Mildly confused

Cheers everyone,
I am rather new to all of this and would like to get some clarification. Recently, it has come to my attention that I get horny as hell imagening my wife screwing one of her aquaintances to whom she is admitedly atracted.

My fantasie involves me lying next to them just watching, getting turned on by her arousal and her utter lack of need for me.

This, however, is where it stops. I don't share any of the other fantasies mentioned on this site. The thought of eating out her pussy afterwards, for example, has the opposite effect and makes me limp as a noodle. The same goes for the whole offense thing : I see absolutly no pleasure in serving either one of them. Furthermore, I don't get turned on imagening that she has sex with this chap anywhere else but in our bed with me beside her . My penis size is normal (about 7 inches) and in my fantasies , his size is not an issue at all . Only the fact that my wife is utterly turned on is what seems to arouse me

The question, then, is: am I a cuck at all or just a voyeu? Keep in mind that I have been in a few threesomes and have watched other people fuck without being overly aroused. Found it kind of boring after a while, actually.

This fantasy, however, has aroused me more then anything I have previously experienced. I was actually surprised by this, since I have always thought of myself as an alpha male and have been described as such .

I have discussed it with my wife and she might be game, only if she finds someone to whom she is emotionally atracted. She made it absolutly clear that she had no intention of screwing a random male, a scenarion which I would not find atractive , either. In essence, my fantasie is to watch my wife fuck somebody who could potentially replace me as a mate.

Any comments from some experienced members would be very much welcome

There are different degrees of being a cuckold. Some guys may find pleasure in being humiliated, sissyfied, even put down by the wife and her bull, and even sodomized by the bull making the husband act the part of a homosexual. That is an EXTREME! There are many other varieties of this thing. Many of us are happy just to see our wife getting pleasure from another man and his dick...we are happy just to watch the action, and sometimes we like to just hear about it from her, and we're just fine with it...at times, if allowed, we'd like to participate and have our wife enjoy a 3-some with her bull and we be included in the sexual action as well...not eating her cream pie doesn't mean you are not a cuckold...you may be one, just that you haven't "graduated" to that point yet...in the meantime, enjoy what you like about the action, and let your wife have her fling...no matter how you do it, it will excite your senses like nothing else can! And you will love your Hott Wife for making it happen for you. I think about all the sluts and whores I knew before I married, and honestly, I wish I had married the sluttiest whore of them all...she would have made me the happiest! I just love knowing that the woman I'm with LOVES hard cock, no matter who it's from! I wish I'd known it before I married!!

I think you may find that as you get deeper into the lifestyle that many of the things you used to believe you would never do become some of your most satisfyingly decadent duties and fantasies.

I first began getting off on the idea of my girlfriend(s)/wife(s) fucking other men when I was in high school. I had a slutty girlfriend who always cheated on me, but I always cheated on her as well. The hot part was when we would be fucking we would tell each other who we had both been fucking that week. I have gotten off on being "cheated on" ever since. Now all I think about is attached to the cuckold lifestyle. I haven't fantasized about any women other than my wife since we started dating. As a matter of fact, that was how I knew that I was falling in love with her when I began to have fantasies about her being with other men.

My wonderful wife is the best wife a cuck could ask for. Ironically, I cheated on that high school girlfriend with her. We met when we were 17, we're both 34 now. We've been married since 2002. She is a born slut and used to fantasize about fucking other men in front of her husband when she was younger, long before we had ever met!

We got started on this hot kinky lifestyle when she got fed up with me always backing out of it when I would tell her that I wanted her to fuck other men. She simply found a hot guy to fuck and did it. I got mad at first but got over it quite quickly. Over time, as you find your place, the jealousy will fade (with the occasional relapse, especially early on. It can happen later on as well but by then you'll have no control and no choice ).

I consider myself a complete cuckold bitch, as does my wife. Since we have been married she has fucked at minimum 6 guys, some on multiple occasions. I have seen her make out with another man in public at a friends party and I've listened intently from the basement locked in my chastity cage and smoking my Virginia Slim menthol 120's while she fucked someone upstairs. I have yet to witness the erotic beauty of her with another man or the dirty hot joy of eating her well fucked, creamed out pussy. But, I know that it's inevitable that I will. I have no choice or control in the matter. That may be the biggest turn on of all.

I am now an "out" cuckold bitch. All of our close friends know that my wife cucks me. She has told people from the beginning. She didn't want people to think she was disrespecting me by cheating on me.

When I first started finding out about this lifestyle I would read about what people were doing on the internet and say "eww" and "I'll never do that". Yet, here I am. A total cuckold slave bitch to my wife, who now knows that she can literally get away with anything. And everyone that knows us, knows it.

She also posts on this site and will read this message.

Thank-you for the responses so far. They are very much appreciated. Part of me is worried that the jealousy will get the better of me and wreck what is a solid marriage. We also have a young , my absolute first priority. I would never want to do anything that would endanger her happiness.

Mind you, I cannot deny that these fantasies exist. Also, the thought of ridding myself of any form of jealousy over time is a very attractive one since I attach to it the ideal of liberation from the possessiveness that still inhabits my psyche. The lack of control and the fear of loosing her appear to be at the root of my turn on.

Anyway, please keep your comments coming. I am eager to learn more.
Cheers

If you could have known me prior to my starting to be a cuck I was insanely jealous...like you, I was at first just curious because I had heard about others enjoying it, although I could not understand how that could ever be possible for me...boy, was I wrong!!...then when she worked up her nerve and it finally happened the jealousy was very quickly overcome by very sensual and erotic feelings. The idea of my wife with another man gave me the most incredible hard-on imaginable and a little voice inside my head said "Hey, this can't really be bad if it has this reaction on me!". At the same time my wife became even more desirable to me. I would then encourage her to be with other guys and then tell me about it. It was an incredible feeling while waiting for her to return home from a "date" to give me the slutty details. Later when we graduated to me being in the same room, or at least very nearby while she was made love to made the whole thing even more exciting. Sometimes I would participate as a MFM 3-some arrangement, other times I would just watch her being "serviced" by the guy. When she and I made eye contact as she was being pumped by her stud she knew how incredibly turned on that made me so she would intentionally exagerate the action by humping her hips into the guy and letting out little moans of pleasure. I cannot describe to you the feeling you will get as you watch a big cock disappear into your wife's pussy and see the enjoyment in her face, and watch your wife in heat over this stranger who's fucking her brains out! I actually get more sexual pleasure seeing that than to have sex with her myself. This whole scene was so pleasurable I knew from the start that I was hooked, and that she loved what it did to me. Following her having sex with another guy I just went mad with lust for her and made love to her like never before. As to worries of loosing her, I never let that enter my mind. If your relationship actually improves, as mine did, I don't believe there's any danger in that. There have been times when we've had to break it off with one of her lovers, because he was becoming emotionally involved with her, and neither of us wanted that...it has to be understood by the bull that he's just there for the raw sex ONLY and not to fall inlove with your wife.
Just like Guthicock said in his comments, the things that now seem really weird & strange to you, will probably be the very things you will enjoy the most once you let yourself and your wife go and experience the lifestyle. There's just nothing like it!!

Ok, first of all I am not the most typical guy here. I have been on both sides of this fence. I enjoy other mans wife�s with there knowledge or watching but not behind their backs. I have also enjoyed my girlfriend or wife after another fellow has had their fill of her.

I too am average size, but can stay hard for an hour or two the first time and am extremely passionate. I still enjoy watching or hearing about what a guy did with my girl when I have a steady lady in my life. I have never had to worry about loosing a lady to another guy with any of my girlfriends because I was always the best lover in their life (except my first couple when I was younger, boy did I not have a clue then!). We always broke up for other reamisters. I was never the type of guy who went without or whose girl did not come home at night. I always had sex with my girl after they were done. And it was never like we did not have sex regularly 5+ nights a week.

Now, when single, I have enjoyed other mans wives with their knowledge or watching. I have never been a big pusher of my self and will not usually push on further until the lady is practically begging and their mate is agreeable. So I have been in situations where the lady is reluctant to go on normally because she is worried about their boyfriend or husband getting mad, upset or hurt. This only shows their higher regard for their mates love and not wanting to ruin that. Or the man not wanting to go further because they start to get nervous or jealous, worried about loosing their lady or lack of confidence in their own abilities. Either way I will always back off until they are agreeable which is usually in another meeting later. Sometimes they decide it�s not for them, but usually it�s a slow progression in which everyone really enjoys it all in the end.

I suggest starting out like I normally do with another guy�s lady when they watch. Find a guy she would like to fool around with who is agreeable to only fool around at first and see where it goes. I love to make out and fondle a lady for a very long time. I can go passionately for a couple hours of just that and it drives ladies nuts. I have done it and had their husband fucking them while I am kissing them in the beginning at times. And if the relationship continued I might be the one fucking while the husband just watched or kissed and fondled the wife. I think it is very important that you are both completely honest and upfront about your feelings and emotions (before, during, and after each encounter if you continue). And don't be afraid to stop at any point, it�s about what both of you want, and you need to agree. If one of you does not want to continue, they you as a couple are ready to stop the whole thing that night or with one particular guy, or if it is for good. Go slow and enjoy, remember sex is sex and love is love. But sex with the one you love should always be best in my book. Except for the guys who suck at making love and just have to have help, I guess. You just need to find a guy at first who is not a pushing guy but is very understanding of what ever limits or pace you set.

As I said my experiences I don�t think are typical here for guys who play either side of the coin here let alone both. I don�t go as far as most cucks here claim, I guess I am more of the voyeur here who likes a slutty lady. And I am not a pushing huge cocked bull who is overbearing either. But just a very passionate guy who enjoys pleasing ladies very much. Just enjoy the experience for what it is, and however it works for both of you.

Good luck!