Humiliating, Erotic Divorce and Slavery Afterwards

Since a cuck is a man who's wife has sex with other men, once you're divorced you wouldn't be a cuck. You'd just be another divorced guy trying to get pussy...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Looking back on my last divorce it was very painful emotionally but also erotic it was a whole bundle of her meeting a new male a real man, me struggling with sliding further and further into sissy cuckold sexual cravings that on the whole she encouraged and teased out of me, after a while of being apart where we did not have any contact with each other we started to talk again and meet at odd times for a coffee, now although our relationship was over somehow the divorce we initiated became part of the cuckold lifestyle we had, she was very dominant still and got everything she wanted, I on the other hand would still buy her presents of sexy lingerie and stockings to excite her new man, for nearly two years she kept me in a chastity device after we had split and I had to give her money to be able to fiddle with myself. she encouraged me to have other sissy girlfriends, these days we have long chats that centre on her continuing dominance over me and these often have me in tears as the split was really all my fault for wanting to move forward to quickly with her dominating and cuckolding me, as she says now I would have had everything and more if I had just done as I was told at the time and let her do things her way.
So even though we are divorced he still has total control over me at the end of the day she tells me what she wants me to do sexually and I comply? some of it is horrendous faggot stuff that degrades me, she knows how to keep my mind totally fucked up over her and loves the power she exerts over me still.

Well, that's the thing. People now stretch the definition to fit their personal desires. You hit the nail on the head with "self-imposed". Some guys label themselves cucks, when they're really not.

I've seen ads on Craigslist for cuckold play between 2 gay, single men in the M4M ads. They define cuck as one guy blowing another. It's become so convoluted that people forget what a cuckold really is.

That's not to say someone still doesn't have cuck desires after a divorce... or find pleasure in the fact that his wife is now remarried and having sex with another man. It's an addictive fetish. Those strong urges could linger long after the ex-wife has moved on. It's just that the ex-husband now falls outside the traditional definition of a cuckold.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

that I will agree with its a definition but once a sissy cuckold always a sissy cuckold as your going into the future searching for the next cuckoldress

Since sexual desire, sexual fetishes or indeed perversions are all states of mind, and are in no way physical manifestations, and while at the same time accepting that no one on this planet can regulate what you think or the thoughts you harbor in your mind, then one can "think" oneself to be anything one wants. No label, tag or name is going to place you in a state of thought, or being, that runs counter to who/what you perceive yourself to be.

So what I call myself, and feel myself to be, is the only thing that matters, no law, regulation or rule can make me into something I do not want to be, in my minds eye. It can however alter how I am regarded or treat by fellow beings, officials and government, but as the saying goes, "...walls do not a prison make".

pops

Ha!! Nah... I just typed "cuck*" in the search box and lo and behold I got some M4M ads looking for cuckold play between two gay dudes. That's when I knew that cuck had pretty much lost its meaning and had become whatever someone chooses it to be...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I am old school in that words have a definition and should be used that way. That will not only be gramtically correct but it will prevent misunderstandings in relationships due to vague and creative meanings.

I share your fondness for old school prescriptive approaches to English, but I think you are overly optimistic that it will prevent misunderstandings. Indeed, strict adherence of original definitions can have the opposite effect if the common usage has evolved.

Take "cuckold" itself. The "old school" definition of the noun is a husband who is/has been deceived by an unfaithful wife. (Or as the OED puts it: "a derisive name for the husband of an unfaithful wife.") So, fetishists (like all of us here) who are "into it" ("wittols," technically) do not qualify. Nor do unmarried partners no matter how serious or long-term their relationship. Nor single-sex partners. Nor women who are cucked by their man ("cuckqueans," technically.)

This strict definition of the word is still common in legal usage in the English speaking world and appears often in the news media and in contemporary literature. But it can create absurd misunderstandings when applied to fetish and sex play, where cuckolding refers to a consensual BDSM erotic arrangement between partners who are often unmarried. It will also confuse if used in psychology and psychiatry, where a clinical definition closer to the fetish usage is standard.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

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I for one would enjoy hearing all about your servitude to your ex and her superior man, in detail of course!

bohemage

Who know's? There might be all kinds of things going on behind your back that you're excluded from! It gives your fertile imagination to go to great lengths!

moved to Divorce/Ex-wife cuckolding

I must confess that the thought of it often makes me sexually aroused. I guess it's one of my deepest, darkest fantasies - after separating from my wife, to become a cuckold slave of her and her new husband, with no rights
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Submissive Cuckold - lives for many years in a female-led marriage with a cuckold lifestyle.

does anyone else feel the same way? What do you think about it?
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Submissive Cuckold - lives for many years in a female-led marriage with a cuckold lifestyle.