Quoting: SvarteKvinne
I am black woman in Europe who is new to this lifestyle - I have a couple of questions;
Have you ever managed to sustain a ltr with a cuckold?
Do cuckolds just end up commanding the relationship?
I have sustained two ltr's with cuckolds. The first was when I was 21 and it was with my ex-husband and lasted five years; the second began when I was 28 and lasted six years. Both ended for reamisters not related to the lifestyle. I discovered during these relationships that this type of sex was
FAR MORE satisfying (mind blowing fantastic actually) than more "conventional" sex (I know the standard term is "vanilla" but I hate using that!)
As far as a cuckold commanding the relationship? Well, at this stage of the game (no pun inferred) I can't imagine being commanded by anyone! I have discovered that it is well worth waiting for what you want instead of settling for what you
think may be okay. Be honest with yourself and your cuck about what you will and WILL NOT tolerate. Be clear - be concise - and don't put up with any bullcuckolds brownie that ***s your carved in stone boundaries. Only you know your internal checklist for what makes you happy, and only you know what you are willing/*** to compromise on. You will know soon enough into your interactions or communications with someone whether or not they are worth your time and effort.
