Am I a cuckold? My wife wife doesnt really like sex

my wife wife doesnt really like sex. She had a tragic death in her family a few years ago and since then her libido has dwindled to virtually nothing - we make love maybe a few times a year - when she is really into it and eveything goes. The other times it had been an average of 2 times a month - she reluctanlty opens her legs and lets me fuck herfor 2 minutes while she lays there bored and watches TV. I usually beg her for that 2 minutes or do a lot of favors for her to get it - like fixing things around the house or taking or picking the kids up from school. She sometimes says kidding that I have a small penis (5.75 inches) is that small?

That was up until about 2 weeks ago when she caught me pulling her pants down while she was arelax as I made love to her pussy from behind while she was relaxing - i have actually been doing this for a while - sometimes fucking her ass and a few times actually eating her out all while arelax!!! - vey hot !!! She was so mad that she said that it will be a long time before we have sex again.

I know some of you are saying that she is probably relaxing with someone - but I know she is not. I spend a lot of time jerking off and thinking about not being in her pussy for months - this turns me on.

Am I a cuckold? How do I take the state of this further?

there is no way you could do someones ass while they are relaxing, come on man

its true...i would massage her ass increasing in pressure as time goes by until my handling is fairly strong. I would then begin to rub in her crack and then put my finger on her sphincter and massage around and around, meanwhile with my other habd continue to rub her but itself. then after licking my finger and continuing to rub her poop shoot I would then slid it in...i can honestly tell you that a relaxing woman's asshole is VERY relaxed. Meanwhile I have pressed my naked body against hers and my cock is SO hard and dripping pre cum at this point. As I continue to prob her with my finger I then push the head of my penis up against her anus and then very gradually and slowly and carefully push it in a little - i then slowly fuck her ass. f it begins to feel dry I will then pull it out - being careful to keep rubbing her asshole without interruption and then I spit on my hand and lube up my penis - this time it slides it much easier and deeper and I can really fuck her now - in and out pretty good a medium speed and intensity - i realy never last long and often cum deep in her asshole....

IT FEELS WONDERFUL. I swear this is true...ALL CUCKS SHOULD TRY IT, If no the ass then at least the relaxing pussy, hey it a way to get some...!!!

You're not a cuckold, just a guy with a frigid wife.

how do i get this current state closer to that of a cuckold relationship?

I don't know. My experience with my wife is that she LOVES sex and that she knew she wanted to do swinging and we do a cuckold relationship. She fucks other guys about once every two weeks while I hide and watch.

If your wife doesn't like sex and has a low sex drive, I don't see how you can turn her into a cuckoldress.

Your first step I suppose is to find out if she's turned off to sex altogether or just turned off to sex with you. Can't the two of you talk about it? Just sit her down, give her a couple takes, be very open and non-critical and talk to her about sex and why she is uninterested. Find out if she has hidden fantasies or desires or fetishes, etc. etc. When she reveals something, you can tell her in a mild way that you've always had a fantasy about watching.

It just sounds to me that the two of you need a long, serious heart to heart talk.

But what do I know? I'm not a psychologist, guy.

Hey gang, I�m Bryan. Pretty cool site here. I�ve been reading here for a few weeks and decided to join. Until 2002 my wife doing other guys was just jerk off material and a topic to spice up our sex life. It was agreed that if a great opportunity presented itself, she would go for it. That year we were at a summer party at a friend�s house and she caught the attention of one of his regional business associates. After about 15 minutes in the basement wine cellar she was a newly christened hotwife, complete with cum oozing down her thighs. Over the next few summers we occasionally went out trawling bars/restaurants with her playing the field and once in a great while she�d hook up. She got hit on plenty, but her best year was 2004 when she wracked up six one night stands.

Earlier this year Sandi started working for a small company and the owner/boss (Debra) introduced my wife to her ex-husband. It seems like black women aren�t too happy about white girls hooking up with black men, because of the competition. But this August, after Sandi had been working there several months and she and Debra became good friends, Debra sort of threw the idea out there for Sandi to hook up with her ex, Joe, and things proceeded quickly from there. Things have developed to the point where Debra covers for Sandi so I don�t suspect anything (Sandi and I play the cheating wife/unknowing husband arrangement). Joe and Sandi are fucking about three times a week; often times more, but sometimes less.
Having sex with Sandi after she�s been with Joe is extremely hot. Everyone seems very happy with the arrangement, but lately I feel like Sandi is totally focusing on me when we have sex, and it no longer matters if she cums or not. She knows that hearing about her adulterous episodes is incredibly erotic and exciting. I am rock hard and crazy to fuck her when she divulges what she did with Joe. I cum fast and hard when she talks about being with him. We�re not playing offense games or anything, and I am getting sex as regularly as I ever did. She is still the same loving wife (even kinkier than before). Since their affair is �secret,� their meetings were limited to her lunch hour and right after work, but last month they started meeting infrequently at night. She�s gone over to his place four times in as many weeks.

I guess I�m being a little insecure and paranoid, but this is the first time she�s been seeing a guy several times a week for nearly three months. Anyone out there with REAL experience got any wisdom to pass on? For the first time a feel like a cuckold than just a gut with a hotwife.

I realize I�m not exactly Tom Clancy when it comes to writing, but hopefully this gives a decent picture of my situation.

Thanks,

Bryan
Bryan

Sounds like they are developing a relationship and you need to cut it off.

Permisterally, my wife only plays while I am there watching. No dating or kissing or anything like that. But I do understand that some guys get off on having the wife see their fuck buddies in private.

The number one risk to this lifestyle is having the wife develop a relationship with the stud and that sounds like what's happening here.

You need to cut it off. Tell her to dump the guy and stick to one night stands or someone 'regular'; which is once a month for a fuck only.

Hey Bryan -

I think that Jamesriske is not very far off base. I�m no Psych major, either, and a few paragraphs does not paint the entire picture, but reading your post I believe that while you�re still her number one love, Joe has become--or is fast becoming--her number one fuck. Whether they�re truly developing a relationship of substance, is something you need to find out. It may very well be that they�re nothing but friendly fuck buddies. He might not even like her (permisterality) that much and only her looks/body appeal to him. He could be fucking her because she�s white and it�s racial �payback.� If they play BD/SM games he may be turning her into his permisteral slave girl. You mentioned that �She is still the same loving wife (even kinkier than before).� How is she kinkier? I recommend open communication. If you talk to her about this in a calm, rational manner without playing the �blame game,� explaining that you have concerns about the erosion of your marriage, if she�s mature she should have no problem discussing the matter with you.

Jamesriske and wifntrng I want to thank you for your posts. Sandi and I talked some, although it�s difficult to start talking about all this without both of us getting very horny and ending up having sex. From our talks it seems pretty obvious that she�s nothing but a great piece of available ass to him. Her interest is being well-fucked Joe�s availability, that she likes that he makes her feel �trashy� as she puts it, and that it makes our sex extremely hot.
Wish I could write moe but she�s almost out of the shower and it�s late. She will be going to a Halloween party with him tomorrow night. Attached is a pic of the costume she ordered and is wearing. This is NOT a picture of my wife.
More later.
Bryan

SANDI's custume is VERY HOTT I bet her bull won't be able to keep his hands off her...they probably won't be at the party for long...they'll end up fucking very quickly...I know if my Hot Wife date came dressed like that I'd be in a hurry to get her alone! Let us know how it went.

I haven�t posted anything since October and I apologize for it. Life just got busy with the holidays and work. Let me try to quickly cover the events over the last few months.

Sandi went to a couple Halloween parties. As reported back in Oct., Sandi is still seeing Joe, ex-husband of her boss, Debra. It was Deb that actually hooked them up. Sandi went to the first party with Joe, and had a great time. He picked her up at work and took her to dinner, and then the party. They then left early and went back to his place for a couple hours of fucking. I started a detailed account of that night�s events but have yet to finish it. I hope to post it sometime soon.

The second Halloween party was one thrown by Debra for friends and some business clients. Deb introduced Sandi around and two guys were interested in her. Curtis (picture a younger Michael Clarke Duncan) was persistent but not obnoxious and she ended up sneaking into the garage with him, getting a good fucking, and then back inside to the party where she spent the rest of the night as his �date.� The other guy, Roy got her cell number but never called her.

From August through November Joe and Sandi were seeing each other one to three times a week. When the holidays hit schedules got crazy and they didn�t see each other too much until after New Year�s. Last month Sandi attended eight Christmas parties. One was my family, two were friends of ours, and the fourth was my workplace. Deb had a friends/family party and invited me and Sandi, but I had to cancel due to work. That party didn�t provide any opportunities for her to hook up with anyone. An office Christmas party at Deb�s home for coworkers and some clients provided another meeting with Curtis. He liked bending her over the hood of Deb�s BMW so much on Halloween that he insisted on taking Sandi into the garage again to fuck her.

Joe threw a dinner party for some friends and coworkers at his apartment, about twenty people, and invited her. Curtis called Sandi on short notice and took her to a party, and they got together once last month. While her relationship with Joe is social and hot sex, the situation with Curtis is a lot more detached and businesslike. Curtis is much like a domineering bull, with the sex being rough and trashy.

Things are the same, but different. While I feel very secure in my marriage, and so does she, we both have become accustomed to the fact that I like being married to a slutwife and Sandi enjoys being one. She loves being wanted by men, and loves when a man makes her his slut.

I think the only changes are her inhibitions being a lot less, perming her hair to avoid that freshly fucked tousled look, and the tattoo she got on her lower back. And our sex life is fantastic because she loves keeping me satisfied. As she said, as long as I�m happy she can have her cake and eat it too.
Bryan

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