wife has cheated before

Before we had kids (just before she became pregnant) my wife was fucking a guy she worked with. We have for the last 6 years fantasied about her fucking other guys when we are fucking. I finally got the nerve to track this guy down, and told him about what has been going on, and asked if he would be interested in boning my wife again, I told him we had an "open" relationship. Next time I boned my wife, I told her I had called the guy, and the result wasn't good. She was crying and upset, and asked why did I do that, etc, etc...its just a fantasy in our bedroom...etc. I don't know what to do now...I mean I want her to to get boned, so bad, is it hopeless? When we fuck now, the sex is great, she asks for the big dildo and I give it to her, and she says thats the way she has taken it, etc..etc... so the fantasy is still alive, what gives? How can I set it up so she starts being a true slut again? I thought of a vacation away from the house/kids, and maybe she would cut loose. She is trying hard to be in shape, and says she wants a boob job, and a tummy tuck, but why should I invest in all that if, I can't see another man enjoy it too? any ideas?
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Maybe your choice of partners for her was the problem..maybe you should not have contacted THAT guy!...there may have been some left-over friction between her and her old lover, and she did not want to rekindle that relationship. You probably should concentrate on a NEW stud for her...one she doesn't know, but whose looks would turn her on! You could get some offers from guys who advertise they want to meet couples on a swinger's website...then you get several prospective bulls to submit pix of themselves, preferably revealing ones...you tell your wife about it and let her go through all the pictures...she may surprise you and pick one out...I still remember when my wife selected one that way...she appeared not very interested, (I think she wanted to act somewhat respectable) but casually said..."I wouldn't mind meeting this one in a dark alley"...that was all the hint I needed so I set up a date between he and us...he ended up fucking her in a hotel room while I stood guard, and she thanking me for being such a considerate and wonderful husband who put her needs above my own. It sometimes takes work and some cunning, but you will probably succeed if you really want the cuckold thing to happen in your life. Good luck and let us know how it's going.

The boobjob and tummy tuck would go a long way toward helping her self image. She is comfortable with you using her body because she trusts you. Maybe she is uncomfortable showing it to other men. Keep reassuring her how beautiful she is and letting her know how much you want to see her fuck another guy. Keep rating other guyswith her and ask her what she would do with them. I almost scored with my slut wife....but luck was against me........soon! Keep trying!

Contact another guy and let her get those things done. The other guy will be better since he's new to her and no baggage. The other items will make her a ton more self confident and she'll enjoy everything a lot more including flirting with and possibly fucking strange cock. I'm in Cal too so if you need help send me an e-mail, [email protected]
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I agree with the previous post in that you need to find your wife some FRESH MEAT...contact some guys at a website for swingers and get some pix of them...let you wife inspect them before you go meet them and once she has chosen the one that turns her one go and meet the guy...if you feel that he might be compatible with your wife and you, then set things up for the two of you to go meet the new bull.
I think the excitement of the "unknown" will add to the mistique of the encounter and will fuel her passion for that strange cock. I know that my wife has had many encounters in the past, but she always looks forward to a new bull she has not had sex with before more that she would an old lover. Put yourself in her shoes...a strange piece of ass is always the best! Same goes for her! Good luck.