Wives introducing their husbands to cuckolding

I seem to be in a minority here but I am a wife who wants to cuckold her hubby. I love him dearly and not really interesting in cheating on him. I would love to be a hotwife and have a couple of regular lovers with his permission and full knowledge. I would also like him to do things like get me ready for my dates, be submissive to my lovers and of course take creampie afterwards. I don't want to make him a sissy but I would enjoy humiliating him in front of my lover.
He is on the submissive side and knows I fantasize about other guys so anyone here with ideas on how to go about cuckolding him? I would love to hear from husbands who have been cuckolded and I would also like to hear from bulls who have handled newbie husbands.

sounds like i would be the perfect husband for you. my wife doesn't know about my fantasies though. so i'm afraid i can't help much. it's a big step for man or woman to initially ask the other. you never know how they'll react. wish i had the balls to ask my wife.

First thing to do is to put him in panties. Make sure they are nice n sexy so he feels more feminine. Secondly, begin to put the idea into his head that you are not satisfied with your sex life and may need to find relief outside of yur marriage and possibly in your marital bed. Tell us more about him, what size is penis, his sexual performance and then we can give you more ideas.

I think I already said that I do not want to make him into a sissy and I would not want to see him in ladies knickers. He is manly enough and I want to keep him that way
He is average size and although his sexual performance is adequate I know that a lot of men can do better. The thing is how do tell a guy that you need more that he is giving you without hurting him?

the best thing is just be honest with him and tell him your fantasies of having sex with another man or men, and having him watch you perform, and you'll give him sloppy seconds. have him check out this website and others and watch porno about hotwives. I'll bet it will be pretty easy, also you'll want to start looking around for men who will be good candidates as fuck buddies for you, you may have a couple of candidates already!
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phredd2003

Hey fun_gall email me on [email protected], I might be able to help you with that

As the male half, who initiated the idea, our situation might be a bit different. Still, I think it is probably best to introduce the notion in stages....through some dom/sub play and fantasy talk. Play on his fantasies, and find the common ground with yours. You both may have to bend a bit. If panties turn out to be central to HIS fantasies, you might need to tolerate that. If not, all the better. Strange new ideas seem less strange and unapproachable as they become more familiar.

I think it is paramount that you let him know this is about fun and 'play'..that you are in no way looking for a new lifepartner. Keep it about shared fantasies, about shared explorations, about shared desires. I'm willing to bet that if he is somewhat sub, he has already flirted with some of these notions.

Best of luck.

paul, Lynne's husband

WI wife

I totally understand you. I am a male fantsizing a lot about being treated as you describe by a woman, but, this is not a fantasy without consequences. It has deep origins and repercussions in the psyche of both in the couple. Some of us are maybe just not meant to live out these kind of fantasies.

fun_gall and WI_wife, you both need to get with your hubbies and decide together what you do and don't want out of these fantasies or a real life cuckolding of your husbands. If you both aren't OK with any of these fantasies, you risk serious damage to your relationships with these men you love. It isn't worth the risk of loosing the one you love (not talking about sexual love here). If you can agree, then do what you've agreed upon and leave the rest. And there is no conforming fascist code of what constitutes a true cuckold relationship so make your own definition if necessary. If you two agree that the fantasy is all you can handle, then enjoy that to your own limits. After all, you two are the only ones you have to please...right? Take care,
Robbie

i was cuckolded by by Wife for 8 years ,our marriage started very normall and vanilla,but she had other plans
if intresyed get in touch with me,will tell you the whole story

Hi girls and I don't know if this helps or not but I've just read your intro's and u both say u luv your hubby's......so really the answer is simple.

It all comes down to communicating what u want from the relationship. You both know that u'r loved as well.....so tell them!! My wife did and as usual its turned out to be for the best for both of us. Being married and being honest go hand in hand and really u 2 are both trying to include hubby's in the fun as well.

Just talk to your men and explain that u want more. U don't necessarily have to change them, just give them the chance to take your fantasies and realities on board.

Best of luck to u all

JB

Hi there fun_gal

I currently have a friend who derides and humiliates her hubby and is encouraged by me to do so. If you would like to discuss any aspects of this directly please contact me directly

Best Wishes

Steven - [email protected]

Hi there fun_gal

I currently have a friend who derides and humiliates her hubby and is encouraged by me to do so. If you would like to discuss any aspects of this directly please contact me directly

Best Wishes

Steven - [email protected]

Thank you all for your helpful comments, especially hotinva. Knowing hubby a sit down direct chat would not go down too well so I will have to play the long game and perhaps use 'hotinva's' approach.
I would like to hear from guys who have guided newbie's in cuckolding and who knows maybe your expertise might be called upon!

Since a direct approach won't work, I suggest that you start to drop hints such as pointing out men who turn you on, start dressing more suggestively and work on perfecting your flirting s*******s. At the same time, don't neglect your husband. Make sure that he knows you love him and whenever you flirt with another guy, pay extra attention to him later. Eventually he may come around and if not, you may need to bring up the subject. After 10 years as a cuckold to my wife, I can honestly say I love this lifestyle. As for her, she loves it even more than me with the ability to date and fuck other men, but with the security of a loving, faithful husband waiting at home. Good luck!

The easiest would be to start having him help you dress and undress all the time.

You could start it slow, like having him bring you your shoes or dry your back with a towel and work up from there.

Yes, it'll actualy take longer than doing it yourself, but it'll reinpower your social dominance over him.

You can also make a game out of him eating things off your body like whipped cream and out of you like sugar free candy.

I've been trying to talke my wife into it for a long time now. No luck now i am looking for a cpl who might want to play that way .

Hi fun_gall, another thing you could try is to go to a gym or beauty salon and have a full body massage. Have it for real and when you tell your husband add some unreal details for example that the masseur was a young, strong man. He was very good at touching your body and you think you actually got wet by his touches.
Add that he was very deep in his technique, that you were withut bra and knickers....these sort of things.

See how he reacts at that idea. Tell him and meanwhile touch his cock to make it hard...he will associate his erection with the idea of another man touching you.

My wife told me a similar story (you can read it on my post) and I got very excited. Unfortunately she is not interested yet in cuckolding me or humiliating me, eve though I am very submissive to her.

Good luck

I think hotinva offers the best advice. However, don't expect him to bring it up outside of the bedroom. But on a romantic night, BEFORE you and he get amorous ask him what his fantasies are. Hopefully for you, that will lead back to your fantasies which you and he will have already discussed during coitus and he might feel comfortable talking about at that point. Like hotinva said, a man on the verge of cumming will say anything (and mean it at the time) but if he knows that is where the two of you are heading on a particular night, he might be talkative ahead of time. at least that way you could guage his genuine interest on some level. good luck.
alamodom

An interesting way to find out if your husband may or may not even be interested in exploring any cuckold fantasies with you would be to start "catching" men looking at you.

Most men like to know that they have a "hotwife" or a woman that other people find desirable. They want to know that they have something wonderful. Even if he has never once fantasized about you having sex with another man. He wants to know he made the right choice when the two of you made that commitment to be together forever. For some men I think this leads to cuckold fantasies.. or maybe thats just me.

As other's have mentioned, go out in public wearing clothes that are a little more revealing than you would normally wear(no need for megaslut... not yet). Make it a harmless game where the two of you go out and try to catch people looking without being caught by the voyeurs themselves. Walk seperated and get him to count how many men look at you with lust filled eyes. Don't go to bars and clubs where everyone is always loooking. Go out and do every day things like shopping at the mall or even pretend to buy a new car(damn just made that one up... got a new one for the diary) Point it out when you notice someone looking at you. Especially if it is a guy that you would be interested in being with.

See how much fun he has playing this game. It is harmless and you are not looking for a fuck toy now. You are just validating his choices. Making him feel good that he has you in his life. He has a beautiful sexy woman and he will recognize it when he see's other men wishing they had you.

From permisteral experience, I know I permisterally love to go out with my wife and catch men looking at her. The only difference for us is that sometimes she is so oblivious to the men looking at her. I point them out with solid wood in my pants knowing that they are wishing they could have her tonight and she has no idea that they even looked.

If it turns out that he really likes this game you will be coming home from your public day trips and be spending plenty of time enjoying each other. My wife didn't invent this game for us, I just started noticing and it really turned me on. More than once we would get home and have some of the greatest sex while I remembered how those men looked at her wishing they could have her.

If that works out and he is turned on by seeing men want you then you can try to take the next step and introduce the idea of a threesome. Maybe just a simple tag team sex fantasy where you tell him you desire to be filled by two men at the same time. From there you just move him to a chair to watch his own permisteral "live porn" where he is completely in love with the star actress and can see any angle he wants.

For all you men out there... Here is a pciture of my wife... I love you baby...

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My advice is to go slowly and introduce everything and feel him out in stages.

Be nice to him for a week or so, give him good sex and spoil him a little. Take him out, have fun together. When he's in a great mood watch the movie Animal Instincts with him. (be sure to get the first one, the one with David Carradine - the other ones suck) Here's a preview:

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Watching this will totally bring up the subject of him watching and swinging in general. It's not a porn movie but a mainstream movie that deals directly with a man watching his wife have sex with other men. Chances are, he will probably deny that it would turn him on even though it does. You will have to take a chance and confess to him that it's something that does turn you on and something that you fantasize about. Even if you have to say that you'll probably never do it but that it's fun to fantasize. That might get him to loosen up and talk more about the fantasy and his feelings if he feels it's not going to lead anywhere.

Depending upon what he says, you might then have to bring it up over the next few weeks or months, especially when you're having sex. Watch the movie again and have sex during the sexy parts when the husband is watching. Show him that it turns you on. Let it develop slowly. Introduce more games and fun into your sex with him. Get more lingerie to turn him on and show him that you're having fun.

When the time is right, I recommend that you find a stranger to meet with, have him come over and then agree for you to just give him a handjob. Nothing more. That way, if it's too much for your husband, it was only a handjob and you can stop. No harm done. Don't go all the way and don't kiss him or his dick. If it's just a hand job and your husband totally gets jealous, you can stop the games and you didn't go too far. On the other hand, if it does turn him on, it will leave him wanting more.

Put an ad on Craig's List or something, find a guy that you like and who would be willing to play along and meet him for coffee or a take. You should do most of the talking, have your husband stay a little out of the way. Then have your husband sit off in the corner, out of the way, turn down the lights, put on something sexy and give the other guy a little massage and hand job. Make things light and fun, sexy and non threatening. When the guy cums and leaves, be sure to have sex with your husband, GOOD sex. And then stay close to him over the next few days and be nice. Reassure him that the other guy is just a sex toy, nothing more. A 'walking dildo'. Once he sees that you are not falling in love with these other guys and that you don't leave him after and in fact, you are happier and the sex is better, he will warm up to the idea of swinging. (don't call it cuckolding at this point).

Be sure to talk to him about his feelings and how he felt while watching. Keep him excited and horny. Then have the guy come over again and give him a handjob but this time, you lick his dick a little bit.

And the next time, you suck it a little and so on.

You get the idea.

That is exactly what happened between my wife and I and everything worked out wonderfully. She now regularly has sex with another guy while I watch and we both enjoy it.

Just wanted to give you all an update on how things have gone so far. After much consideration on ways to go about it I decided to introduce him to this site. His first reaction was one of being shocked by all the stuff going on here. He couldn't believe that such things went on in relationships and couldn't understand any man wanting to share his wife or girlfriend, let alone a wife or girlfriend wanting to fuck other men in front of their husbands/boyfriends.
I never said anything one way or the other, I just wanted him to see what went on for himself.

I wondered if he would ever go back to the site and at one stage I did think he was put off by it all but at the weekend I caught him on his laptop in the kitchen and he looked quite flustered. I knew that he was trying to hide where he had been visiting but I reassured him that I didn't mind if he went on porn sites. When I did a history search on his laptop in front of him I discovered that he had been on here a lot of times. I joked with him that if he was going to find me a lover then to make sure that he is black and had at least 9"! He was quite surprised by my remark and told me that he couldn't imagine me wanting to relax with another guy and I just smiled and said 'Try me baby!'
He just laughed it off but I know the seed has been sown now. I am just waiting for the opportune moment now to sit down with him and have a serious discussion about it.

That's real smart, show him a site where women have black babies, men eat black cum from their wives' pussies, men get peed on, cuckolds relate stories about how their wives end up leaving them, etc. etc.

Real subtle.

Fun, how about telling us why you want to cuckold him? Is it to have sex with other guys? Is it to humiliate him? Tell us please the underlying reamister you want to cuckold him.

Good question Dan but there are no simple answers. First of all I would like the freedom of being able to relax with other men. But I don't want all the hassle of secrecy. My sister has affairs but she is pretty miserable sometimes. All the subterfuge gets to her and sometimes she can't really enjoy the sex. Snatching ten minutes here and half an hour there doesn't make for good sex. So I want to be able to enjoy sex with other men.
Secondly, in order to enjoy the freedom I need hubby's approval or acceptance. Thirdly, I am a flirt and a tease and I like to do this in front of hubby. It would be nice take things further with other men in his presence. And finally, I like to humiliate. I would find it very enjoyable to humiliate hubby with other guys. I have read a lot of the threads on here and I am dying to try them out.
And in case you are wondering what would be the ultimate form of offense, it has to be getting pregnant from a black male. Whether things ever get that far is debatable but the thought is very appealing all the same!

hey fun gall I read your thread and its an interesting one. I havnt seen where you mentioned a particular guy you want to fuck.... It sounds like your really horny so you should probably just go out and do it, if theres someone your hot for. It sounds like your hubby isnt taking you seriously so you should be able to sneak around for a while and get away with it. Like most cuckolds, he seems pretty gullible and apparantly he doesnt think your seriious. Many women, unlike your sister, love the adventure, the planning and the ultimate orgasm from doing it behind his back. Yes, it can get tiresome after a while, but your not even close to being at that point yet.
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Nice to see how things are progressing. How about getting some IR fuck films. They even have some cuck movies out on te open market now. Also have to bow to yur desires to have a black baby. That is so hot. Knowing yur belly would swell in front of yur hubby with a black baby floating around inside of you id totally erotic. Now just imagine breast feeding it at the mall or in front of his parents or yours while he sits there admiring you and his new young.

If you women only knew how easy it really is to make us into a cuckold, specially if we are totally inlove with you. You girls are the master manipulators, and I know because my wife has done me just like that. She made me think it was my idea, when all the while I know that it was she who initiated me into the lifestyle. She brought home the first dildo gift wrapped for me as a "joke". Then she just simply said "I'll let you figure out what to do with it". It wasn't long before I was using it on her and she began to fuck herself with it as she would ask me to pretend I was watching her and one of her ex-lovers performing for me. She then graduated me to the fact that men were coming on to her and she liked it. Not much later I found myself giving her permission to go out with them and she would be coming home telling me how they had fucked her. I got so turned on all I could do was lick her well used pussy and ask her for more details. I then found myself trying to arrange "dates" for her and her lovers and loving my new role as her cuckold husband. Whenever I would show the slightest hint of jealousy she would remind me that it had all started out as my idea. I really know it was she who persuaded me and manipulated me into accepting it, but now that I am in this lifestyle and thoroughly enjoying it, there really is nothing I can do to stop it, and I don't want to stop it. I just love watching my wife's lovers fucking her brains out while I watched in awe. Actually I want her to do it more, and do it in my presence, as nothing feels better than watching her perform wild sex in my presence with one of her well hung bulls. Never before this all started I would have ever imagined how it would be, and I was actually a jealous husband type. Now I am just the opposite, looking for any opportunity for my wife to flirt with guys and get them in bed with her.

Sounds like you are progressing well. Keep going. When in public, point out men you think are attractive. Mention things...like at the grocery store....that remind you of a dick size you like (" Now that would be a good dick size" while holding a big cucumber).

Make him more submissive. Have him go down on you, and ask him is he would like to do it after you have been fucked by your lover. Play with his dick while talking about your lover's larger dick.
Deny him for a day or two, then talk about your lover just as he is finally able to cum.

First he will go along, then he'll bebegging for it!
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