NYC-Wish you discuss sex life with a friend?

Well I'd like to be that friend. I've tried this ad before but haven't been able to find someone who was serious about this. I am actually looking to find a friend. Another guy who is in a similar situation as me. I have a very beautiful and sexy wife who I wish would be more adventurous with our sex life. Not that our sex life is bad, it's just that I need for adventure. My wife has on occasion expressed a willingness to experiment with including others in our sex life but that is usually while we are having sex and the willingness soon dissipates. I still have hope that one day we as a couple will experience a hot session with another couple but I have come to realize that is would have to be something that developed over time and maybe "just happened". So I would like to find a married guy who would like to chat and get to know (and trust) each other so we can chat about our wives and trade pictures and figure out a way to get the 4 of us together over time...."as friends". In the meantime we could have fun knowing the details about each others wives. Wouldn't it be fun to sit across from each others wives at dinner knowing how sexy they look naked, what panties they are wearing (can you save them for me?). When the couples are together the husbands could occasionally steer the conversation toward sex. I have friends with very hot wives who I think the husbands would be open to this type of thing but how do you come out and ask them? This way, I ask the question first and then become friends! In order for this to work we would need to be attracted to each others wives and we'd need to be in a similar lifestyle. We live in lower Westchester and I work in Manhattan. We are both professionals, in decent shape and look and act younger than we are. If you are in a similar situation let's chat and see if there is chemistry. I know it's a long shot but figure it's worth the try.