasionally.

Yeah, the move in situation was something that we were thinking of independently of the cuckold situation, but I guess they would have to be one in the same, so I see what the problems could be. Ha, guess that's out!


Thanks for all of the suggestions and advice, we will definitely be keeping the lines of communication open. We are now very open with each other, and I don't see that stopping anytime soon!


I'm also glad you all admire her!
Here's an action shot - more later!
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That's definitely a good idea, and the kind of advice I'm looking for!

We were also thinking about getting a chastity device - not for 24/7 but just sometimes while they are together.
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So far, every time that they have had sex I have been in the same room, either watching, hanging out, joining in, that kind of thing. We have been talking about that not being the case next time and I was wondering what your best experiences have been.

We are considering me being in another room, me leaving the house for a few hours and letting them play, or even having him take her on a date (dinner, movie) that kind of thing and then having sex in a car after.

What would you guys think would be best/hottest?
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Hi there

What an open and refreshing post (and a beautiful girl to boot).

You sound like the kind of 'young couple' I have been looking to
meet for ages - although your mention of 'high-school sweethearts'
suggests you are 'the other side of the pond to me'.

I look at things from the Dominant side of things (naturaly for me
as I am Dominant sexually).

The one thing you mention is that she is truly submissive and you
feel the same way - but that is a part you have yet to explore
fully.

Here is a couple of ideas for you to start (I am sure thier have
been many suggestions - so here are a coupe for you to think
of and possibly 'pick'.)

You need to give your friend a litle more control - although
he seems to be enjoying himself pretty much anyway!

Has your girlfriend evr been spanked? Maybe you should start
with this. Let him put her over his knee and only stop when she
is begging for him to have sex with her (and maybe post pictures
and get them both to write and tell in thier own words how it felt).

Sexual control of you is probably another thing to try, one or more
of the following might be good to try.

1) You can be in the same room as them but have your hands
tied to a chair or a radiator pipe so you are truly unable to stop
things even if you wanted to.

2) Same as above - but with you either being blindfolded or
gagged or both so you can only listen and imagine what is going
on - totally unable to communicate with either of them until
they have finished with each other.

3) Be restrained in such a way that it is impossible to touch yourself
or relieve any frustrations - natural sexual feeling watching a girl
as beautiful and exciting as your girlfriend fucked senseless.

4) Be forbidden to touch yourself in any way but not restrained.

5) Have a belt nearby that your friend will have to regrettably
use on you (gently) should you fail to keep your hands off yourself
when you get too excieted watching her fucked.

6) Restriction of any sexual pleasure for you for two days before he
arrives and for two days after you leave so you can 'enjoy' the
frustration - watching them enjoy each other sexually.

7) If any sexual release is going to be allowed - you have to beg
and possibly go and wank in the park somewhere for thier amusement.


MOST IMPORTANTLY - have fun you seem to be sharing something that
not many people achieve so enjoy it!

Finally you could always pack her off to England for a weekend and
let a randy old pervert use her for you
(Well everyone has got to dream )

Good post, please keep us informed of your progress and if you want
to talk - feel free to PM me.
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You have a beautiful girlfriend and it seems that your relationship is quite strong. I would echo everyone else about having him move in, it just seems like that could evolve into something else.

I would also suggest that you broaden your horizons with at least one other guy, maybe more. Perhaps your friend could introduce someone else to your girlfriend and they could have a MMF threesome. Even though your girlfriend is submissive, it would be good for her to learn more about her power over men.

Thanks for starting an unusually articulate and interesting thread. For what it's worth, the approach you are taking seems sensible in that it is incremental and allows all three of you to get comfortable at each milepost before pushing ahead.

I appreciated your comments that your friend would not take advantage of the situation, but you cannot control his feelings for your girlfriend and vice versa. If he is soon to be local, you have options that can take you further down the road to cuckoldry without immediately having him live with you.

You could, for example, give him the greenlight to take a more dominant role and -- by agreement -- let him have your girlfriend (assuming she is willing) when he wants, both at your place and his. That way, it's not always involving you watching.

Likewise, you have not mentioned whether he is barebacking her. If not, that is another very arousing step to take that leads to other aspects of cuckoldry such as creampie clean-up.

Finally, if he is dom and she is sub, you could encourage him to share her with a trusted friend of his.

These are just a few suggestions that we have enjoyed and know others do as well.

Good luck to all of you.

PS -- she is very cute!

I think things are preogressing well for you. I agree maybe the other guy could take on a more dominant role over your girlfriend and you. Other than that I say enjoy it.

hi
thanks for sharing...very hot to read and to see and i can relate because when i started with my current wife we were both 25 and 23 and our relation started with a threesome with our best friend.reading your story gives me great memories although you are taking things further than we.

My advice : enjoy but beware...don't bring him in your house..play a dominant husband in terms that you also decide what and when.if that situation is defined...than you can enjoy whatever happens

and feel free to post more from her...she's great and nice to see some young cuckolding here.

Thanks so much for all of the replies! She and I are going away for the next week so I won't be able to respond in detail until next weekend. Your suggestions are greatly appreciated though and I will be sure to talk everything over with her this week. I look forward to hearing what else you guys have to say!

Thanks
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Since we are leaving today for a week, last night Joe (the friend) came over to say goodbye. I suggested to her earlier that she spend some time alone with him too, and of course she didn't mind, esp knowing that I approved and wanted it. When he got there it was pretty late because he had to work during the day, so we all just hung out and relaxed for a little while. Soon they started kissing, and when the making out got a bit heavier and clothes came off, I said that I was going to bed. Joe looked pretty dissapointed because he thought that meant that things wouldn't go any further, but Ang kept kissing him and got all of his attention back immediately.

A few minutes later I could hear them go into the guest room (we have a 3 bedroom apt but only 2 are actual bedrooms and they are next to each other) and could hear them climb into bed. I couldn't hear much at first ad knew that they were going down on each other. That has always been a very permisteral thing to us (she never liked receiving oral before me, and never did it with any exs)so immedately it was a flood of emotions. For the next few hours I listened to her orgasm three times, him cum twice, and them have sex for quite a bit of time. The strangest times for me were the silent time though, I wasn't sure if they were relaxing, cuddling, doing oral, or having slow sex.

This was a very interesting thing to explore, and overall I loved it! She ended up coming back to our room about 4 hours later a very very happy woman. I was going to tell her that she could stay the night in his bed, but the feeling of her naked and sweaty body on mine was too good.ha, something to try next time.

Ill update more when I return (when I'm not doing it from my phone). Thanks for reading everyone!
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I would spank the cuckolds brownie out of her , totally hot as hell

i thiught he said they were high school sweethearts lmao

Cagey, Good observation. The other site has the same photos of the same girl but she's LittleJimmys new girlfriend on that site while she's soon to be married to Johnnyangplay in this post. Do you think LittleJimmy knows his new girlfriend is soon to be married to Johnnyangplay?

Nice GF!

I would like see she sucks
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Hey guys, finally back from vacation! I see that someone found my girlfriend's pictures on another site, but I wasn't sure if you were saying that he stole them from me or that I stole them (and in essence saying that I'm fake)? If it was that one, that's okay, but notice that I don't have water marks or anything on my pictures and I posted them before he did. Not to mention that I'm a confirmed real permister on this site.

Ah well, for those of you who got back to me about actual stuff, I'll respond to everything now!
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While we were away we took quite a bit of time to talk about all of the possibilities, and we have decided to take some of this advice.

First off, he does bareback her (she's on birth control and he uses condoms with his other partners) but we haven't played with that much other than sloppy seconds sex. What else would you suggest doing?

Angela and I have decided to extend an open invitation to Joe, so that he can have sex with her at our place whenever he would like. I don't think that we're ready yet to open it up to whenever he would like at his place too, but that's okay because it's much easier for him to travel up here than it is for her to go to him (he's in school and doesn't have a job while she works full time). I'm also going to leave it up to him to decide if I will join in, just watch, or not be in the room. I think that this is a good step in the right direction. What do you all think?

Also, Ang is pretty excited about the idea of having a threesome with Joe and one of his friends. Although she wouldn't want to have another on going relationship type thing, a single threesome or something similar is very exciting to her. Not sure yet who we would do it with (Joe and I have mostly mutual friends) but at least it's something to think about.

Joe's going to be here for most of the next week as he has a few more weeks before school starts, so we're going to talk to him and I'll update if anyone is interested. Thanks!
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that I'm fake)?


nothing fake happens around here...

Haha, noo definitely not. It's funny how no one ever calls out the dudes who really want their wives to leave them, or any of the 30000 other completely unreamisterable stories.
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Nice to see you are back again, for one am enjoying your posts and
will be interested to hear how this develops - will PM you shortly!!

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I am looking forward to seeing how things work out.