What is the ultimate cuckolding act?

The other night when laying in bed with my lover Bill I commented that my having his baby was probably the ultimate cuckolding act and he disagreed with me. He told me that he had a friend (who was actually his mentor and introduced him to cuckolding) who eventually married the wife of a couple he was cuckolding. Apparently she divorced her husband but kept him living with them as a lodger. Eventually they married and the ex-husband was best man and a witness. He even went on honeymoon with them.

I didn't respond to this because I got the impression that maybe he was hinting that we should do the same thing, and this is something I don't plan on doing and don't want to confront just now. Anyway, it did get me thinking if this was the ultimate act of cuckolding. What do others think here?

I have voted for the first option but I have to admit that option 2 might well be the ultimate act.

Definately the first.

The first. No doubt about it.

I'd say the answer depends on whether it comes from the perspective of the husband or the wife.

From the wife's perspective, clearly the answer is the first. Few things can speak louder about the most basic and fundamental feelings of a woman towards the men in her life than whom she selects to man her young.

But from the perspective of the husband, I think the primary motivation in this lifestyle is to hold up one's wife as so desirable that other stronger and more viable men will *naturally* claim her--and yet she will remain the life partner of the cuckolded husband. To have that that final validation stripped away--and to concede that his wife is better off with her lover in every regard--seems more of a sacrifice to a cuckolded husband.

In my estimation, raising her young will likely not be a burden for hubby, regardless of who maned it. Given the struggles with self-esteem that come part and parcel with cuckolded men, he may rationalize that having *superior* genetics is to the advantage of the young he will help raise.

The real questions in my mind surround at what point a young needs to be told who their actual man is. No moralizing from me on that point; I don't have an answer to that one.

In my humble opinion, a wife who trains her husband to assist her in pleasing and servicing her lover is the ultimate. Having a young or divorcing the husband is much too extreme in my book.
To me, the idea that a wife truly loves her husband but loves the attention of another man's cock is the perfect scenario.
Not only does the husband willingly accept the other man as the preferred lover, but he also assists in what ever way he can to enhance the pleasure of his wife and her lover by orally servicing them before, during and after they fuck.
This dominance by the wife should nd after the lover leaves. Then all returns to normal for the couple and they resume their loving relationship.

Hi fun gall, been loving your posts, you truly are a fantastic Cuckoldress and your hubby is very lucky indeed.

I voted for #5 as that would truly be my ultimate fantasy and the ideal top of all offense.

Keep up the great work and best of luck on the pregnancy.

The only reamister I didn't vote for marrying the lover is purly the technicality of the husband no longer being a cuckold by definition. The game is over so to speak. I went with young.

I have a fantasy of living with my lover, keeping my sissy femmed cuck in the house and a few steps behind lover and I in public (of course sissified) to serve us, clean us after sex, fluffing my lover, and offering her mouth and sissy ass to my lover also. I think of so many fun things lover an I could do to humiliate sissy fag Jess. It is our ultimate fantasy!
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

Thanks.

I did think of including that but knowing as much as I do now about it I decided against it because of the dangers involved.

there is always chemical castration a shot of depo last 3 months

I have voted for the first option but fhe forth was also our practice

voted 2, even poster above says its not cuckolding ..

If the couple do physically separate and the husband moves on then yes I agree that it is no longer a cuckold relationship. However in this case the husband does not move on, he stays in the former marital home where the lover has taken his place, not just in the marital bed, but also in terms of legal status.

I have just had an email from a wife that has done this. She has four youngren, two to her ex-husband and two to her ex-lover now new husband. They started off cuckolding at the husbands request and she fell in love with her lover and he moved in permanently. After she got pregnant she divorced her husband and married her lover. He never went on honeymoon with them - he stayed at home looking after the youngren, but he was the best man at the wedding and paid most of the bill. They have been married 5 years now and they all get on together well. The ex-husband does his fair share of housework and young rearing and is a regular babysitter for them. She occasionally gives her ex hand jobs and blow jobs, so a form of sexual contact still remains, and the ex sometimes watches them have sex.

She tells me that in her mind this is the ultimate act of cuckoldry and a very humiliating one at that.

I would agree with that. The idea of that causes more fear in me than elation I would normally get from offense. Perhaps because it's so different from the norm. I dunno.

The ultimate cuckolding act, is the wife denying to her husband the pleasure of ever again allowing his prick to enter her cunt.
The husband's offense from being denied sex is then multiplied ten-fold when he learns that another man has gained sole use of the cunt to which his prick is barred.

I think it would be the ultimate cuckolding act of all if a cuckoldress offers you sex, you get all excited and go through all of the foreplay, giving her an orgasms orally etc and then allowed to enter her but then to be denied after a single stroke or two. Completely frustrating to have to stop at that point but by doing so, it's truly sex that you are offered and denied. This could be coupled with being tied, powerd to watch a bull have her instead, cross dressed and teased and then followed up at a later date by having a friend or neighbour come over because “she heard about your predicament”...she offers to have sex with you and then does the same thing to you all over again. Imagine being allowed to penetrate that gorgeous neighbour lady you have always had a crush on and then denied and teased at the last second.
Another humiliating scenario is possibly power bi along with a hidden cam so your friends and your wives friends can see what you did.

Well, to be fair to her, she started off the other thread almost 6 months back planning to get her husband into cuckolding. Then it was a perfect fit under "Basic Cuckolding". However, over time she has moved into ultimate cuckolding. I doubt if she expected herself to be in this situation 6 months back. And as this thread is a an off shoot of her original thread, it kinda makes sense, although doesn't fit exactly in this section.

We've talked a lot about the possibility of her divorcing me for someone else, and my wife knows she has my blessing if that's ever what she wants to do. I love her with all my heart, and I know our relationship is challenging for her. If leaving me would make her happy, I'd support it 100%.

She actually got this offer from her last boyfriend, but turned him down (which led to a really unpleasant break-up between them). She is, at heart, not a promiscuous woman, so the split between her marriage and her sex life is sometimes difficult for her, and she has said explicitly that if she were ever to marry someone else it would be a traditional, monogamous marriage.

It's an awkward thought for me, but at the same time, I can't deny that it would be gratifying in a very deep way to experience the "ultimate rejection." Being cut off from her sex life has been intense and gratifying for me, and the thought of being cut off from her life entirely is terrifying, yet perversely exciting to me.

This is a legal matter and probably different for the USA and GB. In my own country the husband is always the lawful man, no matter what. I guess that is the same in GB, and not in the USA.

I can appreciate what others have been saying but think that option 2 is indeed moving on from the cuckolding of hub and wife.
Having thought about it a little more then the wife having the lovers young has to be the top act as that is a public statement of acceptance and of display to the world.
Although that could then be explained as somethign that happened on, say a trial separation!, the fact of having the young and staying as a married couple whist publicly keeping the lover on the scene is surely the biggest offense?
As Fun Gall and hub have advised the family that they are "on a break" surely the ultimate offense would be now to simply admit that they are back together and that hub is a cuck as he cannot fulfill the role of the "man of the house". Keeping Bill on the scene then is the constant offense, before friends and family...just my thoughts anyway.

With my encouragement, my wife of 8 years began taking lovers five years ago. The quality and durations of my erections had left both of us frustrated and she has a strong sexual appetite. She had a few semi-long term trysts, but most were one-night stands. I loved sloppy seconds and cream pies when she came home. She’d be so swollen from being with sexually superior men that she could actually cum on my inferior dicklet.

She is basically a one-man woman, so after a couple years as a hot wife, she quit the lifestyle, leaving us both frustrated. Then we met her boyfriend. They have been lovers for 17 months. After they became lovers, they both began to fall in love. I encouraged it, because he is a great guy and I love her with all my heart. She made it clear that she is uncomfortable having sex with more than one man. I told him that if he would regularly take care of her sexual needs, I would stop trying to have sex with her (“trying” is about all I could do) and her pussy would be exclusively his.

This month marks one year since I have had intercourse with my wife or have tongue kissed her. The only sexual intimacy we have had in a year is when her boyfriend calls me into the bedroom to eat the fresh cream pie that they just made, and that is rare.

She refuses to verbally humiliate me because she is so tender hearted, even though I assure her that it is a turn on for me. But she is finally comfortable talking on the phone with him so I can hear her sweet love talk with him, which is sweeter than it ever was with me. Of course, I get as hard as I ever get hearing this.

He lives out of town and sees her about twice a month. He’s looking for a comparable job here so he can move in with us. Seven months ago I moved into the guest room, so she relaxs alone, waiting for the day that he can claim his place in the master bedroom.

Here’s our experience with the options in the poll:

1. A wife/partner having her lover's young – She has a hysterectomy, so it’s not possible, but we all three truly wish it were. If he decided to move it, the young would be raised as his and I would be “uncle Randy”. If he decided to keep his independence, the young would be raised as mine.
2. A wife divorcing her husband, marrying her lover and having her ex-husband live with them. After they admitted that they were in love, I told her that I would never seek a divorce, but if she wanted to take his name, I would do it for her. We agreed that if we did this, we’d move to another town and I’d be introduced as her relative who lives in. I gotta admit that from m perspective, this is the hottest option, but that might be because option 1 is not possible for us.
3. A wife/partner sissyfying her husband/partner. He is slowly convincing her that I need this. She has bought me panties. For our one-year sexless anniversary, they are planning a surprise, but I know that part of it is that she bought me new panties and is printing a message on a tee shirt for me to wear with them. They both encourage me to play with men since I have no sex with her.
4. A wife/partner making her husband/partner submit to sex with her lover. This has happened, but not at her direction, but his. I love to worship his superior cock because of all the pleasure that he brings her. He hasn’t done it in months, but I loved when he bent me over and had his way with me. That’s what he was doing when I promised to never have sex with her again. He exploded when I said that.
5. A wife/partner having her lover live with her 24/7 and making her husband/partner a lodger. This is our current plan, once he finds a comparable job here. He shared Christmas and Easter with us, along with my adult youngren, so he is already seen as part of the family. We have not told them about his intimate relationship with my wife, but I know that they suspect.

I admit that the more extreme cuckolding stuff is enjoyable to me because of my erectile dysfunction. If not for that, I would probably still be getting sloppy seconds and would not be as open to him totally taking my place with her romantically and sexually, which he has done. But, given the circumstances, I am very happy with it, and she is very much in love and sexually fulfilled.

Randy, you're totally awesome! I always look forward to your posts. You set the gold standard for extreme relationships. Bless you, her, & him!

This is tough call, but I voted for number 1. In my opinion divorce breaks up the whole cuckold set up. Hottest thing to do is being unfaithful in marriage. To live with a woman you are unable to satisfy sexually or otherwise and who dominates and humiliates you. To be left for a lover is, no doubt, absolutely humiliating. But after divorce the cuckold no longer is a cuckold. Just a pathetic slave who tags along. Cuckold cuckoldress relationship changes to something else, be it slave mistress. Of course it's pretty much the same thing, with the domme/sub thing. But in my opinion cuckolding only works in relationship where the cuckoldress and the cuckold are together. And isn't it most humiliating when you would be kept in a marriage for love or not but at least financial security and to raise a another mans youngren.

I believe that the ultimate cuckolding act is when a wife willingly opens her legs for sexual pleasure from another man.

I feel that the penultimate cuckolding act is when the hubby willingly eats her lover's semen from her adulterous cunt hole.

The items in the poll are just some of the many ways a cuckold may have to deal with his wife's choice.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

I think this is a very difficult decision to come to as it must vary from couple to couple. In reality I suspect that a combination of most of those things make up the ultimate cuckolding act. Certainly the wife giving birth to her Bull's offspring must rate pretty highly on the list, but the cuck submitting totally and in every conceivable way to both his wife and the Bull are right up there too. The wife leaving her husband or even getting a divorce rules that out, as once they're no longer together technically the act of cuckolding ceases. On a personal basis, once the husband and wife separate I tend to lose interest as there is no longer a cuckolding aspect to the hotwife/Bull relationship. I'm only interested these days in cuckolding, not just plain and simple fucking.

Pregnancy for us.
My wife loves bull seed

My wife and I like to ask each other that question. I think it is her keeping his baby. She says its when she allows her lover to have her pussy and asshole. That I cant have put my cock in her asshole but he can whenever he wants. She might have a point.
R