Question for the basic cuckolds

this is a question for the basic cuckolds meaning a question for cuckolds that are generally not well endowed and gave permission to their wives to seek extra maritial affairs to pleasure herself in ways they cannot provide, thus being a lovely husbands.
Please husbands who are into extreme offense, closet homosexuals, into sissification, getting gang banged in the ass , transexualism, transvestims, cuckold, total slavery, fetish, I ask you not to answer. There is a reamister its in basic cuckold category...

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Dear basic cuckold, if you can increase your penis size to a satisfactory level, where the wife would be satisfied by it. Would you ask her to stop cuckolding you?
(cuckoldresses of basic cuckolds are encouraged to answer as well, if he asked you to stop since he can satisfy you now, would you ?)


The reamister that I am asking, is that : I noticed that the majority of cuckolds in here are around 4 to 5 inches in lenght, and they are generally overweight (have noticed that in the pictures, not trying to insult anyone).
so, guys, you probably can add an inch or two to your penis, just by losing weight and let the fat around the fat of penis disapear to reveal its true lenght.
I know it doesnt work for everybody, just trying to see if it changes anything.
again I am not trying to insult anyone. if it appears like that to anyone, then its a misunderstanding. english is not my first language.
thanks.

Well,,,you included women in your request for an answer, so I'll answer for both of us, no he wouldn't ask me to quit, and no I wouldn't if he did. This has become a lifestyle for us and there's a whole lot more going on than dick size, my hub's got 6 inches and he pleases me to no end, but the newness of a strange lover for me, and the knot in his stomache for him, can't be replaced by an extra inch or two. Just like you can fill a pussy with Asto-Glide and it won't have the same "sloppy seconds" that so many hubs look forward to, a bigger dick can't replace a "different dick".

Thanks Mary, and luvmygirl for the answers.

Mary, what you said is interesting, if I may try to analyse both of you then you both are thrill seekrs as luvmygirl, thrill seekers are people who get bored immediatly if somehting becomes routine and they become depressed.
maybe its the same for you and your husband, since its more about the constantly new, not the satisfaction itself if you know what I mean.

I asked my wife if she would rather have a husband with 8" or if she likes having her little 4" dick husband and the ability to fool around with whoever she wants. She said that she LOVES the thrill of new guys and the feel of a big cock stretching her and would not want to change if all of a sudden I had a big cock.
I am also somewhat submissive and she is a bit DOMME so the cuckold aspect of our relationship is a lot of fun with her teasing me that her lovers are so much bigger and better being a huge part of that.

Interesting, so its more or less the same as Mary and her husband.

I'd say it is the same as to ask someone who having an affair whether he or she would change if their partner got bigger boobs or more muscles.

This is about lifestyle, not about dick size.

No, I would not ask her to stop. The jealousy/thrill I get is much a part of it. And, for me, it is also seeing another man's sperm inside of her that makes me crazy in lust!

Although the "norm" might be for cuck husbands to have smaller penises, I really don't believe that it is a pre-requisite for wanting to be a cuck. I've never had any problem with my size (7" +) but I am extremely turned on by the thought and sight of my wife and another man...many of my wife's lovers have not even been as big as I...it is the idea of watching her getting laid that turns me on...not the size...just seeing her enjoy another guys dick is what motivates my desire...nothing to do with size. I am sure there are many other cucks out there that are in the same boat...they want to be a cuck regardless of their penis size.

I have 7 1/2 inches and my wife does prefer larger cocks, but she likes mine as well. Our schedules prevent us from getting together very often, which neither of us likes. Yes, I would prefer her to not have lovers outside of me, but I have never asked her to stop.

We began as swingers and I stopped many years ago and decided to have sex with only her. She has told me for years that I can always go out and find someone else, but I will not.

NOOOOO! Haha, this is just too much fun to give up. Even though it seems like a necessity for me, whether I'd like it or not, my life seems just a bit more fulfilled with this and I'm thankful every day for what I have. Had I maybe been built differently I might never have gotten a chance to know these intense emotions!

kodder It's nothing to do with dick size for us, it's about variety of men. The novelty of new men, just like multi orgasmic mary says.

What extra weight I've put on has been added since my wife first cucked me so I don't think less weight and therefore more available cock length would have made any difference. No matter how she justified it after the event, she cucked me because she wanted a different cock inside her and it was an added bonus for her that his cock was much bigger than mine.

Aw, how considerate of you to give advice, haha! I'm hijacking Took's login again. I have to agree with everyone though, it's not about size for us. Took is a big hunk and totally satisfies me. We do this because it was his fantasy that he shared with me and we both enjoy it and have fun. If he asked me not to do anything else (regardless of what size he was) then I would stop straight away of course, because it's not fun unless both of you are enjoying yourselves.
Mrs Took x

if my 5 inch dick magically grew to 12 inches long and 7 inches around - i would still want my wife to fuck other men. its not just the size difference i like - its the fact thats its a new cock going in her pussy.

I'd want my wife to fuck other men even if my "almost" 4" dickette grew to be normal or even extranormal size. It's not just my dickette that makes me useless in bed and a lousy fuck, it's a lack of confidence, of an attitude than most men are better than me, and other things as well.
tiny dick (almost 4" hard), lousy fuck, useless in bed... to women / cocksucking, pussified, assfucked sissyboi cumdump... for MEN
available for use

I will be in the minority here 'cuz if I had a real mans dick and I could make a woman feel like a real woman should feel I would never want to share her with anyone else; however, if she wanted to experience different things, I wouldn't have a problem with it as long as we'd talk things over before hand.
I guess the bottom line is that I wouldn't be a cuck if I had the power of
'THE BIG COCK'.

Truth!


Truth!


Plenty of cuckolds have enormous cocks! Plenty of sissies also have a large package! Lots of men show an inordinate interest in big, fat, long and hard cock! I believe that a big prick attracts more men than ladies! I sure hear many men spend a lot of time talking about other men's cocks! I also know some cute sissies who bemoan their very large penis sizes. It is hard and depressing for a gurl to feel pretty and feminine with "her" huge junk messing up the ever important girlyness of the sissies' panty area! Large cocks just ruin the aesthetics of a sissy panty when it's jammed full of 8 1/2 inches!

I just figure that many men only have (and love) red hot fantasies thinking about other men fucking and satisfying their wives for one very good reason.

It is a HOT fantasy thinking about your wife's cheating cunt filled and leaking her lover's cum. The cuckold gets the added bonus of strict sexual denial from his wife! It hurts so good!

Your cock may be huge or microscopic. It doesn't matter at all. Another man is satisfying all of your wife's sexual needs. Not you.

I think many cuckolds begin as swingers and start to embrace cuckolding as they see and realize men wildly fucking their wives! Cucky only sits and chats with the wife (who has zero interest in swapping with him) of the hubby who is nailing the sh1t out of his own wife!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Well, for me, it would not make any difference. Unlike some above, I do have a small pee pee (boy sized) but that is not the reason for being a cuckold. It's because I am hopeless at using it for sex. I was always worried that I would not perform well and therefore never did. I have not had sex with any female, including Her Indoors as they say because I am so poor at it and they never wanted a second turn which obviously did nothing for my confidence. So even if I had the extra length and girth I can't imagine enjoying it. I have never done so yet.

Talk to a guy who has had his penis removed for medical purposes. Any one of them would LOVE to have your cock!

It is your attitude that keeps you outside of pussies. I don't perform well all of the time. Maybe my cock won't get hard. Or stay hard. Or goes anorgasmic and refuses to cum! Any man's cock won't rise to the occasion every time he needs it to! Here is how I handle my performance issues. Now understand that I'm sharing a secret "limp cock remedy" with you, so please keep it under your hat!

My dick isn't working and I'm with a girl. We try and try, but no cigar! The chick feels that she may be the cause and says so. What can I do in that kind of situation? I laugh and tell her that is literally 100% MY FUCKING PROBLEM and that she has nothing whatsoever to do with MY FUCKING PROBLEM! I'll tell her that any sexually capable man could and would love to fuck her brains out right now while I can't! This provides incontrovertible proof to her that she is very desirable and puts her at ease. Fucking problems are going to happen. Often at the worst possible time! I'll tell her I have a fucking problem and it is 100% a problem that I must solve pers0nally! I'll schedule a "rematch" for a later date and then we laugh and party! Girls are totally understanding when you are sincere and truthful. The fucking world doesn't stop turning because your dick won't work.

Quit being so tight assed about sex and women and your self-flagellation over your self perceived sex problems. Girls don't want self pitying whiners for sex. Girls want a guy that has the balls to take full responsibility for his "fucking problem"! You can be that guy.

It is really that simple. Girls understand a man's cock can "fuck up". That will not turn a girl off. The man's attitude and reaction to his sorry, nonfunctional dick WILL turn off any woman! Laugh and loosen up! Quit thinking about your cock and you'll find your cock will start thinking for itself. Cocks think about cunts and how to get invited into them.

Nothing wrong with you except your whiney attitude. There are men of all cock sizes who are surrounded by pussy because they know how to properly deal with women. You can be that guy!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Well you say so but I have to admit that I don't recognise the guy you think I am or could be. Do you think I have not tried? Believe me I have!
You talk of my whiney attitude. Maybe I do lack your self belief. But I don't think you are being fair to say that I am whiney. I simply answered the question would I be a cuckold if I were bigger. And I explained why it would not change the reality.

stevenjam12

Bullsh1t.

You are wise to seek professional counsel. Til then I can give your first 3 steps of my totally unqualified advice to start you on your very own pers0nal yellow brick road!

1. Quit whining!

2. Put on your big girl panties.

3. Tell people to go fuck themselves. You will play with your own prick whenever you please.

Let me know how it goes.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

you don't allow anybody (including me) to be their own person. We must all fit your model of what being a man is.
Well, now it's my turn to be aggressive.
Get a life. We are all different.
Quit telling others they must obey you.
I presume you wear big BOY pants. Well good for you. Are they on or off as you read this. Are you playing with your big boy pee pee?
Stop accusing people (well me anyway) to quit whining even when we tell you we are not whining.
Which takes me to my last point. Try reading and understanding what others write.

stevenjam12;


I thought people like yourself were asked to please refrain from answering. The guy said that there is a reas0n this thread is in the Basic Cuckold forum. Anyhow, that is my interpretation of the request of the OP.


Ouch!

Please check the dictionary definition of whine and whining!

Keep smiling!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

I just did. Not sure what point you are making.
But I was going to write anyway to apologise, sir, for getting a bit carried away. Sorry!

My bad! I probably meant thesaurus instead of dictionary, but didn't know how to spell it.


Sorry for what? You told me to go fuck myself in a civil manner. You clearly explained why you thought so. Well it sure looks like you successfully made your point to me! Congratulations! You stood up for yourself and won!

Why did you ruin it by apologizing to me because I had caused you to become a bit pissed at my attitude? Fuck me! You're sorry for what? Because I spouted some asshole sh1t your way? That's my tough luck, not yours!

Now, tell your wife and her friend that they've @bused you enough! You will no longer allow yourself to perform for their amusement! Walk away and do not answer any questions. You don't exist to worship their sorry asses! They will try baiting you with various statements, remarks or whatever. Ignore that sh1t.

Now you know the secret. DO NOT APOLOGIZE TO THEM FOR ANY REASON!!! LET THEM RETURN TO YOU AND APOLOGIZE TO YOU!

Do this correctly and they will begin showing you some respect.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Thanks for the advice but I can't. I'd be punished if I dared to try. I am contented with my lot, on the whole. I am sure there are plenty of others on this site who know where I am coming from. I am simply not like you I_A_S_P'
I am what I am.

I am above average in size, but I just cannot keep up with my wife and therefore I allow her to take other lovers. Plus being a voyeur when she has a lover that lets me watch is a plus.

as far as I am concerned, I am about 5.11 inches long, thin, a nice man, but unable to satisfy my wife because I am helpless and limp, but above all I am a very fast premature ejaculator. for me it would not change anything to have a bigger or longer penis. My dream is to know that my wife is satisfied, even mentally, by the possibility of living a more lively and free sexuality. our society believes that this sexual freedom is an exclusive prerogative of man, but I find it more exciting to think that it is a concession that belongs only to my wife

Piemme30
Piemme30

When my wife first started chatting online tp my ex-work colleague Mick, I would occasionally be allowed to see their conversation and remember Mick admitting to her that he only had a 3 or 4 inch dick. This in no way put Debbie off. He'd asked her out many years before when we worked together and although tempted, had declined. Later he dated her youngest sister and Debbie confessed later to be been rather jealous. Once their online chats had grown more frequent and flirty it led to Mick asking my wife out again and this time she was much more receptive to his advances.

I remember being summoned to pick her up from near his house and her comments included, "Well, that wasn't all that!" and "When he said he only had a small cock I thought he was joking!" One night as I undressed in front of her, Debbie commented, "Your dick soft is the size of Mick's hard." This didn't however stop her seeing him again and she even went away with him for a week's holiday.
Peter C