Sorry about the long wait...
As I already said, nothing actually happened. There was an encounter with an old flame, one she is (still) very attracted to. They talked, he suggested they go somewhere more comfortable so to speak, and she said that she would've really liked to have fucked him (she's been with him in the past, but never slept together). In the end however, she said no and nothing happened.
She's cheated on boyfriends in the past, and she says she doesn't want to do that anymore. I guess the permisteral pride and feeling of accomplishment she is experiencing overrules any thoughts of trying to do something.
To be clear, I do not want her to cheat on me! I am actually very happy that she isn't the permister she used to be in that sense. I love her very intensely...I just want her to fuck a lot of other men with my knowledge... ;)
We've spent a lot of time talking about this (and related) things over the past days. As I explained above, and because she feels a little pressured by all this, we've agreed that she is NOT allowed to do anything, and there is no expectation. I encourage her to flirt, maybe get a kiss or a rub up against someone, whatever she is comfortable to do. If she sees or talks to someone she'd really like to fuck, all she can do is tell me that.
She feels much more comfortable with that for now, and maybe we'll move onto something else when she's ready.
The interesting thing is, she has recently jokes a couple of times about 'maybe I should be an escort, do you think I'll make money?'. These were clearly jokes, but then the other day she said that she thinks she'd like to try doing it for one night. When I asked...bewildered and a little excited at the same time...her first reaction seemed like she meant it seriously. After a moment she said she wouldn't seriously do it, but I'm not so sure...She has even asked if I would pay her for sex, she wants to see what it's like.
I don't know that I would ever be comfortable with the reality of it...but I have to admit that the idea excites me very much sometimes. It seems a little excessive, but the thought of her coming home after a night of fucking several guys is intoxicating.
Sorry this is so long, but I am still hoping that more women would join the men in giving their thoughts on my situation. It's hard enough to understand my own feelings on this subject, I sometimes struggle to completely understand hers.
Thanks for all the advice so far