Getting started......need some advice

I just signrd up and need some advice on getting started.We have been married for 25 years and very much in love.For the last 6 or 7 years we have been talking swinging and or another guy to fuck her,which believe it or not I prefer the oother guy fucking her scene .But its all just been talk so far .It seems to turn her on to hear about it when we are making love and see has progressed to the point of nude beaches and sexy dress but again we just cannot get to what we talk about.So if anyone has any advice I would love to hear it ,I am just about to the point athat if it doesn't happen soon I am ready to forget about it and carry on whith our otherwise great relationship.

Excellent opportunity for you to try some role playing.

Purchase yourself a large dildo (it doesn't have to be enormous). Take on the permisterna of a bull, disguise your voice, and manipulate the sexual intimacy a little more powerfully than what you would normally do. When the "new bull" is finished with foreplay, fuck her with the dildo by holding the base of it against your lower torso (as if it were your own cock). Let phrases slip out like, "Too bad your husband's cock isn't this big", and "You deserve to be owned by a Big Cock Bull".

Watch for the tell tale clues that really turn her on and make her cum, and progress from there.

You should be able to easily figure out if she really gets turned on by your "new bull permisterna" and you can progress from there to the real thing when she is ready.

You'll have to be the judge on which dildo to buy to satisfy your wife.
My wife is extremely prissy and sensitive. Any dildo with veins, ribs, a large head, or whatever irritates her pussy and soon spoils the mood.

After spending hundreds of dollars on dildos she settled on this one, it really makes her squirt -
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Good luck and keep us posted on your progress!

Thanks guys ,both sound like good advice .Dognamedabu..... the taking her out of town will help,we are in a small town and we know alot of people here,thinking of trying vegas soon.
Anyone else that could add some advice ?

I experienced a similar situation. My wife and I have been married for over 30 years. I found out that I was turned on by her doing ANYTHING that involved another man. She cuckholded me three weeks after our wedding. I was in college and we moved into a trailer in the university's married student trailer park. A guy from our hometown, one year older than me, lived on the next block with his wife. He dropped by one night while I was at a class. After some flirting, he wrestled her down on the sofa, got her shorts and top off and mounted her. She protested that they shouldn't be doing this, but he pushed his cock into her and any resistance melted away. He had just shot cum inside her and pulled his limp cock out of her when I walked up the sidewalk to the door. When I came inside, he was sitting on the sofa wearing a pair of white gym shorts and no shirt. She was wearing her tight short-shorts and a white tank top. She was mussed and flushed. He had a canary-eating grin on his face and I could see the imprint of his semi-flacid cock through his shorts. I suspected something had gone on. I felt jealous, angry and very, very turned on. That's how it started and it just got better and better from there. We have been to swing clubs, had sex in the same room with another couple, dressed her up and went to sports bars to watch the guys try to pick her up. and lots more. I have the stories of her pre-marriage adventures written up as narratives of what she told me. I have a few of her escapades after we were married.

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Hi. Your wife sounds wonderful. Where do you live?