wanna watch

hi. my wife an i have been married 25 years. sex was allways a big part of our life and she loved it.we havent had sex in over 8 months,she allways has an excuse for not wanting it. how do i find out if she is getting fucked on the side? it wouldnt bother me if she does but i would like to watch her take another mans cock. i have checked her panties but havent found any cum in them as of yet. its driving me nuts cause im afraid to tell her that i wanna watch her fuck another guy and look in her eyes as hes blowing his nuts deep in her pussy. if anyone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it.

Just because she's not fucking you doesn't mean she's doing somebody else...although it would be nice if she was! She may be going through her change of life and is refraining from sex all together. Hopefully it will change eventually and she will regain her libido...you could start tempting her by getting her some magazines, books etc at the adult store which show pix of guys with big hard ons, fucking girls, etc. Leave them laying around for her to find, and if she tells you that you're a pervert it will be the start of a conversation in which you could tell her of the fantasies you are having about her being with other men...tell he that you miss having sex with her, but you would settle for her having it with another guy and telling you about it, and maybe eventually letting you watch...who knows? You may just plant the idea in her head enough so it might develop into the real thing with your wifey taking on a stud bull. Good luck. Hope she cukolds you soon!