Am I a cuckold or merely a voyeur

First off, hello everyone. My name is Chuck, as you could probably tell. Anyway, I've been fantasizing about my wife with another man for quite awhile. I guess I'm not considered small, but I'm new to this so you all tell me. It's 7.5" long with about 5.5" circumference. I'm muscular, weighing about 200lbs with about 14% bodyfat and about 5'10" tall. Italian and, if you can remember the show thirtysomething, I look almost exactly like Ken Olin (Michael). Anyway, years ago it was different. I fucked my best friends girlfriend a few times with verbal offense towards him (his choice, not mine). It was actually fun. Apparently my dick was somewhat larger than his and he wanted her to see it, having seen it before in the locker room. She wasn't exactly what I'd call beautiful but she was cute and we all had a good time. And that was that. I met my wife and we fell in love, got married, had kids and since our mid 30's (I'm 45 now) I've been fantasizing about watching her with another guy. Like a stripper or even a black guy. Either way, just someone with a larger dick than me. I'm not really into the offense part, except maybe some verbal.
But visualizing the whole scene, and having her act it out with a large dildo and/or telling a story makes me cum like an explosion. It never ceases to get me extremely excited. We've talked about actually following through, but she's hesitant. So we'll have to someday see what happens. But I'm always hopeful.

I also wanted to say I'm extremely impressed with you all for your honesty about not only your sizes, but you openness to share how things are.

If you'd like to see my wife, here's a few pics:

Hey Chuck,,,it's not really one or the other, you can be Chinese, but does that make you a man, or a chinaman? You can be a voyeur and not a cuck, but if you're watching YOUR wife have sex with someone else, then you're a cuck, with a voyeur fetish.

Chuck pal...hi there...i'm a husband from Brazil and we have the same point of view about this matter...i'd never go through offense stuff..i'll be pissed off..but to see her making love..moaning and cumming hard with another men..having oral sex..sucking cock and balls..having her pussy eated..her ass touched..making the guy shoot his load all over...it's amazing..i'm a voyeur..and a cuckold too..but never had desires of being humiliated or go bisexual ...
The fact is..beautiful women we're made to be free..it�s a natural thing..i'm seeing your wife's pic now..you must share her and feel her intense sexual energy..one is not enough to cuties..propably she masturbates thinking about many other men so she doesn't need to cuck you..but if you both do it toghether...great... your wife must experiment other men..and you must help her to do it..

Thx!

Thanks, Hubbycorn. I would love to see her enjoying another man (or 2 or 3!)while I watch. I'm not into severe offense, either. I would love, however, for some larger guy, like a huge, muscular black guy, who's visibly stronger than me, to order me to watch him take my wife. I visualize him being this huge muscular guy with a large cock. And there's nothing I can do because he'll kick my ass, and him making me jerk off while I watch my wife enjoy him. That's the kind of offense I'd love. Or even ordering me to lick her pussy for him while he watches and then pulling me off of her, getting in my face and making me tell him to fuck my wife or he'll kick my ass. Like making me get on my knees and beg him because i'm afraid. Totally showing me up in front of my wife. That would be cool offense to me. But I wouldn't lick him or anything like that. That's not for me. And I'm not a small, wimpy guy and my dick is pretty ok (about 7.5" and 5.5" around). Plus I work out a lot lifting weights. I just want to feel like one for the excitement of it all. Does this make sense? Is that too weird?

I admire the guys who get to do this.

I'd love to talk to some "Bulls" out there and get their take on what to do or what they'd like to do to my wife! So, if any of you are reading this, fire away with what you'd like to do and how you'd do it!

Also, my e-mail is [email protected]

Let's talk!

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Am I a cuckold or merely a voyeur?

First off, hello everyone. My name is Chuck, as you could probably tell. Anyway, I've been fantasizing about my wife with another man for quite awhile. I guess I'm not considered small, but I'm new to this so you all tell me. It's 7.5" long with about 5.5" circumference. I'm muscular, weighing about 200lbs with about 14% bodyfat and about 5'10" tall. Italian and, if you can remember the show thirtysomething, I look almost exactly like Ken Olin (Michael). Anyway, years ago it was different. I fucked my best friends girlfriend a few times with verbal offense towards him (his choice, not mine). It was actually fun. Apparently my dick was somewhat larger than his and he wanted her to see it, having seen it before in the locker room. She wasn't exactly what I'd call beautiful but she was cute and we all had a good time. And that was that. I met my wife and we fell in love, got married, had kids and since our mid 30's (I'm 45 now) I've been fantasizing about watching her with another guy. Like a stripper or even a black guy. Either way, just someone with a larger dick than me. I'm not really into the offense part, except maybe some verbal.
But visualizing the whole scene, and having her act it out with a large dildo and/or telling a story makes me cum like an explosion. It never ceases to get me extremely excited. We've talked about actually following through, but she's hesitant. So we'll have to someday see what happens. But I'm always hopeful.

I also wanted to say I'm extremely impressed with you all for your honesty about not only your sizes, but you openness to share how things are.

If you'd like to see my wife, here's a few pics:





Anyway, I hope to talk with you all again.

i like 2 c more of ur horny gurl..............
gimme her front

All I have at the moment, sorry. We're planning on taking more in a couple of weeks after the holidays.

Bulls, of course, are also more than welcome to comment.

I think she definitely deserves a good fuck by someone new; I bet it'll hit her like a train. Wouldn't it begood tosee her out of control - in another guy's hands?

That's exactly what I'm talking about! Thank you, panos_yogi! I would love to see her get to unbelievably sloppy wet while fucking or blowing another guy. Someone with a huge, or at least noticeably larger than mine, cock!

Just imagining someone taking her and smiling at me with a smirk while I jerk off in the corner is a major turn on! And even her telling me how much better of a fuck he is would be amazing! I just hope I would be able to not cum quickly.

Hi chuck,

You sound like I was before my wife and I started to do it. I fantasized like crazy for years and finally met a woman who liked to swing and we got married.

I told her of my fantasy of watching and we decided to slowly ease into it. I would hide in the closet and she had black guys come over that she met online. At first, all she did was give a hand job while wearing something sexy. Then after a few handjobs she started to lick their dicks and then give a blowjob, until now she's having full on sex while I hide and watch from the closet.

It's great and a big turnon and I dont' get jealous at all.

I recommend that you do it the way we did. You hide in the closet and peek and have her just start out with giving a hand job. See how you feel, see if you get jealous, etc. Work slowly up to it, no need to rush. That will help her enjoy it too.

What you'll find is that it's VERY difficult to find a bull. They will not show up, lie about their size, send phoney pictures, flake, etc. Be prepared for that. If you tell them that the husband is going to be out in the open and watching, it will make it doubly hard to find a bull.

Thanks, jamesriske. That may work. Hopefully someday soon I'll get the nerve up to ask her. I would just love for her to do this.


If any large guys want to post either a pic of themselves with what they've got, or write what they'd like to do to my wife (her name is Ashlyn, btw), feel free, please. It might help. She's done phone sex (she was an operator, briefly) and it was amazing to hear what other guys wanted to do to her. Some were pretty good, too, with explaining in detail. Got dangerous though, with kids in the house.

More pics please, thanks

To answer your original question, right now you are a voyeur. You will become a cuckold the very first time another guy's cock penetrates your wife's pussy. And it does not matter if you are there for the occasion or not.

It sounds like your wife is to the point where she does want to enjoy the pleasure that can only come from spreading her legs for a variety of men. Her hesistation probably stems from the lingering doubt that when you watch her for the first time with another man, you will become jealous and end the marriage. Women by nature want to have sex with as many men as they can get their pretty hands on. But they also want to be married to that one special guy who will provide for all their other needs.

I suggest that you do what I did with my wife, move into the cuckold lifestyle slowly. Start by having her wear revealing clothes around other men and/or flirt with them. When she sees that you are cool with other men being attracted to her, encourage her to expose her charms to other men. When she sees that having other men admire her teats, ass and pussy turns you on more than it turns the other guys on, you and her will both know that it is time to take the final step to plant the title of "cuckold" on you.

To completely shatter any hesitancy on her part and to avoid the problems that jamesriske talks about, take her to a nightclub that has a reputation for being a hangout for bulls and alpha-male types. It will not be long before a bull makes his move on your wife. Have a signal arranged with your wife by which she lets you know that a particular bull is the one for her. Complete the process by taking the bull on the side and telling him point-blank: "My wife wants to get screwed and I want to watch. Are you game?" Proceed to the motel of your choice and get ready to have the greatest orgasm of your life as you watch, for the first of many occasions, as another man fucks your wife silly.

Good luck and have fun!
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!

Oh well. She won't go for it. Which is pretty disappointing but what can I do. I still love the thought of someone with a great body and a huge dick, confident and really good at pleasing a woman take her and make me watch, but I guess it's going to stay a fantasy for me. She says she's extremely satisfied with our sex life and that no ther guy could please her like I do. I guess I'm just too good (Haha);) . Anyway, if any bulls out there want to let me know what you'd like to do to my wife, if as much detail as possible, I'm all for it. If it's asking too much, I'll understand.

Maybe I should become a bull? ;)

my wife and i talked about it for ages she eventually did it while i was working away on a wendsday night and texed me all night what she was up to while i wanked myself silly

Thanks, everyone.

I would love to see her enjoying another man (or 2 or 3!)while I watch. I'm not into severe offense, either. I would love, however, for some larger guy, like a huge, muscular black guy, who's visibly stronger than me, to order me to watch him take my wife. I visualize him being this huge muscular guy with a large cock. And there's nothing I can do because he'll kick my ass, and him making me jerk off while I watch my wife enjoy him. That's the kind of offense I'd love. Or even ordering me to lick her pussy for him while he watches and then pulling me off of her, getting in my face and making me tell him to fuck my wife or he'll kick my ass. Like making me get on my knees and beg him because i'm afraid. Totally showing me up in front of my wife. That would be cool offense to me. But I wouldn't lick him or anything like that. That's not for me. And I'm not a small, wimpy guy and my dick is pretty ok (about 7.5" and 5.5" around). Plus I work out a lot lifting weights. I just want to feel like one for the excitement of it all. Does this make sense? Is that too weird?

I admire the guys who get to do this.

I'd love to talk to some "Bulls" out there and get their take on what to do or what they'd like to do to my wife! So, if any of you are reading this, fire away with what you'd like to do and how you'd do it!

Also, my e-mail is [email protected]

Let's talk!

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chuck,

You're making this much too complicated.

If you want to do it, just tell her and arrange to have a guy come over and get a hand job or blowjob.

end of story.

Cuckold - a man whose wife has cheated on him

that's ALL it really means.

all the rest attached to it is arbitrary.