Befunone
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I will keep this shorter.
After a few times at swing clubs with my former 21 y.o gf, what I found what got me really excited is when she went away and ended up having sex.
It was always the same. A missed phone call, then a call the next day where she was quiet and then finally an admission that she "did" someone. While she told me the details, you could start to hear the giggle and excitement, and then I would cum so hard.
After we broke up, I dated and lived with many women and would get excited by hearing about thier past sex lives, but that was it.
In 1999, I met my future wife. She was almost 27. After our first date, that included a little fondling and kissing, she had to go away for two weeks. We talked every night. And knowing that she was the one, I told her that I liked girls that dated a lot. She explained that she dated more then all her G/F's combined.
I was excited because I knew there would be some great stories there.
When she got back, we went away for the weekend. I brought a 12 pack of condoms. Something was wrong and it turned out she was nervous. Why? Because she was a virgin........YIKES..
Yes, she had dated, but only kissed. I loved her already, so nothing I could do.
We lived in different cities and had phone sex and I encouraged her to explore. She was very religious, but would cum during phone sex, but other then a takesen kiss, never went further with another man.
We got married and I tried to stop asking her to make up sex stories because she had mentioned a few times she thought it was strange for her man to be ok with her having sex with another.
But she also said that if she knew that her future husband would not have cared, she would of have a lot more sex.
Three weeks ago, I found this site. It brought back a lot of supressed feelings. I read about many of you having trouble convincing g/f's and wives. I had given up myself. But reading your posts, I came to the conclusion that you have to put a women in the position to be hit on and aroused.
So three weeks ago, I told my wive I would do more around the house and with our young young so she could go out more. I started telling her during sex that she should take a lover to have a break from a great, but routine life.
Well, it turned out her getting more relax and the maid coming an extra day a week along with me doing everything else around the house resulted in her really perking up to be ready for interaction.
My wife had not been on a business trip for a while, then all of a sudden had back to back. The first one, she had a cold during it. I was bummed b/c I was hoping she would go down to the bar and flirt to reward me for basically doing everything for three weeks.
The next trip was last week; a 1 day trip up North. When she came home
she had an extra bounce in the step. She explained she met a man on the flight. He was g/l, very successful, and they had a great connection (he also touched her arm and leg during conversation). I teased her a little and we had sex.
On Saturday, he called her (oh my god). He wanted to have takes to talk more business. She asked me if I was ok and I said yes.
They met for takes and dinner at 3:00 p.m., but did not come home to 7:pm, wow what a look on her face. Unfortunetely, i had friends over for the game and could not wait for it to end so they would leave.
When they left she told me he started grabbing her hands and carressing them over the table. He then started to play with her leg under the table, and then when leaving, at the valet station, french kissed her. He asked her to have dinner with him on this sat night.
I forgot how much pre-cum could flow while listening to her tell me each play by play. My mind was racing. It was happening so quickly.
She went on a little too long about how great he was, and I became a little jealous and indicated that she should check him out a little more. Regardless, she asked me if I was really ok with her going to dinner as she said there would be a very strong possibility of her fucking him and no going back.
I became a little nervous. I love my life. And I love my wife and family. Like many of you, once the orgasm passes, i think little of the subject. I told her this and said that life is a long journey. That she at all times needed to protect our family.
I had always hoped that if she played, that it would be a one night thing. This is different, but us guys have to remember that we cannot control every aspect. She ended the conversation, With " honey, if you are going to back out, please tell me sooner then later, because I am starting to wrap my head around this". I came right on the spot. I had to leave for a client that was flying in. She masterbated after I left.
The next day we talked on the phone during th day and she indicated that she had googled the guy. He was telling the truth about his experiences. THis led me asking her what her mind set was. She said " I would like to see him again". I asked her if she was scared. "No, just excited". I asked her when i had to tell her that we should call it off, she responded "it is probably too late". The only thing in the conversation that bothered me was she said that she found it strange that I was ok with her having sex with another man. I told her then I was not Ok in nervousness. She quickly said, no, she felt that way 8 years ago and has come to accept it.
That night I asked her if she had a boyfriend. She laughed but did not answer. I did not bring up the subject again but at the very end of the night when I gave her a massage and added in her butt to the massage and lotion saying" You want to have an extra smooth butt don't you?.: again she laughed and had a huge smile.
I was completey silent last night about the issue. I do think we can shut down our women if we talk about it all the time.
I am on needles to see if he called today to set up dinner.
I have masterbated about a dozen times thinking about her getting ready for the date. I cannot wait to hear the phone ring after her dinner and hear her tell me that she will be home late. I am sure she will ask if i am really ok with it. I already feel the loneliness that will come with her trying to get off the phone quickly to get back to him.
I am not sure If I would want her to call on the way back or just speak to her when she gets home. I am afraid I may cum while talking to her on the cell phone.
I also cannot wait to feel her pussy. I hope he is huge as I am just over 8 inches my self. They will use condoms as my wife is on no b-control. But what if passion takes over, maybe a cream pie? Since I assume that they will use one, i hope he cums on her and she does not wash it off as real evidence. Will she freak afterwards? i hope she comes home with a huge smile. I really want this to be fun for her.
And I am surprisingly nervous. Hmm. I thought i was the veteran teaching the student.
If any of you could see my wife, you would all have hard ons already. She smiles so easily and is so sexy, but just never connected the dots.
So my advice, get your women out there. Get them reved up again. Take them shopping for great clothes, get them back in touch with girfriends, and encourage them without giving up as I almost did.
Because if my wife does this, then I have to believe 90% of all women would given the right guy.
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