Good cucks are difficult to find

I've been here for years and occasionally visit this site. I've seen requests for Bulls constantly and seen the genuine anguish that some folk have about finding a "good bull" folk who are really into this scene and not just fantasists realise the importance of a good relationship and a good bull. However, because I now live in a very remote part of the world, the chances to find a good cuck couple are slim so from time to time I look for an online cuck couple. You would think that this is an easy thing to find with countless cucks looking for Bulls.... But let me assure you it is extremely difficult. Firstly you get the the fantasists who haven't even spoke with their wives about it and are looking for help.... Now I understand that and have helped in the past, but most just like the quick story and give up within the week. The next category are the ones who want to go at a pace and what everything yesterday, they want to control from the bottom and can be quite impatient, they only care about their own agenda and not the bull or the wife. I also get the folk who just want a quick wank and have no real understanding of the psychology and for me the psychology is it all. Don't get me wrong I've met two couples here online that have been good and longer term, still friends with both couples but that takes time. Don't get me wrong, we all need a quick sexual release sometimes and that is great, and I'm not complaining too much, just wondering if a real cuck and wife are frequenting this site anymore. The site is obviously for cucks, but Bulls are also attracted here too, kinda makes sense. So the search continues for a cuck couple that understand that it isn't just all about sex and want the psychological aspect. Drop me a line or email if this resonates with you.

Wow! This could well be the definitive letter on the subject! Here's a guy/Bull who know's first hand just how difficult it can be to find the genuine article. As much as I like this site, and I do, it's full of 'wannabee's' and wishful thinkers, mostly looking for a cheap wank.
I've been involved in this lifestyle for over twenty years now, which is why when a genuine couple come along, and they're good, any Bull will want to hang on to them. At the same time, I'm always carefully cultivating firther contacts, weeding out over time, the real cuck couples from the wannabee's.
I've currently got three couples under 'training', one from this site and two from another site. Not there yet, but progress is visible! Gotta be patient sometimes, in real life you rarely meet a woman and you're fucking her within half an hour!
I can't agree more with what you say 'bovril'. Where are you by the way? pm me if needs be.

Cheers for that kenny, it can't be that difficult for some folk who are serious about cuckolding to contact a good bull. Even if they are good genuine folk it is still difficult as folk might be after different things at different times. But the amount of "humiliate me I'm a cuck" type requests I get from folk who can't even talk to their wife about is surprising.... I'm find with that as you have to have the thought before the actual event, but it is the bit about "I'm a cuck" that is difficult because they haven't yet been through the emotion of it .... It is just a sexy fantasy. And don't get me started on the fact that it is all about the wife's interest and enjoyment rather than the cucks.... Anyway I'm still looking for athe sensible couple that wants to take the journey . I'm glad you have found some good cucks on here Kenny..... It gives me some hope.

might I offer just a quick word of support for cucks.....



I completely understand and respect the frustration being expressed here. Let me assure you, from a cuck's POV, that the frustration is mutual. There are a few sincere cucks out here, but with a slight twist. The cucks are not only looking for a Bull, they are also looking for a hotwife. Either they are married, but their wife / relationship is not one that would lend itself to a cuckolding situation and the cuck is frustrated and looking outside the marriage for a bull/hotwife situation which, I know, is the antithesis of what a true cuckolding relationship (i.e. marriage) is. Or the cuck is not married, but is seeking a relationship with a woman that is open or desirous of a cuckolding relationship and the cuck might be going at it by both searching for the hotwife and/or searching for a hotwife through potential Bulls. Again I know that is not right or proper or probably most respectful of others, but sometimes out of desperation, the cucks are trying whatever they can. Perhaps they are submissive; perhaps they like race play; perhaps they like ***********; perhaps they realie they may not be able to please a woman; perhaps....well....who knows, there could be any number of "perhaps". So though the cuck may not have been able to pass this through a current or future wife, the cuck is sincere and is looking to submit to either or or both a potential Bull and Hotwife.

Sorry if I am being out of left field - I just thought I would share a little from a frustrated yet sincere, future desiring cuck........

Reading between the lines it's possible then that we end up with a situation where absolutely nobody is actually getting what they want! Depressing isn't it! It just reinforces the need for 'genuine' cucks to show themselves.

Thank you both for your replies. I absolutely understand that cucks or wannabe cucks find it difficult too, but there are good Bulls here who really understand it.... Just because Lenny and I are Bulls it doesn't mean that we will not be choosy in the cucks and wives we meet.... There lies the problem. Just because you are a cuck looking for a bull and I am a bull looking for a couple doesn't mean that we will hit it off, so many things need to be in place....it's great that we have one thing in common, but she, race, levels of *********** and or pain etc all have to be mutually agreed I do find it very difficult to find a cuck worthy enough to serve me. An example (made up but generally typical), someone puts out an ad looking for a bull, lots description in first email, telling me all that he wants and how he can't talk to his wife about it. Pretty much all about him. A reply from me highlighting that this is about psychology and putting his wife and my pleasure before his and that he will be pushed to areas where he might not want to go to... But that is the reality (not the fucking fantasy).... He agrees and I give him a few basic instructions to carry out..... He cannot comply and the emails stop. No respect for the bulk and no respect for his wife. Now I know that not all cucks are like this, I've met a couple on hear that really stand out and get it..... But that is my point, a good cuck is really very difficult to find. If you are a good cuck, I would like you to contact me.

Well said! That's my point exactly.

So kenny, where are they? There are close to 100000 users on here.... Most of them I think are cucks. Are there any true cucks or wannabes that really, and I mean REALLY, are wanting to progress with Bulls that know what this is all about?

Captions appear to be the most popular section so perhaps it is all fantasy stuff.... Should there be a specific section for Bulls??? I'm not sure how many Bulls use this site though? there has to be a few along with some fakes I guess.

Good Bulls are difficult to find - a lot more difficult! there are far fewer out there than cucks.......lol

But ist is very interesting to have this open description from a Bull - and that in the end, it is still a function of mutual attraction, as my wife always says - and in the end she makes the selection - there has to be some chemistry between her and the Dom, or its not going to happen. Yes, we cucks are easily excited and hoocked on a potential Bull, maybe because they all have 8 inch wide hands lol........ honesty goes both ways!

Totally agree Larry.... Honesty does go both ways. Some cucks are very well endowed, but bring a cuck or a bull is all between the ears not the legs

You also have to look at it from the wife's perspective. My husband and I decided to try this lifestyle because we changed over the years. We raised our kids, he is constantly away for work and has a couple medical problems that make it hard to please me physically. We both love each other and always will. He's okay with me stepping out on a date or two, as long as I'm safe. Or at least as safe as I can be. If you go on to free sites, you get alot of fakes too. I have met a man that lives far away. He is also married. So, hopefully I can find a nice young black man to fill my needs on a regular basis. First, I think that you need to chat, then meet to decide if you want to do anything with him. And as far as size goes, I came the hardest in my life when my pussy was stretched by that thick black cock. Everyone has a preference for race, cock size, body type, etc... How he acts though is probably just as important as his cock size. Yes, if I do hook up and everything is great, I will keep that one guy. I don't need a gang, just one great one. Oh, by the way, I'm real!

Thank you for response. You make excellent points and I can see what you say little wild. If you get someone good keep hold of them is what I say. Glad you got your bull

Ah I wish one or two of you lovely bulls were in our life !

It is very difficult to talk with your straight A wife about how you want to be a cuckold to her and another man, hopefully a much bigger dicked man than you, it took me forever to finally convince my wife Donna to try this because she thought all I wanted was to meet other women and that I didn't love her anymore. I am always on the lookout for a big dick bull here in Atlanta or near here for Donna and she is also. It was a very big surprise the first time she came home very excited and said she had found a man she wanted to fuck, that was a red letter day-and yes she did fuck his brains out.

It is very difficult to talk with your straight A wife about how you want to be a cuckold to her and another man, hopefully a much bigger dicked man than you, it took me forever to finally convince my wife Donna to try this because she thought all I wanted was to meet other women and that I didn't love her anymore. I am always on the lookout for a big dick bull here in Atlanta or near here for Donna and she is also. It was a very big surprise the first time she came home very excited and said she had found a man she wanted to fuck, that was a red letter day-and yes she did fuck his brains out.