I went through a pretty similar period with my wife a few months ago. She started going out with two of her friends (one married; one single) semi regularly; not with any mischivous purpose but just to socialize and act as wing-girl for the single friend. She knows I have 'shared wife' fantasies, so some doors were already cracked open. She also regularly asked me to check/approve her outfits to make sure they were not too revealing - they were always a little over the top and it was obvious to both of us that I got off on letting her go out that way. However, it was only after the fact that I recently learned she performed oral sex on a guy after she and her friends went to an appartment with several men before coming home. She was appologetic and swore she did it because she felt pressured to relax with him and thought it would be a more acceptable compromise. But, I am pretty sure she let it slip as a way of testing the waters.
I forgave her and she offered to stop going out. When I said that I wanted to trust her and didn't want to come between her and her friends, she actually had the moxie to tell me it was not out of the question that she would find herself in similar situations in the future. I told her that if she tried to avoid this in the future, told me what happened if there was another slip up, and kept her panties on under all circumstances that I was willing to let her carry on.
I was sure that things were under control until a few days ago when I went down on her and found she tasted noticably salty...
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