and sometimes it just stays in a fantasy world.
I've been involved in cuckolding and dominance/presentation for a long time. The incident that lead me into it is in another forum here called Long Story. I've never left the lifestyle and doubt I ever will. What I like about this site is the occasional real permister. About 80 percent of what I read on here is a combination of sheer fantasy and bs. Here and there though someone comes across as the real thing and it's refreshing to see people who have a good enough relationship and are open with one another enough to know what they need.. and refreshing to see the "Help!" posts that occasionally seem to be tied to people genuinely interested in pursuing an alternate lifestyle for real.
My experience has been mostly based in cuckolding, teaching wives to Dom their husbands, and teaching sub wives. Sex, presentation, cuckolding, all of it as much mental as it is physical. Everyone has a need, from the man who sits at home and waits for his fucked wife to come home, to the man who's tied in a corner while she's done, to the wife who spreads her legs for the first time, to the bull who takes her. Those needs vary, but all of them have a need. If any side of it isn't met, the plateau will crumble. Understanding those needs is key to it not crumbling.
So, for any of you "real" newbies, my email address is
[email protected]. I'm the same on messenger. If you want advice or guidance, let me know. I don't mind reading fantasy. It's always a part of a site like this, but talking is different. I've no desire to talk to men unless their wife is involved. I can do online or real time, and have been around long enough to know that real time a thousand miles away is just another form of fantasy.
So, open invite as long as you are real.