How has fucking other men affected your marriage

My husband has been after me for three years to start fucking other men. I love my husband and am totally against it, however I often wonder how the women's marriage has been affected. Please vote the answer which best applies to your situation and any messages would certainly be very helpful and appreciated as I try to decide what to do.
Donna Robinette

It definitely made our relationship much closer and better!

Cum on girls Please Vote and I need your comments.
Donna Robinette

I am the wife of wimpmanm and I need to screw around, he has told you.

But my fucking other men has helped our marriage, he knows he cannot totally satisfy my needs but I love him and he loves me.

Ours has been absolutely strengthened.

I think you have to make sure that he is truly cut out for this before you do it.

My wife and I do it and it's worked out fantastically for both of us. She gets the sex she wants and feels free and I get to watch! But admittedly, I wasn't sure how I would really react if she did it or if bad feelings would creep in later on.

My advice to all is to start small and go slow. Just have a guy come over and give him a massage and hand job at first. That way, if your husband ultimately reacts badly, it was just a hand job and all will be forgiven. But if it's a turn on for you both, you can take the next step and maybe suck him a little the next time. See how that goes. Then the next time, give him a full on blowjob while your husband watches and so on. Just keep increasing the level of involvement in a fun way and discuss things after and take your time. Let the feelings sink in and discuss it every step of the way. That way, there's no chance of ruining the marriage or relationship and you can both explore this kinky stuff in a fun way.

That's what worked for us and that's what I recommend.

We started slow... actually we talked about it endlessly and my first other was a friend of his, whose wife my husband had enjoyed before we met. So it was an 'evening things up' kinda thing.
From there, it went to an ex of mine that he didnt feel threatened by, and then a couple of threesomes and some trips to the swingers groups' parties.
Once we got used to our sex being hotter because we were talking about the fucking I was getting, we incorporated it into our bdsm play, and when I got promoted and the chance to travel about 3/4 of the time, we decided to up the ante and incorporate full cuckolding and full slavery. Now I decide who I fuck and whether he'll get any when I come home. We've agreed to do this for the next year, and when my contract comes up, if I renew it, we might keep going, and if not, the fun might change.
So far Ive 'met' with 7 gentlemen in 4 states and 3 have gotten more than a meeting over coffee. My husband and I talk every day and its the teasing and tormenting thats making the distance between us a positive.
I come home this weekend and might keep him in his chastity device and make him wait another month

My advice... be careful. Relationship must be STRONG and at its strongest else watch out, someone is going to get hurt. It made mine stronger and I think because I was patient and forgiving it worked to my advantage.

My fiancee and I have opposite permisteralities... I'm the meek and reserved one, she is the wild, aggressive and sarcastic one. She met a guy at work who is just like her in every way. She knew about my fantasy and she would often taunt me about having her way with other guys (although she had told me she would NEVER "cheat") Well our relationship was not going so well... and she would keep hanging out with this guy John and eventually ended up at his place several times. Everything was innocent until one night he kissed her and then the "innocence" was gone. They fucked like rabbits not once but three times. She confessed to me, felt horrible about it. I was actually turned on yet jealous because she did it more out of succumbing to the weakness she felt... our relationship was on the rocks at time, so it was like he fillled this emotional gap.

To make a long story short, I had to deal with the fact that I had let her down, that cuckolding didn't happen to me for erotic reamisters but she actually had an affair, which I did not consent to. This can be a possible side effect, if the wife falls in love with her bull. Even though the cuck provides for her in every possible way, she might develop feelings for him. Its not for everyone.

To this day, I've reminded her that our relationship could withstand her not only cheating but having an affair. That was the test. Make sure you think about that ahead of time. Not every guy can share the emotional part.

All good info, I'm a bull, so I look at it from a different angle than the couple.

the short of it, there needs to be a good relationship prior to this, on a sexual/sensual level it clearly elevated things, on the interpermisteral level it can and often does strain the relationship. What I've experienced, is if it was strong, it can get better, even deeper, if weak or otherwise uncertain, tends to break things.

MistressV


where are you located, sweete?

we have been doing this a open relationship for 14 years now and i love my wife more than i ever have. it is more than sex it is bonding with another permister. to see my wife with 1 or 2 men at one time is not just a turn on but it is so much more. we love it.
christopher l. batten

I'm near Chicago, but trave to the east coast more than the W.

But perhaps we can hook up sometime...