Got her to get off on the idea, now what?

Alright, so she went from hating the idea, to using a big long white dildo and fat black dildo in the bedroom. She prefers regular 1v1 sex videos, but will watch any type (MMF, gangbang, cumshots, etc.). She takes my cum on her face and tits, but no anal. Now she has been into the naughty talk and brings up sucking other guys and stuff, but before she ever started, she prefixed it saying that it was only fantasy. Fast forward to New Years Eve and she got cuckolds browniefaced and gave me a hand job. During the hand job she was going on about getting fucked by a black guy and a white guy and at one point said how she "doesn't think she could really do it".

So what's my next step? I don't want to blow my chances to see her sucking/fucking someone.

Thanks!

I say play with her more, get her really into it before pushing the idea (although she's playing along which is a great sign). Put some fingers in her mouth while you fuck her, tell her to suck them like a cock. Tell her how good she does handling two. After a while she'll get more curious.

The key is to decrease inhibition whilst increasing sexual pleasure. Her brain will eventually make the link and fantasy will turn into reality. Takes time but it's worth it. You appear to have started that process with the introduction of dildos. If watching good porn helps, use it, and talk her through watching her fantasy. Good luck. Mail me for more 'in depth' advice.

You are about one step behind me, so I can give you some ideas about the next issue she might respond to. My wife gets off on the fantasy, is more than happy to play around with the idea (especially with a take on board) and will toy with the reality in conversation, always concluding she couldn't really pull it off. Most recently I've gently encouraged her to wonder what it would be like to get fucked senseless by someone with a really good sized cock (that is, bigger than me). Not in a pushy way, just like, 'hmm, I wonder if you would enjoy that; wouldn't that be an experience...'. After a month or so, she brings up the idea herself, so it is obviously on her mind. I also gently encourage her to say something if she sees a young, hot guy who turns her on. It is important not be creepy or push about any of this, just affirm and acknowledge little things she says, and you'll find she says more. Finally, integrate into your lives short vacations, like over-nights, that are just about getting out of your normal space and going to relax and have sex somewhere else. My wife is much more open to the idea of doing it when she's been out of her routine for a few hours and is really, genuinely relaxed. I'm not sure what the next step is, but being regularly horny for a big cock, talking about cute guys she has noticed in the flesh, and chilling out at a nice hotel has her pretty damn close.
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Why not set things up for her? When our cuckold lifestyle was in its early stages I took the time and interest to learn the type of man my wife found sexy....I would ask her to point the guys out ot me when we were out in public, at malls, restaurants, etc. She had previously had sex with a guy from work while on a date with him with my approval. Once I had learned the type of male that turned my wife on, I arranged to meet a 'friend' at a lounge (I actually had met him through a swinger's website without her knowledge)...of course I gave them plenty of room...he danced with her several times and began to come on to her...this had all been prearranged by he and I. Later I invited him to go back to our place with us, and a couple of times during the night I had whispered in her ear things like "Tonight is fantasy fullfilment night, darling!" & "Honey, I know he wants to do you very badly, so if you'd like to do him I'm 100 percent ok with it!" "Don't leave him hanging, baby...if nothing else at least jack him off so he can get rid of that hard on!" She would just smile, and say things like "Let me think about it" so I know she was receptive. I assured her that if she decided to go through with it I would absolutely love her for it. Everythime he excused himself to go to the bathroom I would press the issue of her taking him on.
So neither of them would feel intimidated by my presence, after a few more takes back at our place, I conveniently had to go out for smokes and more *****. By the time I returned she was ready to fuck him. She had changed into something skimpy and they had already been making out on the sofa while I was gone...he was biting on her ear as I entered. I encouraged them into the bedroom and initially stayed out until their private party was in full swing. A little later I went in and joined them. GREAT NIGHT! My wife was extremely grateful that I was such a great husband to let her enjoy herself like that...I told her that the pleasure was all mine, as I was incredibly turned on by her having sex with others. I felt extremely priviledged to be allowed to watch my woman in action with another guy...nothing else compares to that thrill!

This thread has got some good advice of us guys who are trying to get our wives to give us our first cuckold experience. Thanks.

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How goes the journey. Have you and your wife advanced any further?
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