Stud4MyWife
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We are a well-educated, conservative, professional married white couple in the NE suburbs of Atlanta, both in our mid-30’s, average in most respects, but with some strong fantasies we would like to live out. My beautiful wife is 5’5”, about 130lbs, 34C, and a brunette, with very sexy legs – I think they are one of her best assets, and she frequently gets comments on them as well.
We have been fantasizing about many sexual scenarios since before we got married, however, the one that is the most exciting to us is the “wife has sex with another man while husband watches” fantasy. There is just something about this that is a thrill for both of us. While we have discussed swinging extensively, I have some light cuckold and voyeuristic tendencies which make us lean towards allowing her be the only one who can take a lover outside our marriage. I should point out that she has always been very prim and proper and has never strayed outside the marriage.
One of our biggest turn-ons during our sex play is when we talk about her taking a more well-endowed stud inside her while I watch on and masturbate. This really gets both of us going. Husband is only 5.5 inches fully erect.
While this is a big fantasy for us, we do have our limits and boundaries. For one, this needs to be very discreet. Secondly, while my wife does enjoy a dominant guy sexually, we aren’t looking for a guy to take over in our marriage and change the whole game. While I do have cuckold tendencies, I love my wife very much and just want this experience to bring us both heightened pleasure and enhance our relationship. We both realize there is the very real possibility of jealousy, as well as other emotional issues that could surface, although we are both very secure in our relationship. Since there is no way to predict such a thing, so we need to proceed slowly and carefully. We do both want to establish friendship with the guy, so things are comfortable as they move along. I am not sure whether I will feel embarrassed or strange hanging out with a guy knowing he has been relaxing with my wife, but our ideal is to find a situation where it isn't weird, but familiar and comfortable – if this is indeed possible.
While it may be fun for some guys to sit and home and think about what his wife and lover are doing, we both have a strong preference for me being there to watch her. It really turns me on to think of only being allowed to pleasure her orally to get her ready for her stud, but then have to move away once she is primed and ready for action. I may also kiss my wife and she may touch me occasionally, but intercourse would be reserved for her stud and his superior cock only. There may be a time or two where it might be exhilarating for me to listen from another room to my wife’s moans and cries of ecstasy at the touch of her lover, however, I would always be nearby. This is just a big part of our fantasy. I think it will be a much bigger rush for me to watch the 1st time my bride spreads her legs for another man’s cock, and the first time she takes his cock in her mouth. She very rarely gives me oral sex, but we have both decided it would be very hot if she did this for her lover regularly, especially if he enjoys it. We have also decided that on nights where she has a "date" with her guy, I would be forbidden from intercourse with her even beforehand. Again, this turns us both on immensely, knowing that another man can enjoy my wife while I must watch and masturbate only.
We would like to find a guy for a regular affair with her, but also need for any guy she gets involved with to respect the fact that we have a family – young youngren in fact. So advance notice to get together would always be required, and since life with kids can get hectic at times, we need someone who is understanding and would not pressure us in any way. Our schedule can change on a moment’s notice. Friendship is important to establish here, but she isn’t looking for romance here, just good sex. Of course she still wants to be treated like a lady when not in the bedroom. While we are open to a lot of things, but pain is definitely not one of them.
Ideally, the guy we seek is masculine and confident (but not arrogant), ages 30-40, have and disease-free, preferably well-endowed, and with a similar background to us. We aren’t picky about whether you are single or married, but she won’t play with a married man unless we know he is being truthful with his own wife about what he is doing. We are very open with each other and expect that of others as well. Please NO bi or bi-curious men as husband is 100% straight and not interested in play with a guy under any circumstances. We prefer that you have not been a “bed-hopper”, and if you have limited play experience, that is perfectly ok as long as you meet our other requirements.
We aren’t looking to rush things here as we have had a few past negative experiences when initially conversing with guys. We will exchange photos only after a mutual trust has been established and we determine there is compatibility to move forward and possibly meet.
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