Just heard I was cheated on..

pol56

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My wife of 10years and I have talked about this lifestyle for two years mostly during sex. She is very good in coming up with stuff that make me cum right away and she is very comfortable with all this. I know it's only been talk so far and nothing real from her part. That's what she has said many times. She is very hot, I really mean it as superhot. Wears cfm high heels everywhere and dresses up revealing no matter where she goes. She has done this for the most parts of 10 years ..Now I found out from her that she had sex with a friend twice a couple of months ago. This really has rocked my world to find out. Also I know this is not what a hot wife does, this was just cheating on me. And this was not some late-night-after-bar-thing, this was after coffee on afternoons..when I was was working. Anyway, it just so turns me on to think about it..I just wished she had told me about it prior, I would have said yes. She stopped it for whatever reamisters after that two times and now she told me about it..I have no reamister to doubt her when she says it's only been this guy and only these two times. What do you think all this means? Why would she not tell me earlier?

SheDatesHeWaits

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Most likely one of two reamisters:

A) She really cheated on you, felt guilty about it and struggled with the guilt for a couple months before telling you, or;
B) She knows what you've been fantasizing about, and made it up to test your reaction if you thought she really did it.

Proceed cautiously here. If it's option A, you both need to resolve some trust issues in your relationship. If it's option B, and you react adversely, then she'll never consider doing it for real.

Good luck
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

bullcock2222

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I can tell you what its all about- POWER- this is what you and a lot of the cucks dont understand- if she does it under your conditions she's sharing power with you. Dominant women dont like to share power- She wants to hurt you by denying power to you and showing no respect- by fucking your friend a couple of times just for fun she also lets him know he need not respect you thus empowering your friend - this is something that really turns on married woemen- she really enjoyed "rocking your world" - and she knows your too weak to do anything about it- after doing it behind your back for a while she will probably want to do it in front of you- but it has to be her idea- not yours.

Also, just so you know- by your descrtiption of her and the way she dresses- this was by no means her first time- just the first time she told you. Keep sucking her pussy, man, you asked for it!! btw, can you post a pic of her?
bullcock