bull to be friend desired

44 yr old male, wife is 41 but looks more like an exotic, glamorous 30. Naturally busty, beautiful woman with long brown hair and green eyes. A real head turner, and the love of my life. I'm fantasizing about sharing her considerable charms with another man - a bull for her, if you will. I've shared the fantasy with her, and it really excites her, but we have not done anything yet. I'd like to find a pen pal that could then lead to IM, perhaps to phone, and perhaps to meeting to discuss my wife in detail. We could even put a seduction plan together if we became friends.

I am near DC, but willing to chat with bulls from all over. Thanks!