Need Help

I am driving myself crazy with the idea of my wife actually fucking other men. I have made it very clear that I am OK with her doing whatever she wants with whoever she wants. She had teased me from time to time about it in bed and she has even gotten very friendly with other men when we are out at dinner. The men don't bite because I am there at dinner.

I realy want her to take this to the next level but I just can't seem to convince her to go out at night or to take any action to find a fuck buddy. Does anyone have any advice for me on how to take the next step?

I have posted request on other sites for men who would be interested in seducing her and then telling me about it. I have not gotten any serious responses.

She is a BBW and is very concerned about other men not finding her attractive. I try to assure her that there are many men who find that very sexy but she thinks I am nuts.

Any help is very appreciated.