What do you think about this wife?

Now and in the past I have made it known to my wife that I would like to watch her have sex with another man and let her enjoy the freedom to date and fuck whom she pleases. At first she didn't agree to the idea, then slowly she admitted to me that she would like to eventually try other guys. Months have past and she hasn't approached me with any prospects which is odd because I know she likes this man she works with a handsome stud that often flirts with her. A man she has talked about for years, a ladys man a player she says as she refers to his character.
At the present moment I discovered a text message on her cell phone. The message was to inform her that the hotel room is ready and that she must call the text message number if she decides to go. So obviously she might be seeing someone and now she isn't telling me, she seems to be keeping it a secret which is against my request. She knows I approve and she has my permission. Why do you suppose she remain's secretive if she is indeed fucking someone else and I think its ok, just be open about it is all that I require of her.

When I first encouraged my wife to cuck me and she agreed, she deep down inside was afraid that I would later back down. She was afraid that once she did it, jealousy would take over and I would change my mind and leave her. She much later confessed to me that she had those fears all along and that was why she waited so long to cuck me, even though she had plenty of chances with guys she liked.

When she finally did it, she first kept it a secret from me, until I had to pry it out of her when I suspected she was already fucking someone. She confessed that she had been very afraid that i would reject her after that. I had to spend a lot of time reassuring her that I loved her, and that the fact she was cuckolding me with other guys only added to my love for her. Once she felt sure of it, she finally opened up and started to actively seek other sex partners, and eventually she even included me in their lovemaking, (letting me watch them). When she had first finally started cucking me, she would fuck the guy in private and later she would tell me the sexy details. When she would come home from a "date" and tell me the details I would go crazy with lust for her. It was that reaction she saw in me that finally convinced her that I would enjoy seeing her and her bull fucking each other's brains out...which I do enjoy more than anything in the world!

You must be very convincing with her and reassure her that you will love her, even after she has taken on other lovers...matter of fact tell her you will love her even more!! Once she feels sure of this she will open up and make you a lucky cuck!

Thank you Juanito, possibly this is the way my wife feels. Anyone else have a comment ? I appreciate all points of view

I'm trying to get my wife to do it with another guy, but not behind my back, which I would consider cheating on me. I think honesty in the relationship is important and if it were my wife I would ask her what's going on.