Should my girlfriend start openly cucking me around her friends?

Hi, everyone,

I'm a longtime lurker and first-time poster.

My girlfriend and I are beginning a cuckold relationship. We've been together for almost a year, love each other, and love it when she fucks other guys. Last weekend, memorial day weekend, she went home and hung out with her younghood friends. After a day of skinnydipping and semipublic fondling, she hooked up with a friend of her friend's. And they did it in a public fashion: everyone was discussing the relaxing arrangements for the night (they were sharing a house) and this guy grabs my girlfriend by the wrist and pulls her down to the basement, announcing, "I'm going to go to bed." He took my girlfriend to bed, where he fucked her missionary, and then doggie style, finally cumming inside her while she screamed "Fuck this slut." In other words, this was not a surreptitious coupling.

My girlfriend wants to continue cucking me around her friends. Openly cucking me, telling her friends I'm a cuckold. This is waay arousing for me. But I worry about the social implications. Her friends are an important part of her life and I don't know if I want/can stand being thought of as a cuckold by all of them.

The alternative is that I contact men on craigslist and friendfinder and arrange meetings. But my girlfriend doesn't like that. She doesn't want to see me emasculated in a sexual setting.

What do you think? Explore this? Or keep it between us ("it" being my willingness to be cuckolded)?

I'm afraid I can't offer any advice. I can tell you what I'd do, which is to basically keep it going the way it currently is. And the way it currently is, sounds like she already is openly cucking you in front of her friends.

In any event, you do have a great looking g'friend!

you're living the dream...go with it

keep doing it

id loooove it
and had it a little bit

my ex told her good gf
and her mouth dropped and she said 'sweeet' still remember that moment

The smirky smiles from her friends are the best. The unspoken knowledge that they know is sweet agony.

def agree indycpl

it just makes it all more intense and real

Keep it like it is -sit back and enjoy the humilation. If it becomes too much discuss with Gf. Easy! now have fun

Oh, and post some more pics of that hot and sexy GF of yours ummm

yeah def agree more pics of your girl

doesn't sound like you have a choice if she already told them. It can be humilating at times. We have one couple who are both of our friends that know and her best friend knows. Problem is her best friend is renting a room from us now and I end up cleaning up after her. lol... but all in all its cool.

Sounds like you are enjoying it, if you like and she likes it, the hell with it. Remember that part of being a cuckold is the offense. It is much more humiliating with friends, than with strangers.
Sissy Cynthia

Be sure that this is really what you want and keep care of the feelings like "love" which can arouse in your wife's heart towards one of your friends! You could lose her! This happened to me, unfortunately it can be the price to pay for such adventures!!! We should not forget that most women's sexuallity works differently than ours.

Thanks for all your comments!

My girlfriend made me take the picture down (she knows about the site and my fondness for it).

I think I'm going to go for it! I'm excited, she's excited, it's all looking good. She tells me she plans on fucking two to three guys a month and she's going to do it around and with her friends. She says she won't be able to resist teasing me when we're all hanging out together.

She says she loves the combination of a loving boyfriend and her sexual freedom. In fact, it's my love and support that gives her the security to go out and be a total slut.

I will update as the lifestyle develops...

Good luck and may be you could put the pics back up at some stage?

I hope you continue sharing with us what happens next. Good luck.

i'm curious as to what she looks like....did anyone save the pic that was posted?

"She says she loves the combination of a loving boyfriend and her sexual freedom. In fact, it's my love and support that gives her the security to go out and be a total slut. "

Regardless of whether her friends know or not, that statement is exactly why my wife and I love this lifestyle. My wife has frequently told me that there is no way she would be as slutty as she is if she was single. I love it and I really get off hearing of her adventures.

Only a couple of her friends know of her infidelities and we haven't let on that I know, but instead she has played the cheating wife role. It works for us.

She already is cuckolding you, her fucking other men just isn't being termed as such...If you both (and it seems so) enjoy the lifetyle keep doing what you are, and I think deal with it head on.

As a socially known cuckold my entire sexual life I can say and condirm;
"The smirky smiles from her friends are the best. The unspoken knowledge that they know is sweet agony." If you can truly enjoy her friendships AND her lovers...Emotional bliss will ensue!


tracy

Since your girlfriend has already had a very obvious liamister with one of her friends from home, it's kind of too late to hide the fact that she dates other guys from her friends. You should accept the fact that they already know and also openly accept them as your friends. The diificult part to accept will be when another guy wants to take your girlfriend down to the basement while you have to hang out with her other friends and everyone knows and in fact can hear everything that is happening. Are you ready for that?

Hi, everyone,

To update: Things are going smoothly. Some of her friends know and some of them don't. Some think we're in an "open" relationship. At least one knows about our cuckold relationship. Girlfriend hasn't fucked anyone new since the last guy memorial day weekend, but today she returns from a European vacation, possibly with stories for me.

While on vacation, she sent me this email:

"Then I wake up, tragically not sated, so head to the shower where the detachable nozzle has helped me in frustrating days previous. However, even replaying this delicious dream scenario doesn't quite do it for me, despite embellishments and reconfigurations, and I find my mind dallying back to the tattoo parlor piercing place narrative we crafted together, and it is the thought of you- being there, watching, frustrated, seeing me want, crave, beg for more, bigger, harder that gets me really hot. After being fucked by the first guy with another cock in my mouth while strapped down, legs spread wide, a guy with a huge cock comes in from the back, too big, I don't know if I can take it. You weakly protest "isn't this about enough" but you're ignored... and it's the moment, the moment when i have this giant cock pressing inside me and I'm spasming with pleasure, out of control, begging for more, and the first guy says, standing there watching- "look at this little slut coming so hard on this big cock while her boyfriend sits there watching". . . that puts me over. "

She's finally getting off on cucking me. Not just fucking other guys, but humiliating me.

Great! Are you getting off on her humiliating you?

I know exactly what you mean!! My wife have been cucking me for the last 5 years or so, but it has been very private/discreet, because it obviously is a little taboo. Things have changed a bit though over the last month or so, cause she's started telling her regular gf's that she sometimes goes out with in the weekends. Last weekend she came home from a night out with one of her best (regular) gf's who's single and told me.."welll it's out in the open, i told her all about my activities"....I got a little shocked, but must admit also pretty aroused. I then (with out her knowing) checked some of her messages on her phone and could see that she'd told, or strongly hinted it to more of her friends, including one of mine. One of the messages to her friend was a pic of a man she's apparently been talking to saying..." I think I'm going to bone Mr.......on 9/11"..to which her friend responded.."Please do!!! For the both of us. He's beautiful".....It'll be interesting and kinda exciting to see her friend this weekend when she comes to pick her up for a night out. Knowing that she knows my wife dates other men. Something to get used to, that it's not in the closet anymore, but I'm pretty excited about it

other experiences?

My wife has told around 5 of her friends. On top of her mom and sisters knowing.
My wife loves bull seed

This was one of my wife's conditions for starting the cuckold lifestyle.

To paraphrase her words: "I don't want everyone to think I'm a bitch who's screwing around on you and that you're the poor suffering husband who's getting cheated on. If I'm going to do this, I'm going to be open with my friends about the fact that you're on board."

She quite rightfully didn't want her reputation to suffer whilst fulfilling my fantasies.

So while she doesn't go around rubbing it in anyone's face, her closest friends are very well aware that I'm a cuckold.

People react to it differently. Her best friend thinks I"m an amazing guy for giving her so much freedom, she tells me quite openly that she admires me for it. Others give you that smirk and occasionally I've taken some good natured teasing about it. But mostly, people don't really care. It's shocking/amusing at first they hear about it, but for the most part they are wrapped up in their own little lives.
~sissy~

My wife couldn't resist telling 2 or 3 of her friends about her extra-marital activities. They never treated me any different once they found out I knew about it and fully approved of it. I even spoke to two of them myself about it and they were impressed at how understanding I was to allow my wife to go and enjoy some extra cock from time to time. One of them was quite jealous, saying her partner would k1ll her if he ever found out what she got up to on nights out with the girls!
Peter C

my wife told her ****** and sister. it has proved helpful as my wife makes me go to her ******s for the evening when she entertains her boyfriend. I love the *********** of them knowing.
georgina5520

You may not want to include all of your friends. But she does need to tell at least 2 or 3 of her girlfriends. What's the point of having handsome men with big cocks if she can't brag about it to someone. Plus, they will be able to help her hookup with other guys in the future.

There are a few different levels of knowing. Should my friend know that I fuck other guys? Should my friend know that my husband knows about it? Should my husband know that my friend knows?

The answer can be different for different friends. My hubby is turned on by some of my friends knowing but would be unpleasantly humiliated by some of his friends knowing. It gets complicated when groups of friends intersect. Once you tell some friends, it is no longer in your control. You may not even know who knows.

Absolutely true. Be very careful about who you decide to share your lifestyle with.

My wife has several friends that know about our life style and I get really turned on by the fact that they know.