From reading other guys's advice, you can see that everyone's situation and fantasies are going to be different. no two husbands are going to be the same. Like-wise, every wife will be different.
I have been married twice and lived with a woman in between. Only with wife number 2 did I develop cuckold tendencies. I met her when she was 22, 7 years younger than me, and it became apparent that she'd been quite promiscuous in the past. She already had two s0ns by two different men, but we hit it off and after awhile we moved in together and later married and had two dau8hters.
My job required me to work shifts, one week early, one week late, and over time my wife Debbie gradually developed a social life of her own. This might be dr1nking in our works' social club, playing darts for a ladies team in local pubs and clubs or the occasional night out with the girls. She made no secret that she enjoyed male company socially as much as, if not more than, female and men liked her easy going manner too.
As time went by it started to occur to me that her being out without me could well encourage guys, even those that I worked with, to try it on with Debbie and with her enjoying a dr1nk that she could be tempted or persuaded to take things further. I was rather surprised that the prospect aroused me as I'd always been insecure and possessive in my previous relationships. With Debbie it was different and I actually liked the thought of her having sex with someone else as long as I knew about it.
Slowly but surely over at least a two year period I gradually and occasionally mentioned the idea during our love-making. If she'd had a dr1nk Debbie was more turned on by the idea and the introduction of a realistic-looking sex toy into the bedroom really accelerated the process. She could see how aroused I was as I told her how good it was watching "another man's cock" going in and out of her pussy and how naughty she was doing it with "him" right there in front of her husband. "You love it!", she'd murmur as she came harder and noisier than usual.
She'd been particularly taken by a young singer in a band she'd seen in a club, telling a friend on the phone how wet and tingly her pussy had been just watching him on stage. She confessed in her early 30s that she had a thing about younger guys, early to mid 20s. As she'd enjoyed it so much I suggested that next time that band were in town she should go again and as that singer had chatted her up, this time accept his offer of going clubbing with him. If anything happened, I'd be fine about it as long as she came home and told me. "Yeah, as if!", she laughed, but gradually she came to realise that I was deadly serious.
By now she was working at a 24 hour convenience store in a nearby town. Soon she revealed that she was being chatted up by a regular customer, a young lad of 23. He'd asked her out, not in the least bothered that she was nearly 35 and married with 4 kids. She asked me if it was alright for her to go for a dr1nk with him after work one evening. Of course, I agreed, even giving her a pack of 3 condoms "just in case". Needless to say, after a few dr1nks it was back to his place and all three condoms got used before he let her come home.
Initially I was over the moon, excited, proud even, that my wife had been fucked by this eager young lad. A day or two later however, the "cuckold angst" set in, worried that I might lose my wife and kids to this guy. Though originally the plan was for her to see him a couple of times a week as her "bit on the side" I asked her not to. Coupled to the fact that he didn't contact her for days after they'd fucked, she felt dirty and used and we had a few quiet days, though I comforted her and cuddled up to her in bed to try and show her no harm had been done. She'd got the young cock she wanted, I'd got my wife fucked how I wanted and the lad had got some nice married pussy, so it was a win-win-win situation.
Hindsight is a wonderful thing, but I wished later I'd have held my nerve and let things play out. He did turn up eventually in search of a repeat performance but Debbie turned him down, but gradually over the years I regretted asking her to stop. I suggested from time to time that we should do it again. Her initial reaction was, "I'm not going down that road again", but eventually her view softened to "maybe", then "Are you sure you could handle it this time?" Nine years had now passed, but with the arrival of the internet and social media, Debbie now discovered dating sites and Facebook.
Although we'd originally agreed that she wouldn't go with anyone I knew so I couldn't put a face to the name, I soon found myself agreeing to her meeting up with an ex-workmate of mine, a ladies man who'd been after Debbie for years. Now older and wiser I handled them fucking much better than I would have done before and even surprised Debbie by eagerly licking his cum out of her after their first session, despite my suggestion they use condoms. I was absolutely fine was the fact that I knew him and that he'd fucked my wife bareback.
Saying that, we did grow apart and separated in 2012, divorcing 2 years later. I don't blame her cuckolding me for our split. I didn't regard it as being unfaithful. I'd suggested it, encouraged it, enjoyed it and if we could do it all again I would, though perhaps differently here and there. In our last year or two together Debbie did become quite secretive. I've found out since that she'd already fucked another workmate of mine a couple of months before what I'd thought was her first extra-marital encounter, that the guy I though had only fucked her twice was fucking her on and off for 2-3 years until he moved away and that on weekend visits to a female friend in a nearby seaside town, she'd soon started staying overnight at her mate's step-dad's place. Now 44, 45 she also went with a 25 year old soldier (2 Para) and a 28 year old security guard, so Debbie enjoyed a lot of cock whilst married to me. Whether she got bored of having to tell me about it or whether she got more enjoyment out of doing it behing my back, I'll never know. I've asked but she won't discuss it with me now.
I never watched Debbie having sex with anyone else and never particularly wanted to. I was happy for her to come home afterwards and tell me all about it in bed, but I hope my rambling account helps you in some way. Just remember, once the deed is done your wife can't be un-fucked. Also, although the two of you may think your have covered all the bases and discussed various scenarios, the third party, the other guy, may have other ideas and intentions. Worth remembering.
Here's some photos of my naughty wife.
Peter C
