Wives introducing their husbands to cuckolding

Ok, thanks.

Would you consider combining it with a more physical approach as well in your offense play with him, like the strap-on play I suggested?

I believe it would lend a more convincing look of domination in the eyes of a prospective partner compared to seeing you whispering sweet nothings in the ears of the ex while giving him a handjob, and thus make it easier for new partner to accept the old sticking around.

In order to see his face all the time while you're talking to him (simultaneously taking his ass), you can do it 'missionary', but you could feasibly also do it from behind if you have a large mirror you can do it in front of.

If you want to make sure that the hurt and offense in his eyes is all about what you did with your lover, that is eminently possible - you just have to make his ass play more comfortable for him (find a strap-on of the right size, use lots of lube, take him gently, etc).

You might also find that it opens new venues of verbal offense of him for you, if you'd like to do that. You could look him straight in the eyes while you push the cockhead of your strap-on slowly but relentlessly through his tight little orifice, telling him:

"You like this, don't you? Your little wiener is so hard...you must like the thought of your wife taking you as she has been taken so many times, by better men. Oh wait, not just better men...better period! Because you don't qualify as a man, or you wouldn't let me do this to you, would you? I'm fucking your manhood out of you everytime I push into your ass. You're accepting my cock like a little girl...but you don't look like a girl either, so I guess you're just my bitch. I'm divorcing you but at the same time I'm making you my bitch - you'll always be my bitch..."

Fun girl,
I have followed your story over the last few years and find it very erotic on the one hand but somewhat sad on the other hand, in how it has led to you wanting to divorce your husband.

My wife and I are at a very early stage in this. We both want to experiment with her meeting a lover but I would be very sad if it ended in divorce, so your story does make me cautious.

The one thing that struck me from reading your stories, is did you ever worry about getting an STD with all that unprotected sex with a few lovers and then gangbangs also. You sound like an intelligent permister so this must have crossed your mind.

Also does your husband find it hard to function now, in his daily life. Does he find it easy to switch off this part of his life when he leaves the house? Does he have any friends who call round to the house, how is his self confidence. Is he still a successful businessman?

Finally, your first post was back on Oct 2007, it has come a long way since then, with different results than you initially thought. Given all you know now, would you recommend it to a fairly normal, married wife or would your advice be, not to open the Pandora ’s Box?

Best of luck with your life in the future, I hope it works out well, for all of you.

Thanks for your post and your questions.

I will answer your last question first, if I may.

Yes, it has come a long way. The truth is when I started out I gave little thought to what might lie ahead down the road. I just wanted extra-marital sex with the freedom to enjoy myself and not hurt my husband. Babies, Black guys and divorce were furthest from my mind but, as you know, I met a black guy, found it very sexually exciting getting pregnant by a black male and now want to marry one.

As for recommending this lifestyle or offering advice on it all I would say is that it is down to the individuals concerned. What suits me and my hubby will not suit others. You and your wife are at an early stage, as you say, and only you know her well enough to make that risk assessment. Because it is a risk. I know that some couples can successfully ‘play’ with third parties in their bedroom and I know of others where things have not worked out. Either the wife has fallen in love with the other man or the husband has been unable to take the jealousy. It sounds to me that if you asking questions like this then you are unsure and when in doubt, as they say, don’t.

My husband has no problems functioning and has no problems with his confidence either. He is able to separate our permisteral life from his business life; just as I can. The only change I would say that I have noticed is that he is a much happier man. What I did inadvertently was to bring his cuckold nature to the fore. It has been a big release for him. He would tell you himself that he has a far greater orgasm from me bringing him off with my hand as I talk to him about having sex with other men, than he ever would having full sex with me. It is something that I find hard to understand but there again I am not a cuckold, although in some perverse way I also achieve better orgasms with a man knowing that he knows what is going on and is listening in another room.

As for divorce......well it’s not the ordinary divorce. We won’t be leading separate lives; we won’t be moving apart and there will be no animosity either. To us it’s just another stage in our lifestyle. In his heart he will still be a cuckold and in mine I will be still be cuckolding him.

As for STD’s....well yes the risk is always there. I try to be careful with the men I relax with and I know in the 3 GB’s I have experienced that the men were all free etc.

I hope that I have answered your question even though I cannot say to you ‘yay’ or ‘nay’. At the end of the day it’s down to you and your wife to decide on the way to best have sexual fulfilment in your bedroom.

Fun_gall I hope you do not mind if I ask you some questions which I am a bit curious about, if you feel they are perhaps a bit hard to answer or you simply do not wish to , feel free to just tell me to feck off(Long post so I bullet pointed at the end).


From reading your posts it seems this was a descision you made more for your youngrens sake (the divorce) as you feel it would be best for them, also it appears you have decided that from now on your lovers will all be black, is this a fair assesment of the situation?

Out of curiosity what happens (and god forbid it does) if you do not find that ideal Black lover who wants to marry you and is also willing to let you keep your ex around and allow you to pleasure him, what if instead you find one who meets your physical needs and is not willing to allow you to continue to pleasure your ex in any physical form?

Also I am curious where would your ex fit in with the family really, I can gather where he fits in as far as you are concerned but with regards to the youngren would he be expected to provide for them still just as he would have had it been your other lovers, will he continue to provide for you(obviously he will as long as he chooses to but are you expecting these things from him still) even after the divorce?

You have stated part of the attraction of the sex to you was the fact hubby was aware and could hear or that, what happens if ex hubby decides to find a new cuckoldress one who perhaps meets his emotional needs as well as his sexual needs(not that I am trying to imply you are not meeting both of these already) would you take another cuckold?.

(This last question or serious of questions may seem a bit critical of the descision you have made and please forgive me if it does I do not intend it in that fashion)

The reamister I ask these questions is if you believe in the family unit mom, dad , youngren, what is the ex hubby's role in that unit is it just non existant within it, surely if you belive it is best for the youngren's well being that you have a black husband since they will all be of interacial birth you wander how having a cuckold around the house would also effect them in their lifes, you have stated yous will continue to live in each others lives but for the youngrens sake and the sake of a "traditional" family unit would you perhaps someday expect ex hubby to live in a seperate place although he is still in your life. You have stated you "like, no love" your ex hubby still but would you say you where in love with him still or would you say you love him like you would a friend or pet or that, how would you define the love you have for him if you had to(gun to the head situation as I am aware love is a tricky thing to define even in a traditional relationship).


!)Did you decide on the divorce for your youngrens sake since you believe in the traditional family unit.

2)Have you decded from now on all your lovers will be black

3)What happens if you meet a black man who meets your requirements for marriage and sharing you and is willing to provide for you but wants you to get rid of the ex?

4)Where does the ex hubby fit in with the family unit of mum dad, youngren

5)Are you expecting the ex hubby to continue to provide for you financialy as well as your youngren even after the divorce.

6)What happens if ex hubby moves on would you take another cuckold, you ve said having him is part of the turn on in the past?

7)If you belive having a black husband is best for the youngren, would you ask ex hubby to live elsewhere on his own even though he is part of your life and lifestyle still, for the youngrens sake also.



PS

Worth noting I do not live a cuckold lifestyle myself but I am curious about the finer details and aspects of it more in an emotional level than on a physical.


EDIT

I spent sometime thinking about all this at work this evening, and I think I ve come to a conclusion as to why I am so curious about your proposed lifestyle and the emotions as well as to what degree you still care for your ex.

I can understand within myself giving into the cuckold lifestyle but I think I would only let myself be cuckolded by someone I loved and I would need to know that in some fashion they loved me and not only cared for me. As I have read your progression it has appeared to a degree like after you went to america like the relationship with your cuck grew distanced he was now your cuck but not your husband to me the lifestyle would have an order to it.

1)Any youngren if there are
2)The cuckoldress(yourself)
3)Idealy the husband(cuckold)

Those to me are the order I would idealy imagine the priority of the people, when you take a bull I understand he becomes a priority but you choose your bull not the other way around so I classify the bull as part of the "yourself", it seems to me at times like you and your cuck have become distanced emotionaly, you care for him and you try to satisfy his needs but they appear almost as an after thought like your doing it but the truth is you don't care enough to want to do it your doing it for his sake now. Your not simply looking for a bull your looking for a new husband. I dunno a part of me is just so curious about all this because I have a habbit of thinking and rethinking for instance the fact you want more coloured babies to me the easiest solution would have been simply to say hubby was sterile hence the seperation before but then yous got back together you where pregnant you find your new lover and simply state he is the man of the young and did not simply find it easy to leave the kid, then as time goes on yous say you and hubby decided yous wanted more kids and decided since you already had one with him it was the best solution. To me that story permits the whole family unit as you see it without the need to divorce, however you have obviously decided for a different approach more like the one your friends in the states had.(I am still curious as to what degree you still "like/love" your ex hubby and ultimately what happens with him my guess is he would follow you to hell and back cause he loves you still but at the same time I wander........what happens when you no longer want to carry out the chores that he needs/desires what happens with the new hubby in regards to your ex does your new hubby take dominion over your cuckold since he has dominion over you.
(seems I thought up more questions than finding answers to my own permisteral perspective of this situation).
End of the day you wanted to cuckold your husband ultimately he wanted to be cuckold the lifestyle has taken a change now that you ve had interacial and have a young both of which it appears you want more of.


Third Edit (I edited 3 times in the space of 1 day really should start working on that not getting stuck on things in my mind)

Ok as I stated I have a habbit of thinking and rethinking stuff(for my sanity sake I hope to get over it)

The best thing I can do is simply wish you all the luck in the world finding your new hubby I hope not only that your able to please him a great deal but also that he is able to pleasure you the way you want and provide that family unit your imagining as the ideal situation here. Its clear you do care a great deal for your soon to be ex hubby and it is irrelevant to what degree cause just as you will choose your bull or next hubby the cuckold chooses his cuckoldress and he has chosen you. End of descusion as far as the relationship you have or wil have with your soon to be ex goes. Though I am still curious as to where he fits in, in your family unit. Though I imagine it would be like with other situations of a similar nature he will just be "uncle" or friend of the family as far as the youngren are concerned and new hubby with be the dad/man figure who is raising them.

After my third edit I realize that marriage only exists in humans we dont talk about foxes or wolves or bears getting married we talk about them having a mate, marriage to me or a husband or wife is an emotional aspect they are the one in your heart that may mean they are not your mate(sexualy) and that you do not conscider them as a potential man to your offspring. Seems to me this might be more the case with you the now, your an all or nothing kind of gal though unfortunately so rather than just look for a mate and have the paper marriage for the sake of the youngren and your desire for a "family unit" your looking for a husband however soon to be ex hubby is still and will always be in your heart hence you want to keep him around and continue cuckolding him. A beautiful sentiment and lifestyle assuming my assumptions are correct your doing the rite and correct thing from a parental point of view and you will hopefully continue to live the lifestyle you want where in your heart you will have your cuck and hopefully in time your husband as well. Though I am reminded a bit of that old Queen Song "Too much love will ******* you just as much as none at all torn between the lover and the love you leave behind", This has no doubt been a very difficult descision for you to make fun_gall but in my mind you appear to have made the correct descision, the only fear I would have would be if you find that perfect male the guy who can please you emotionaly and consume your heart as well as your body and show you that in reality you really need to be a slut in the bedroom who is nothing more than a fuck toy, yet out of the bedroom can be dominating while understanding and emotionaly supportive to the extent where you no longer need the cuckold for anything more than your fetish desires.
PS could not help bar notice you still refer to him as hubby/husband at this moment in time. You have also stated in the past you conscider yourself single and perhaps you do but I suspect while you conscider yourself single you do not wish to conscider a life without him because he is 100% in your life and your heart. If I am correct I hope he is aware of this because it would make things easier on him and yourself and the future relationship all he would have to do is accept that while he in your heart that you have made room for someone else because you wanted to and felt a need to. How many youngren ar eyou hoping to have out of curiosity or is that going to be a descision you wil have to make with your new hubby once you meet him?

(DEFFINATELY not going to edit this again...........so prob be back with another edit in a few hours.)

How are things going fun_gall? Have you got anywhere with the divorce and how are you keeping yourself satisfied while you try to sort out the long term?

Yes, sorry to leave things so long but things have been hectic.....

The divorce is coming along well it should all be done and dusted by mid October. Officlally hubby is living in a flat in town but in reality he is here almost every night.

I have a new man in my life now as well. I met a couple of guys on the internet and saw them both for a short while. One of them however was starting to get a bit iffy with hubby being around all the time, even though he said at first that he was okay with it. Anyway he has gone now.

The other guy is quite happy with the cuckold lifestyle. He has been round the block a time or three and always preferred it when the husband was aware that he was looking after his wife in the bedroom department.

He stays over three nights a week and most times we send hubby off to his flat, but he does his prep work first! Hubby is back first thing next morning making breakfast and coffee for us both. Sometimes he gets clean up duties as well and gets a hand job as his reward. My new man has also introduced him to helping me get washed and dressed in the morning and doing chores like changing the bed sheets and doing our washing for us.

It suits us all well. I do give him some alone time with me as well. He still likes his hand job as he cuddles up to me and listens as I tell him about the things we do in bed.

Sylvester is still in contact. He knows I have a new man in my life and wants to come over sometime to see us. Not sure if that is on at the moment. My new man is comfortable with hubby being around but not sure about him accepting another man like him around.

I am working on it though.......he has been married before and shared her from time to time with a friend of his.So it's not exactly unchartered territory!

thanks fun_gall, love hearing how it's going?
Can you tell us more about your adventures?
Do you find it hard to just have 1 black lover at any one time?

It sounds as if you have swell times.

Very hot those happenings with that Michigan guy!

It is nice of you to keep updating us, only too bad there are quite some pauses between them.

thanks for letting us know.
So is your regular guy annoyed about Michigan guy? Won't you want someone who's going to let u be with others?

It’s just two weeks to go now until our divorce becomes final. Hubby and I are still quite close and a few relatives and friends are finding this hard to comprehend at the moment but of course they do not know what is going on behind the scenes.

The black guy I was seeing on a regular basis has gone now; he wasn’t really into being cuckolded himself and I am never going to be a one man woman whatever colour he is. The Michigan man is still in contact but he won’t be back over until the New Year. Sylvester will be over next month with some friends and I know that I am going to be in for some serious pussy pounding, as he calls it. I can’t wait.

In the meantime I have been seeing a white guy. I have known him a few years actually; he’s a business rival of Hubby’s so things were never on a real friendship basis but we met up at a business get together a few weeks back and we got talking. He had heard about me and hubby splitting up and he asked me out to dinner. I told him that I would think about it at the time and left it at that.

I told hubby about it and in a strange way it both angered him and aroused him. I teased him a few times about going out on a date with him and saw the results of the passion from the jealousy and sexual excitement so I went for it.

I got hubby round to babysit and help me prepare for him; bathing, shaving, dressing, the lot. All the while he was naked and aroused; not just aroused but leaking all over the place with pre-cum arousal. In the end I had to put a condom on him. He kept asking me what I was going to do; was it just going to be dinner or would I go back to his place with him. I hadn’t really made my mind up yet and was going to play it by ear but I told hubby that I would bring him back here. He got really stiff again when I said that so I started to stroke his cock as I talked about what I was going to do with his business rival. It took just a couple of minutes for him to fill the teat of the condom.

I did fuck him that night. He dropped me off at the house, waited for hubby to leave from his babysitting duties and then came back for coffee. He had already told me over dinner that he had always fancied me so we both knew what would be happening when he came back. He is no great shakes in bed even though he is quite big. Permisterally I think his ego gets on the way, but hubby gets very aroused by it all. He hates it happening but he really gets aroused by it and I like nothing more than taking care of his satisfaction; especially after he has cleaned my pussy up of his business rival’s cum.

Glad you enjoyed it. Wished I had known just what a turn on it is for him earlier I could have done a lot more him.....lol.

B is coming round this afternoon as it happens for some afternoon delight; hubby doesn't know yet and he is due round at 4:30. Wonder what the reaction would be if I kept B here until that time and they bumped into each other.........

sounds really sexy! So what time is he coming by? Do you dress up or just open the door wearing very little?
Do you normally tell your husband before it happens or do you surprise him? which does he prefer? I think I'd rather know before

and what happened with your husband in between you being dropped off and him leaving? did you tell him what would happen?

2pm



Both. Today it will be a black body stocking and a red silk dressing gown.



Depends.
If its an all nighter then he knows before hand as he has to prepare me.
If its like today then I don't tell him. I ring him after B has left and say something like "Guess who has just been in my bed fucking me?" He is round here faster than you say 'cuckold'...lol.




Hmmmmmmmmm. Then that means you are kind of in control of things. I like to keep mine guessing. Sometimes it is best he never knows when or what I have been doing until after.

It was only a few minutes so not much happened apart from me telling him that we had been kissing and touching each other up. Oh, and that he had a bigger one!

so you didn't tell him you were going to fuck B?

Interesting about keeping him guessing, perhaps I do like the control, probably why I'm not a cuckold (I'm more into seducing unhappy wives!).

Outfit for this afternoon sounds very hot! I'm sure you'll be upstairs before too long then!

and what's the latest on the next baby? I take it you don't relax with your husband anymore but will you perhaps have a white man's baby?

would love to know how yesterday went! did hubby "catch" you?

It went well. We had a great session starting off half way up the stairs. He went wild when he opened out my dressing gown and saw the body stocking. (His wife refuses to wear underwear with a hint of sex about it so he goes berserk when he sees stockings or anything that remotely hints of sex!) We stopped again at the top of the stairs for another bit of doggy but my knees were getting carpet burn so we finished off on the bed.

That is one big difference I find between black men and white men. 'B' came very quickly; he couldn't contain his excitement. Sylvester, for example, like other black guys that have fucked me take their time. Yes they get very excited but they hold back making sure that I get a few orgasms first before they finish off.

'B' did manage a couple of times more in the couple of hours he was there but I know that I would have had a lot more orgasms with a black guy.

No, they did not meet up. 'B' had to leave at 4pm so they missed each other but they had met in the morning in the bank. 'B' was telling me how he stood there chatting with my hubby and thinking that in a few hours time he would be fucking me. He said that he quite a boner in the bank!

Hubby of course knew nothing about the meeting until he got here at 4:30 and found that he had a creampie to contend with. After he cleaned me up I put a condon on him and gave him a slow hand job as I told him about my session with 'B'.

Two men satisfied in one afternoon!

Long way off yet and I intend that, like my first, it will be a black man that gets me pregnant.

sounds very very sexy! So will you not ever have your husband inside you again?
Sounds like B is not giving you what you need! How often do you get together? Still, not long until Sylvester comes over I suppose!

No



Not really. He has the equipment but sadly doesn't know how to use it properly. But I do get enjoyment from hubby. He does a good clean up job and I love to taunt him by telling him how good it was. We meet up a couple of times a week btw.



No just a couple of weeks away now.

so hubby is happy with that? not ever? I assume he reads these posts, does he ever comment about them?

So does B know about S coming over? What's his reaction?

Also, your job is quite a traditional one, how do you keep the rumours there at bay?

All very sexy,thanks for sharing!

My Ex-Husband’s New Chair

Our divorce becomes final on Monday and Hubby has moved practically all his belongings to his new flat; the only thing that is left is his armchair – well its part of a three-piece suite actually but you know how it is, the male always seems to pick a chair that becomes ‘his’ seat.

Anyway, his seat is staying because apart from the obvious, who knows another man might be claiming it as ‘his’ own someday. But, my hubby is getting a new seat which will remain here for his use and his use only – a Queening Stool.

Seeing the recent forum here reminded me of an Army wife in Germany that I used to chat with a while back. She had one for her husband and she used to sit on it after one of her lovers had been to visit. Her hubby would be suitable positioned underneath and secured and he would be made to enjoy the fruits of her labours! She would also use it before her lovers visited as well; he would ‘prepare’ her while she did things like paint her nails etc.

I had never really given it much thought until I saw the adverts here and it got me thinking how nice it would be to sit and relax after a good shagging while hubby did his duty. He quite likes the idea and we found a supplier here to supply one – at hubby’s expenses of course. It should be here at around the time when Sylvester and his friends are visiting so it should be fun.

Of course, it won’t be me just using it – nothing like a bit of bull rimming to add to the fun is there!

A queening stool, awesome!!

With your divorce final next monday, what will you call hubby going forward? still hubby or something else?

Ex-hubby

so how many men have you been with since this started?

And (may I ask) how many you had before you married? Have you always enjoyed "variety" or are you like many wives who're only now exploring their sexuality?

At a rough guess around 20



I could count them all on one hand.............lol
Yes like a lot of wives, I woke up sexually when I got married.

Do you like to rub it in that he is your ex now?

And if so, does it get him going as well?

what a wonderful thread. I definitely wish I was Fun_gall's ex-hubby.