interesting advice column letter from Tues 9 Jan!!

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ASK AMY, Tuesday, January 9, 2007; Page C08, Washington Post
Dear Amy:

I am a happily married 27-year-old woman about to have my first baby, and I am terrified because it isn't my husband's baby.

Last spring, another woman and I took a trip to the Bahamas. At the hotel, I had a massage and was seduced by the masseur. I tried to resist, but I guess I got carried away. I sort of cooperated once things got started.

After some prenatal tests, my doctor recently told me that the baby's red type is different from both my husband's and mine, which means the baby is not his. When the baby is born, it will be very obvious: My husband and I are white, and the masseur is black.

I can't tell my husband; I think he would leave me. It's too late for an abortion. What can I do? Please advise me.

Pregnant and Scared

I appreciate the fact that you are assuming some responsibility for participating in this sexual encounter, which from the way you describe it sounds less like seduction and more like coercion to me. Or is this how you are justifying cheating on your husband? Only you can know.

This hotel employee should not be seducing, coercing or having sex with hotel guests during massage sessions. (Giving a consenting adult a cellphone number and hooking up off the premises is another matter.) If he obligate or powerd you to have sex with him, you should have gone to hotel management immediately to prevent him from preying on other hotel guests. In addition to other tough decisions that you need to make fairly quickly, you also should be immediately tested for STDs.

You have to tell your husband about this. You simply have no choice. However, it would be helpful for you to rehearse this conversation with a trusted friend or professional counselor.

You and your husband should discuss this in a neutral environment. Planned Parenthood offers pregnancy and adoption counseling. Counselors working for this agency have seen it all, and you will not be judged. Your local Planned Parenthood office will immediately refer you to a counselor, and will be by your side while you and your husband walk this difficult path.

Check your local listings or visit The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! for information on a clinic near you.
So few walk the walk!!
If I could have even 1 wife for every 100 dreamers, I would have a guy's wife every night!

I'd dump her ass so fast her head would spin.
She left me for another man and
divorced me. Haven't heard from
her since. Would love to know the fun she's having and what she's telling him about me.

If he's anything of a true man, he'll step up to the plate. Just my $00.02's worth.

Over on ultimatecuckold.net I also posted the same column and got a very good reply. Basically, she and her girl friend went somewhere to play and she could have done something about the problem before the point of no return.

She and her GF probably shared a room to save on hotel costs so they both had fun and enjoyed some yum.
So few walk the walk!!
If I could have even 1 wife for every 100 dreamers, I would have a guy's wife every night!

sounds like someone is dreaming again