Well done swnekky and congratulations on becoming a cuckold husband. I can see some similarities between your situation and my own experience. My wife and I spent a good couple of years building up to it and eventually, at the age of 35, she went out with a guy of 23 who was a customer in the shop she worked in. Debbie had been out a couple of times with a 27 year-old delivery driver at work, but nothing happened and also snogged amd been groped by a black guy in a night club. However, it was the 23 year-old, Chris who was lucky enough to get her into bed. He took Debbie out the day after her birthday, later fucking her three times at his flat. Like yours, my wife loves her tits worked on and Chris spent at time kneading, kissing and sucking on her nipples, so much so that they were quite red when she got home.
Leading up to this, we had discussed various scenarios and agreed ground rules, and I honestly wanted her to be fucked by another man. Sadly though, in the cold light of day, I felt insecure and anxious. All sorts of fears rose to the surface. He had fucked her 3 times in quick succession, compared with the once, twice on a good night, that I could manage at 41. What if she preferred that? Like you, I have 7 inches and was bigger than Chris, but he was young with a better body than me and had the stamina of youth on his side to really satisfy Debbie in bed.
He was a cocky, arrogant guy too apparently and had been in trouble with the police before, and my imagination ran riot. What if I had to fight him for her? - I'd lose. Suppose she left me and moved in with him? All sorts of cuckolds brownie went through my head in the day or two after.
Debbie said she felt dirty and used, especially as Chris did not hurry to contact her after their night out. She wondered if he had just been looking for an easy lay and my insecurity just added to her unease. We had a few quiet days and didn't make love for a week or so, but we did get back to normal.
Looking back now, I wish I had handled things better. You seem to have done that. If only I'd have held my nerve and let things progress, maybe Debbie and Chris would have got it together again and fucked on a regular basis as planned. The thought of my wife having a younger guy as "a bit on the side" excited us both. Had I not panicked and stopped it, maybe Debbie would have gone on to have other lovers. Because of what happened, Debbie refused to "go down that road again" and has stuck to that decision, despite my occasional suggestion that I'd love her to fuck someone else again.
Sorry to waffle on, but please take my experience as a caution. You seem to have handled things better than I did, so I expect your wife will enjoy many more nights like that - you lucky man!
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Peter C