Wife is getting closer serious advice needed now!!

After 5 long years and many many talks about the subject of my wife with another man she finally admittied it is very tempting to try!!
A little background on us...about 5 years ago I told my wife of my desire to see her or if not watch her at least have her after she had been with another man! Her first reaction was NO YOUR SICK!!! she would not even talk about it..but slowly over time I showed her research studies that showed there are men that really do want there wives to be with other men and the reamisters why they like the idea...after seeing those studies she understood why I would want this...but the answer was still I could never do that....as time moved on I'd bring the subject up when we made love...several times after she was a little tipsy she'd show interest and role play a little saying yes she'd love to feel a bigger cock then mine..she said why don't you get a dildo to use on me!! That was the first sign to me that although she was saying no I won't fuck another man..it showed me the idea was planted in her head...as time went on she started to open up more and more...one night on one of our date nights..we try to go out once a month for a nice dinner maybe a movie etc..we were eating and she looked over at me and said guess what..she had a short skirt on that night she said I have no panties on!!! I thought wow she is changing some...after dinner that night we sat at the bar and a guy sitting there started talking to us...she was in the middle of us..she whispered in my ear I wonder what he'd do if I flashed him my bare pussy under my skirt...I said go for it...several times she would get off the bar stool in such a way that if her looked down he'd be sure to see her pussy...the last time she did so...after she went to the bathroom he said to me..you have a nice wife and what I just saw was even nicer..I just said it is isn't it..someone came up he know and he had to leave the bar area I told my wife he saw your pussy she said well thats all hes getting because I told you I'd never do it with another man...she said I did this for you hoping this gets you off the subject of me ever really fucking another man.
As time moved along she has become more open to the idea...on several times during our love making after using the dildo on her she'd ask what does it feel like when you fuck me after the dido has been in me I'd reply it feels like another man has already stretched you open..many times after I'd say that she would cum saying yessssssss you like feeling my used pussy don't you.
Of course the other thing I told her was how I'd love to eat her just fucked cum filled pussy....again at first she said that was sick!!!! but since then she now says to me when I fuck her go ahead fill me up with your cum then get down there and lick it out of me...so after these 5 years she has really warmed up to the idea but still said no until 3 weeks ago we were at a club...she was pretty tipsy...she saw this guy there and she looks at me and says he's hot!!!! If I was single I'd love to fuck him!!! I said you don't need to be single...you know I'd let you!!! soon she was dancing with him...she told him I think your hot!!!! He said what about your husband she told him oh he doesn't care if I dance with other men..she told him over and over he was hot...I told her go for it she said no I can't....the club closed and we went home...I role played I was him as I undressed her when I got to her panties I told her they are soaked!!! I said you were hot for him..she said yes I'd fuck him for sure...I asked her question after question about her fucking him and me eating her out after him she said yes she'd do it with him...now she was pretty takes and the next day she said oh I said that stuff because I was takes...but she did say yes he was hot and if I ever did fuck another man it I'd fuck him....now that was 3 weeks ago.....yesterday we were suppose to go to the same club...I knew he'd be there since he is the president of the board and they were having a relay for life thing there...but the wife wasn't feeling good...the guy came up to me and said hey how are you doing??? Now remember we never met before...I said oh great and you...he said where's your wife!!! I said she didn't come she wasn't feeling good he said oh to bad she seems like a lot of fun!!! my reply was oh yes she can be..I called my wife and said guess what that guy you were after just asked about you!!! Her reply was he did I said yes!!!
He's a biker and I said he had his chaps on...her reply was damn!!! Thats hot...when I got home we talked more about him and her and she said if I wasn't married I'd love to fuck him...I told her well you can anyways she said no not being married I'd be afraid how I'd feel afterwards if I did it now..I reached down into her pants and her pussy was wet!!!!! I told her be serious your pussy is wet because this does turn you on the idea of me letting you fuck another man...your pussy tells me different then what you mouth tells me..
He reply was yes he makes me hot...and yes I'd love to fuck him..but I won't do it!!!
So after 5 long years I've seen her make a complete turn around from her saying I was Sick to the point she has said yes she would fuck another man if she wasn't married.
How can I help her over come this last drawback??? Or should I just wait and see...I've heard from other couples it does talk sometimes years for a wife to finally make the bold move and try it..I'd like any ideas or comments and please be serious..I've took my time in a loving way...since I really love her with all my heart..but since I do have that cuckold gene in me..I can't help I have this desire to share her and then have her after another man...it took time to convince her that there are men like me and it has nothing to do with me ever wanting to be with another women at all. She finally understands and believes me that if she does do it I won't turn on her..nor would it ruin our marrage..so what do some of you think out there??? will she finally do it?? I would love to hear from the women out there on your thoughts?? I'd show her what you had to say and why she should just try it once to see.
Thanks to everyone that replies...

My wife took almost three years to say"perhaps" and another 2 years to say "I am ready". Be cool ! "patience" is the name of the game.Good luck.
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Quite right. Be patient. You cannot rush this. It took me about 2 and a half years to get from suggesting it in bed to my wife dating and being fucked by a guy 12 years younger than her.

Give your wife time. There may come a time when she bumps into this man when you are not around and he may be more persuasive than you. On the other hand, she may never cuckold you. SHE will decide if she fucks him - not you.
Peter C

Cuckymu,
Does she have any friends (maybe even a single friend) that she could go out with to this club? She may loosen up with a couple of libations and with you not "breathing over her shoulder". When she's "approached" by this gentleman or another, she'll definitely justify some flirting or MORE with your statements ringing in her head. The mood, music, holy water and party atmosphere will do wonders for her resolve.

You may even want to take it a BIG step further: Get this guys cell and call when she plans to revisit the club, even if it's with you. Or if there is another inocent way of letting him know when she'll be there. She just may grant your wish if he tells her that you called and told him she'd be there that night.

Two different approaches, one is certainly more forward.

If she's late getting home, DON'T call her cell! Let her call you! And don't "pounce" on her when she does arrive (she'll be experiencing confusion and mixed feelings if she did ANYTHING, even if was only allowing him to "coop a feel", kiss or hip grinding)

If she's on time or early, just simply ask if she had a good time and leave it at that. You can be a little more inquisitive the next time you're sharing fantasies in bed.

If you truly want this, and certainly sounds like you're cock gets nothing but hard when you think about it, let it come to you in pieces. Gentle nudges, NOT pushing will get you there. Enjoy!!

Why not let a bull finish your work for you? From the way you describe it, there have been at least two guys who would have gotten between your wife's legs if she had been in the club or pub "unattached". However, these guys are not mind readers; they have no idea that this woman's husband is dying to see her get fucked. You need to use a variation of a line that I used when I wanted to let a guy know that I was a wife-sharer: "My wife wants to be screwed and I want to watch. Are you game?"

The next time a guy tells you that you have a nice wife and that what he just saw (her pussy) is even nicer, respond with: "Yes, and it's yours to fuck with if you want it." You just need to make it clear that your wife is shy, this will be her first time with two cocks and he will have to seduce her. Your wife's natural instincts will win out over her "sensabilities" and she won't even know you are there when she and this guy combine to cuck you for the first time.

Good luck! Be sure to tell us all about it when it happens and remember to take photos.
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!