The Seeker
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I recently joined this site and want to introduce myself.
I'm The Seeker, from Southeastern Pennsylvania; mid-60s, a divorced white man, recently retired. I'm 5'9", in good physical condition although still ten pounds over my ideal weight. My once dark-brown, later steel-gray, hair has, sadly, mostly gone. What's left, I keep stubble-cut for convenience and cleanliness. I have a stubble-cut small beard and moustache. I'm educated, well-mannered, world-traveled and a demanding but considerate lover.
I recently visited this site as a guest and was delighted to find a community of wife-sharers. I was brought into wife-sharing as a young man of 19, by a husband/wife couple in their 40s. They were part of a very small, carefully concealed, subculture in those sexually repressed days of the very late 1950s and my relationship with them helped shape my current sexual desires. Both of them were actively but selectively bisexual and I am, too.
I've been married and divorced twice and have had long, serious intimate relationships with a dozen or so other women. All but two of the women in my life participated in sharing with me. My second wife was my best partner-in-sharing. At first, she was reluctant to try it. But she agreed to give it a six-month trial if we could fingd the right man. We found our guy a few months later and, after the first few weekends of high-intensity sex with two men, she quickly became an enthusiastic convert.
Over the years, we sampled the full spectrum of "social sex" from swing clubs (b-a-a-d !) to multi-couple private swings and two-and three-couple swapping. All our experiences were interesting and exhilarating but nothing was as exciting and satisfying as our threesomes and foursomes with other men. We practiced wife-sharing for the duration of our marriage.
That marriage later dissolved for non-sexual reamisters. Our sex was great, up until the end. In fact, the month our divorce was granted, we attended a weekend-long Holiday Swing together. Since the divorce, I've stayed in the wife-sharing scene, as a dominant single man.
My last couple (in their late 50s) and I had a four-year relationship which ended when the wife, the main wage-earner, took a much higher-paying job in a state a considerable distance from where I live.
Right now, I'm looking for a healthy (height/weight proportional), happy, gracious, well-mannered couple at least 60 years old, not heavy takeers or haveusers, not tattooed or pierced ! I want to meet ordinary, attractive people. Movie-star good looks are not a requirement. My interest is in a longer-term relationship, not a one-nighter. I live in southeastern Pennsylvania and travel frequently in the area between Maine and Maryland.
I think I can be of special interest and value to those older men browsing this site who are no longer as virile as they once were and might need my assistance in tending to their wives' needs. I'm looking forward to connecting with a couple in need.
Thanks for taking the time to read this. chercheur
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