Wives introducing their husbands to cuckolding

Is that also what you want? You haven't been writing about your home situation with your hubby too much. Aren't you happy at your present home anymore?

thanks for the update.

How serious do you think it would get? Sounds like it's going further than you imagined?

Would love to know more details about the visit!!

Thanks again!

It sounds like you have some very serious feelings for Syl... why not do a trial move with you and the baby going to live with him. It's a good way to see how it would be with him on a more permanent basis.

fun
What's up with the no cuck participation, you love watching the poof
suck cock and clean your pussy and your studs cock with his mouth and tongue.
You have dumped two studs trying control who and how you want to be fucked,
Have you changed your standards?. Just curious.
Good luck and good karma.

Fun Gall,

my wife and i just LOVE this whole story!!! Please keep us updated!!!!

yes, would love an update! Getting broody again yet?

Waiting more than 2 months is a long time indeed. Is fun_gall that busy, or could there be some troubles? It would be nice to hear something again from her soon.

Sorry it’s been so long guys but a lot has been going on in our permisteral lives which has kept me quite occupied and I have just come back from US visiting Sylvester.

I have had to think long and hard about my relationship with my husband this last while. I love him but it just isn’t practical to keep having coloured babies and stay in marital relationship with a white guy. Okay you guys out there might enjoy the fantasy of a white wife being knocked up regularly by a black guy but for the wife and youngren isn’t practical; not in my social circles anyway. So hubby and I are getting divorced; that is not to say that we will live separate lives. We both want to share the same home and live as we have been this last while and we intend doing this. It’s just that I want to be free to marry a black guy eventually and have lots more youngren of course.

I know my hubby is a committed cuckold and whether I keep him with me or not, he will not change. He would eventually find someone like me and settle back into a cuckold relationship. I like him; love him even, and he’s a nice guy so why I should let someone else have him? No, he will always stay with me, as long as he wants to, and we will still have the same relationship. He enjoys the offense of a cuckold life and I enjoy giving it so we are right for each other in that sense.

The other dilemma is Sylvester; I don’t think he is interested in marriage. He loves having sex with me and is desperate to get me pregnant again but the next black guy I have a baby with will be my husband or at least on the way to being my husband. So, I am looking, as they say!

In the meantime I am keeping in contact with Sylvester; he is a great lover, so why not? We did have lots of fun these last few weeks and I had a couple of really enjoyable gang bangs with a few dedicated ‘brotha’s’; one of which involved another white girl. Maybe I will tell you about them later.

Anyway guys, thanks for your interest and keeping in touch and if there are any black guys out there who are looking for something long term and willing to have a cuckold ex on the scene drop me a line.

L8trs
xxxx

omg that's ***! Your enjoying it too!

I'll keep checking back for that gang bang update

wow...... whew...... wow.... powerful stuff there. Fun_gall, do you feel it in your core the need, the natural yearning, for you to be with the more dominant man? the alpha of the jungle? Do you get turned on on a very deep level knowing that at the realest level you are with the man, or will be with the type of man, that is the winner, the conqueror. Do you lust over the idea of a big powerful cock being the symbol of a big powerful man that makes you melt? the feeling that this is your real natural need and natural want? Tell us all, tell yourself, openly, what reaction do you have when you imaginthe feelings, the knowledge shooting back and forthwhen at the same moment take off your wedding bands to give back to hubby to place on the new one? and then shut the door behind you as you enter the bedroom with your new man? what wil you say to the new man? what are your deepest feelings that you want him to know, what he is to you, how gratefull you are. what kind of love do you, will you, make to him?

Very heavy fun gall. Didn't it cross your mind to have some white baby's with hubby? I guess you are now taking the same route as your american friend.

I think most women prefer a dominant male when it comes to sex; someone who takes the lead and does the driving. That is what I like about black guys. When I first started out on this journey all I was really wanting was better sex and variety and colour wasn’t an issue. But it was when I met a black guy that things changed.

First of all there was the excitement from the ‘taboo’; women of my class aren’t supposed to mate with black guys. Then when I finally let a black guy in I was blown away by the way they do it. They take possession of your body and they don’t stop until they have been fully satisfied. They also enjoy sex and are very confident in bed. I have yet to be asked by a black guy “Was it good for you?” They have no need to ask that question. If a guy has to ask that then he is not confident in bed.

It’s not just the size of their cocks either; yes I have been lucky enough to meet guys with at least 9” or more, but it’s the way they use them. It’s all very hard to explain in few words but any woman reading this who has been with black guys will know what I am trying to say. I have only to be in a black guy’s presence and I start to get wet; call it the thought of a big powerful cock about to enter you or whatever. I don’t need all the preamble of foreplay, I am already ready. And when it comes to gang bangs, well I am zooming! I have had three now and that feeling when you are first in the presence of 4 or 5 guys who are about to make use of your body for their pleasure is just indescribable. I remember that first time when I was led upstairs to the bedroom my knees were literally wobbling.

So yes; that will give you some idea of how I feel and also why things must change now. I just couldn’t go back to the sex life I had. And yes I always let them know just how grateful I am. I give all in bed and of course I have given my womb up to them as well in the past and will do again. I know just how wild it drives them knowing that you taking that risk.

Yes, things are moving on and although it did cross my mind in the early stages to have a baby to my hubby, it is past that stage now.

Fun Gall,

both my wife and I have read this entire thread and wre really fascinated by it.
I was afraid it might come to this, though. Do you realyl want to divorce your hub? If you love him, why not stay married and just have your permanent lover move in with you? Hub would of course have to have his own room and naturally sex would be out of the question for him, but at least he woudl definitely be part of the situation.

Somehow, divorce just sounds so final and complete-- as if he is really beign chucked aside and has nothing mroe to do with it. Where is the kink there? Just another broken marriage. I know, you have said it won't be like that, but somehow an actual divorce suggests that, eventually, you and him will simply part company. Why do you have to be married to the other guy, if hub is still to be part of the set-up?

My own wife DID get very turned on when she read about the woman who divorced her husband and married her black love,r but had the ex-hub stay around. Nevertheless, even she thinks the first marriage is what makes the whoel thign fun in the first place!

Just my take on it, anyway. In any case, I do hoep you continue postign and tellign us how your adventure is coming.

how about this for an intro hehe
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Err.... I might have to modify my comment. Although I still think the divorce might be taking it a bit too far, I can'T speak entirely for my wife.

I read the last few entries out to her while she sat on the couch. She could only smile devilishly. When I asked her about it, she said, first off, while she realistically knows that she doesn't want any more youngren, at a certain level, the idea of having lots of black babies was sexy. And as far as the divorce..... she did get turned on by the idea of divorcing the hub to marry the black lover, as long as the ex husband was still kept around.

You mentioned that you will keep hubby around, but that for social reamisters, as in the acceptnce of your peers, you cannot go on havin gblack babies while married to a white man. But won't your social peers also think it strange that your ex husband is still living with you? ANy ideas about that?

If your house is large enough, a spare room for him woudl be fine, as long as your friends are not aware that he still lives there, I guess. OR do you have another strategy? I am really curious about this.

Also, what has been his reaction? Is he willlingly going along with this, or is he unhappy?

I don't think that is a very uncommon feeling among women regarding what they see as 'their' men. Ex-lovers who they have no intention to ever play with again still conjures up a feeling of ownership - "I might not want to play with the toy, but it should remain in my toybox and not be played with by anyone else either!"

Not judging here, just an observation.

What was hubbys reaction to this? Sorrow? Lust? Both? Was the 'keeping him around' thing mostly for your own benefit, or was there some reassurance towards hubby intended?

More importantly, how will you float the idea of an exhubby in a sort-of threeway relationship to a prospective new husband, if you're actually serious about keeping every other aspect of present relationship but the marriage status?

Involving an ex into sexual play (however submissive on the ex' part) with a new partner is not going to be easy; lovers who are OK with a bit of kinky play in an affair may become rather uncomfortable with the thought of the permanence of it in the frames of marriage.

I am sure having an 'uncle' in a rented-out spare room who does your collective chores while you and your new husband spend the extra spare time in bed will go down well with a lot of men...masturbating exhubby and having him involved in threesomes with you two - not so much.

Thank you for taking an interest. You haven't said whether you and your wife have a similar relationship. It would be nice to hear more.

As for divorce, looking back now it was inevitable it would come to this. Had this stayed as a bit of intermittent fun then we wouldn't have needed to to take this step but at the time I did not reckon on the power of interracial sex. I got hooked on it and want it for keeps now.

I know some women can keep this type of relationship up no problem and live a life with a white husband and a black lover. On the other hand, like my friend Mary, others can't. It's either all or nothing. Her relationship works out very well and I intend making mine do the same.

His reaction at first was one of sadness but like me he could foresee things turning out this way. He loves me very much and wants me to be happy but he is also reassured that divorced or not, he is still part of my life and I part of his.

He is also reassured that his sexual needs for this kind of lifestyle will also be taken care of by me. I know what he enjoys and what floats his boat, as they say, so he will stay a happy man!

So, you will not remarry until you can find a black guy who

1) Allows you the freedom to fuck other black men

2) Allows you to keep hubby around, with some sexual play for him (BJs, hand jobs)


Have I got it right then?

Any prospective candidates for marriage? I guess you are not in a hurry anyway, but...inquiring minds and all that. :o)

Hi Fun Gall,

it's very nice to hear from you. As for us, yes, we have a similar situatoin, just hasn'T been taken as far as yours has. A has cucked me a few times, with different men, btu only short-term. At the moment, we are too busy with kids, work, etc. to have much time for anythign else, I am afraid. But both of us would like it if she had a long term lover.

She comes from Poland, and like you, she has a thing for black guys though she also has had sex and cuckolded me with white and Indian guys. Mainly, she likes big, hard, and especially thick cocks.

If you click on my profile, you can read more entries I made elsewhere, though I haven't kept it up to date, as few peopel showed any interest.

As I say, as we already have enough kids, the idea of having babies usually turns her off when she is in realistic mode, but when she gets horny enough or i the right mood, she gets turned on by the idea of getting pregnant by a lover, especially a black one.

We have already stopped having sex, at telast for me;) I preform oral sex and use dildos on her, and she strokes m ycock, but rarely to orgasm. And when she does, she almsot alwas makes sure to ruin the orgasm by lettign go at the last moment. THis gives me some release, but leaves me feelign hrony and a bit frustrated. She likes to be cruel to me, but nto to take it TOO far.

She loves the idea of me being relegated to secondary status, and only getting to share her bed when her lover is gone. This turns me on too, incredibly, for some reamister.

And as for YOU:

I still don't quite understand-- if it isn't for social reamisters, why do you have to marry your lover to have kids with him? Why not just stay married ot your buckold and continue ot humiliate him by cheating on him, denying him sex (of course!!!), and having other men's babies? And as far as social acceptance anyway, you coudl at letast just claim they are all adopted. Who woudl know??

SO I still don't really understand why you want the divorce. It is almost sexier and naughtier to stay married, it seems to me.

Another thign I wanted to ask is: you say taht YOU started the whoel cuckold thing. But you rarely wrote much about how he first reacted, how you got him to acept it, when he started acceptign it and why, and so forth. FOr me, these things woudl be fascinating.

We woudl both realyl love to hear more about you, either in this thread or in permisteral messages, if you prefer.

Best of luck!!

1) Preferably to be willing to share me with other black males but I would stay faithful to him if he wasn't willing.

2) Yes

Fantastic fun_gall

When I say social reamisters I mean in terms of what others in society might think, friends, naighbours etc. But, call me old fashioned, I do believe in the family unit; mum, dad and youngren, and it is better for the youngren to have their own man as dad and of course better too if mum and dad are married.

This is the main reamister why I want to change things. If I was going to stop at one interracial young and have no long term relationship with a particular black male then I would stay as I am. But I don't want to stop at one interracial young and I don't want to have a series of black males in my life. I want to settle down with one male and have a few babies.

fun_gall;

In order to 'sell' the exhubby part to a prospective new husband, it would probably be wise to emphasize the difference in the two relationships, so that ex isn't simply looking like hubby #2.

For instance, if you by nature feel like a switch (i.e. can enjoy both a dominant and submissive position), then this could convince a prospective husband to agree to having ex stick around. If new husband's leanings are on the dominant side, he probably would not enjoy being dominated/humiliated himself, which you have said is a great turn-on for you. Presented like that, he could more easily accept ex-hubby as someone who can do some 'shouldering' in the relationship, i.e. provide you with what does not feel natural for a dominant partner to provide.

Is your sexual play with hubby today predominantly verbally humiliating for him?

I know you don't like the whole sissygirl thing (which I understand completely), but does stuff like strap-on play remisterate with you? Pounding the ex'es ass in front of new husband could make him more amenable to see ex as 'not competition', while allowing you to give your ex sexual pleasure - anal play can be very stimulating also for straight men, particularly if combined with a hand-job (easiest if he is lying down on his back, and you're standing between his legs, but variations are possible).

Thanks for keeping us in the loop!

Please do tell us about your US trip!!

fun_gall
Good luck with your quest. Have the auditions started ?.

They certainly have.......

Yes. Hubby has always preferred listening to me talking about sex with my lovers. I enjoy telling him too. I sometimes wonder how many other wives out there would get a kick out telling their husbands about what they did with a lover I am sure that there must be more like me who get pleasure from the hurt inflicted and the offense.

As a solicitor and mainly family lawyer I have heard many eye-popping stories from couples in the throes of divorce. It wasn't too long ago that I acted for a man who had told me how his wife used to come home after her nights out and wake him up and tell him what she had been doing and who with. It was difficult trying to keep a look of surprise on my face!

Okay, that is the cruel extreme but from my own experience I know just how much I enjoy it. Of course, he gets his enjoyment out of it as well. I will play with him while I talk to him and bring him off. Sometimes he does manage to stay until the end but invariable when I get to the part where my lover is slipping his cock into me he starts his spurts and his groans.

Satisfaction fo him and satisfaction for me!

Hi there.... My hubby and I have a somewhat open marriage. Each of us has been with other people, both alone and together. I adore my husband and he adores me.

My husband, however, does enjoy just watching/hearing about my experiences and he does allow me my freedom. He ends up letting me do my thing much more often than him doing his...

That said... talking to him about being with another man/woman together may be the first step. According to my husband, it was an easier transition if he was able to participate. The result happened naturally.

Good luck!
Dawn