where to hookup suggestions in phx, az

hi all
anyone have any suggestions on a good place to watch wife get hit on and maybe more in the phx area. we dont go out to bars very often and nor do i know if this is the best place or not. i was thinking of someplace that has dancing as this would get her in the arms of another man along with maybe some touching/groping. I dont want sleazy but wouldnt mind some place with dark corners where she/he could have some alone time.

we are new to this and dont know how to really get things going but thought this would be a good start. there is also a swingers club in the area which i would love to go but worried about what to expect.

if you can share any insight i would appreciate it