to fuck or not to fuck?

My wife (26yo) knows my desire to be cuckolded and we play with this fantasy but there is a "problem".
She had other men in the past but she was never really able to enjoy the sex with them. I am the only one that made her come while being fucked. She comes everytime (almost) we have sex and she loves doing it.

I think she does not want to go with other men now (apart from moral issues) also because she might think that she would not be able to enjoy it.

So I have 3 solutions in mind and would like to hear what you think.

1)I have sex with her as much as I can. This will make sex with me "routine" and meanwhile I will tell her that her body now would respond to other cocks as it does to mine. Then she will be willing to try other men for the curiosity of doing it and to escape routine.

2)I don't have sex with her. I will limit my sexual advances to the minimum possible. She will eventually look for a lover to satisfy her needs.

3) I have "bad" sex with her. That means coming early, not giving her head and so on. Eventually she will find a lover to have good sex.

What do you think should I do?

Other ideas in mind?

definitely have "good" sex with her, and train her verbally with what turns you on while making her aroused, watch your favorite porn with her with what turns you on so she sees that it does, and then is not strange to her. It will take time, but it will be worth it, because eventually she will "come" around to do what you like to please you. If you are there and bring a male friend for her, you know that at least you will make her come, and she will probably come with him if he preps her correctly, because you will be there, and it will turn her on to please you. when you have fantasy sex with her, tell her you want to watch her fuck another man after you eat her and prep her, and then eat her and fuck her after he does. she'll come don't worry
DO NOT have bad sex, or no sex, DO NOT drive her away from you, you may lose her, or have a hard time getting her back
phredd2003

If she finds one guy she wants as a lover in time he'll make her cum too and maybe even harder and more times because he is new. Another idea is to tie her up and blind fold her then have another guy come in and fuck her. After she comes then you can show her who it is and that will show her she can cum with other guys not to mention you would get to sit back and enjoy the show.

You should hire her a really good-quality escort for her first experience. Making a woman cum is not rocket science, and any experienced, reamisterably tallented escort could make it happen for a woman who has no obvious physical problems.
darslangly

Thanks for the replies!
Yes, I think "good" sex is the best option. We keep talking about scenarios where she would go with another man and at least she is comfortable with the whole idea.

Last weekend we went to a party and she flirted quite a lot with a friend of mine she had just met. They talked very close to each other, they were holding hands and there were the obvious physical contacts (e.g. her hands on his arms, his hands on her waist and so on).

Towards the end of the party, and with the level of holy water increased,
his hands were on her ass more than an average husband would tolerate.

I was there, instead, looking at them with a huge erection, knowing that my quite surprised friends were seeing the same thing!

After the party, on our way home, I asked if she liked flirting with him and she said that she behaves with other men as if she is single, whether I am there or not. She just stops before kissing, "For the moment", she added

This weekend will be out (abroad) on a business trip with the whole department where she works. 3 nights out. I hope she gets the flirting going and at least cross the "kissing barrier"!

I'll be here masturbating at the idea

Great!!

I think you're on the right track. Just keep telling her how much you want to see her fuck another man.

Eventually the time will come and it will happen and you better not puss out!

It's the neatest thing since sliced bread.
HotWifePlace.com

That is great news, I think your wife may be farther along than you both realize. You may want to speak with your friend who was busy with her, and see what his thoughts are. If he's cool and discreet, maybe tell him your ideas about spicing up your marriage, and ask him if would be interested in seducing your hot wife, and opening her up.
Maybe the three of you go out to a club dancing and takeing, have her wear something real short and sexy, and let him loose to seduce her.
Obviously she likes him, so ask if she would like to have sex with him, and how hot that would make you-
I think you're real close,please keep us informed
phredd2003

She is now on her business trip. The job thing ended on Friday but she decided to stay longer with her female colleagues to have a girl-only weekend out of the country
I guess tonight (Friday) will be the event for her job. Free takes, lots of men, hotel away from the husband....I guess it is the perfect chance for her.
Tomorrow even better. She will go out with her friends without a lot of colleagues around, maybe they will go clubbing. I hope she will dance sexly with some guy, maybe she will let him touch her tits and ass....maybe a passionate kiss....

I'll keep you informed!

Ah, she hasn't called me at all since she left!

Good sign?

so what happened over the weekend? anything hot?
phredd2003

The "she may not enjoy it with another man" does not mean anything. The first fucks with anyone new are a thrill in themselves, cum or no cum. The other man will not be there needed to satisfy her need for sex because she is getting it at home. The cuckolding is a psycholgical game first and a sex game second. Why not swing? Find another couple to play with. That way everybody gets some fun and you get towatch her getting fucked. She may agree to a swap easier than to another man. In a swap you will be there too so she will feel safer. So, your 4th alternative is a 4some: a same room swap sex play with another couple. Good luck.