Progress too SLOOOOOOW...

I've been trying to get my wife to take charge in the bedroom, with precious little success. I'd like to eventually get her to the point where she is a least fantasizing about a larger guy, then encourage her to go for it.

I started with some light reading material for her about dominant wives and orgasm denial. I have also been going down on her nightly, which she loves. We are at the point where I will eat her anytime, but only if she tells me to.

The problem seems to be with the denial. I think she thinks its weird. I tell her that keeping me constantly on edge will only benefit her as I will be ready at any moment. She says she understands and halfhartedly tells me no, but then caves in because she feels bad. I am not putting any pressure on me for me to cum. She says she would much rather orgasm via oral, so I said all you have to do is take charge and you can have as much as you want. When I ask her isf she wants to go back to our old relationship (missionary about once a week), she says NO WAY, which has been my only positive sign

I can't decide if she thinks this is weird, or truly doesn't have a dominant bone in her body? Anybody been in a similiar position? What can I do next to keep this small amount of progress moving?

Dear Cuckless,

Actions speak louder than words. You�ve got things off to a good start, but you need to remember that if she�s used to �missionary once a week� this is a real reversal of roles. Most women are programmed by society to be �nurturing pleasers� and for her pleasure to now be the number one priority is a challenge to that �programming.� Be patient and she�ll come around to this new way of thinking. I suggest remembering to always do some foreplay before eating her. This reinpowers that you love her, and that you find her sexy. If a woman feels that her partner isn�t attracted to her, it�s a real ego *******er.

SO often it is said that if you own a man�s orgasms, you can train him to do almost anything. This is also true of humans in general, and I believe a woman can be �programmed� much faster than a male because they are multiorgasmic. It is a documented fact that lab rats who could strike a lever to electronically stimulate the pleasure center of their brain would keep hitting the lever over and over to the exclusion of all else. They�d starve to death because they wouldn�t stop to eat!

If you eat her to several orgasms every night she�ll soon start disregard her old way of thinking because it contradicts her desire for pleasure.

wifntrng: Interesting theory.

Thanks for the advice, makes sense to me. I will continue to try to take baby steps with her.

Any other ideas for pushing it along slowly would be appreciated