First time advice needed.

Amazingly enough, many times we try for years to get our wives to do it and then we blow it at the end. Once you have reacted in a negative way to one of her affairs it is difficult to convince her that you would welcome her unfaithful behavior at any time in the future.
Many guys have let jealousy and insecurity get in the way of a great erotic cuckold lifestyle. Many times I have had to fight the insecurity feelings we get when we think our lady may run off with her stud. Thus far she has stuck by me. Many times she has thanked me for bringing out the "whore" within her and letting her act on it. I think it lives in all women, but if they do not have a male who backs them up and loves them in the process, they will never act on it. I try at every turn to make my lady feel as though she is my absolute and beloved queen for allowing me the priviledge of being with her while she fucks another guy. If I ever feel any jealousy I supress it and it soon turns into a feeling of erotic enjoyment. This is advise to all who hope to succeed in keeping your wife "hot", which is what we all want.